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I'm looking for advice on establishing rapport and teasing after the opener during day-game.
I've noticed that my conversations don't flow smoothly after the opener: I typically am not able to hook on a topic that concerns the environment or the girl. Also, I'm just starting out with teasing and am looking for advice to calibrate that to put girls at ease. I've noticed that it's easier for me to tease a girl naturally who I think isn't beautiful. I've got a hunch that I'm fluctuating between the extremes of putting women on a pedestal and being slightly ticked off at them for being so beautiful. As a result, the teasing that I do often comes out to be too harsh. Not a good headspace. I realize that it's about having many reference points. How would I start out?
If the girl is immediately receptive to my direct opener, I just go for setting up a date. However, this happens less frequently than the girl being open to brief chit-chat but needing to be won over. After my direct opener (often the "Are you single?") I usually ramble about random boring shit like the weather, where they're from, what they're studying (I'm in a college environment).
What usually happens after this is the girl excuses herself to leave. Since I'm meeting them on the street, they by definition usually need to get somewhere. Poof and gone!
I'm confident that I could have great success with girls that aren't immediately receptive if I get hone these skills (especially teasing). After all, the right mindset in day game may take a girl from thinking about something technical or mundane to thinking about hanging with me.
I look forward to your ideas!
I've noticed that my conversations don't flow smoothly after the opener: I typically am not able to hook on a topic that concerns the environment or the girl. Also, I'm just starting out with teasing and am looking for advice to calibrate that to put girls at ease. I've noticed that it's easier for me to tease a girl naturally who I think isn't beautiful. I've got a hunch that I'm fluctuating between the extremes of putting women on a pedestal and being slightly ticked off at them for being so beautiful. As a result, the teasing that I do often comes out to be too harsh. Not a good headspace. I realize that it's about having many reference points. How would I start out?
If the girl is immediately receptive to my direct opener, I just go for setting up a date. However, this happens less frequently than the girl being open to brief chit-chat but needing to be won over. After my direct opener (often the "Are you single?") I usually ramble about random boring shit like the weather, where they're from, what they're studying (I'm in a college environment).
What usually happens after this is the girl excuses herself to leave. Since I'm meeting them on the street, they by definition usually need to get somewhere. Poof and gone!
I'm confident that I could have great success with girls that aren't immediately receptive if I get hone these skills (especially teasing). After all, the right mindset in day game may take a girl from thinking about something technical or mundane to thinking about hanging with me.
I look forward to your ideas!
