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Finally went down with covid for two weeks, so was expecting a rough outing. It’s quite sad compared to the amount of momentum I’d been feeling two weeks ago. All good, I know my strategies for handling bad momentum states, so I focused on some easier approaches and lowering my standards to go after some sets to build that momentum back up.
Started off the night with a wing, though we didn’t do many approaches. We separated for a bit, and I saw him talking to a stunner he ended up pulling. I switched to my usual venue since it didn’t seem like he needed me.
Went there and stood in line for about 15 minutes before getting in. Opened a few body rocks, but wasn’t able to make much. I eventually changed strategies to focus on easier approaches and try to build my momentum up. I talked to some of the bouncers, and got a little more social with every interaction. What is annoying is my fundamentals are unquestionably strong at this moment, but my approach anxiety comes in the way of unleashing myself. Will do lots of TRE this week. Like I would catch girls glancing at me, and assume it was because I looked weird or creepy by myself.
Anyway, I eventually spot a pair of girls, not too cute, but enough. I open them indirectly with an observation about the venue. It goes well and they bite, and I balance conversation between the two of them while showing enough interest to my target to keep it clear who I’m going for.
The seduction is pretty cookie cutter. Go through different SOTs, and build up some good sex talk lite using the purity gambit and male-female interactions. I qualify her, seed a pull, etc. The only portent of a hiccup is that she says she doesn’t do hook ups, and also her friend is still right there next to us, but at portions of the meatier conversation I keep some part between just the two of us.
I suggest we go to a nearby spanish bar with good music and the girl is down. At this point her friend was talking to another guy, and I was hoping my girl could just come with me alone. I realize I made a mistake here by not letting the other guy build up compliance in the friend, so she’d stay with him instead of coming with us. It also would have worked if the friend had brought the other guy with her to the second place. Need to be more mindful next time.
After that, we went to the other bar, and it’s closed. Turns out it closes at 2:30, which is weird as I’d gone there at 4 a few weeks ago. But not good, hurts my frame and makes me lose some authority. I pivot and say we can go back to the place we were at, but the bouncer won’t let us in. Also not good. Final call I say let’s go to the chill bar across the street. We head there and I offer to buy a drink as an apology for the wild goose chase.
A little bit later, I suggest we grab a drink at mine. The girls decide to come with me, and we walk to mine. So I have two girls at my place. What to do? I have them play some good music, and I realize I’m just going to have to escalate while the friend is there. I get an opening when my girl says she’s not good at dancing. Her friend encourages us to dance in my apartment, and at one point the friend is bending down to look for something, and I use the opportunity to do a quick make out with my girl. We dance a bit, and then sit down, but the it’s on moment has happened. I suggest that I show my girl a piece of art I hang in my bedroom. She’s down, and from there I just keep escalating. Only thing worth mentioning here is I ask her if her friend is going to be okay with this, and she says yeah. The friend actually leaves on her own while we’re hooking up.
Anyway, the girl isn’t down to go all the way, so I try escalating three times before I let it go.
Started off the night with a wing, though we didn’t do many approaches. We separated for a bit, and I saw him talking to a stunner he ended up pulling. I switched to my usual venue since it didn’t seem like he needed me.
Went there and stood in line for about 15 minutes before getting in. Opened a few body rocks, but wasn’t able to make much. I eventually changed strategies to focus on easier approaches and try to build my momentum up. I talked to some of the bouncers, and got a little more social with every interaction. What is annoying is my fundamentals are unquestionably strong at this moment, but my approach anxiety comes in the way of unleashing myself. Will do lots of TRE this week. Like I would catch girls glancing at me, and assume it was because I looked weird or creepy by myself.
Anyway, I eventually spot a pair of girls, not too cute, but enough. I open them indirectly with an observation about the venue. It goes well and they bite, and I balance conversation between the two of them while showing enough interest to my target to keep it clear who I’m going for.
The seduction is pretty cookie cutter. Go through different SOTs, and build up some good sex talk lite using the purity gambit and male-female interactions. I qualify her, seed a pull, etc. The only portent of a hiccup is that she says she doesn’t do hook ups, and also her friend is still right there next to us, but at portions of the meatier conversation I keep some part between just the two of us.
I suggest we go to a nearby spanish bar with good music and the girl is down. At this point her friend was talking to another guy, and I was hoping my girl could just come with me alone. I realize I made a mistake here by not letting the other guy build up compliance in the friend, so she’d stay with him instead of coming with us. It also would have worked if the friend had brought the other guy with her to the second place. Need to be more mindful next time.
After that, we went to the other bar, and it’s closed. Turns out it closes at 2:30, which is weird as I’d gone there at 4 a few weeks ago. But not good, hurts my frame and makes me lose some authority. I pivot and say we can go back to the place we were at, but the bouncer won’t let us in. Also not good. Final call I say let’s go to the chill bar across the street. We head there and I offer to buy a drink as an apology for the wild goose chase.
A little bit later, I suggest we grab a drink at mine. The girls decide to come with me, and we walk to mine. So I have two girls at my place. What to do? I have them play some good music, and I realize I’m just going to have to escalate while the friend is there. I get an opening when my girl says she’s not good at dancing. Her friend encourages us to dance in my apartment, and at one point the friend is bending down to look for something, and I use the opportunity to do a quick make out with my girl. We dance a bit, and then sit down, but the it’s on moment has happened. I suggest that I show my girl a piece of art I hang in my bedroom. She’s down, and from there I just keep escalating. Only thing worth mentioning here is I ask her if her friend is going to be okay with this, and she says yeah. The friend actually leaves on her own while we’re hooking up.
Anyway, the girl isn’t down to go all the way, so I try escalating three times before I let it go.
