Temporarily LDR and reuniting in 2 months. Tired of gaming her.
- Thread starter Mr Sharp
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Mr Sharp,
First off, long distance relationships never made much sense to me. There's a ton of girls where I live, so why would i need to find one that is in another city. let alone another country?
All that aside, I would not recommend moving in with her if you want the two of you be an item. No good will come of this and you said so yourself that you are too reliant on her at this point because you plan on moving there.
My suggestion would be to cut contact with her now. Focus on girls where you currently live. The time you are spending chatting this girl online could be used to meet girls that live in your city. If and when you do decide to move there, do it without this girl's help. You don't want to be dependent on someone that has not proven themselves to be reliable. If things end up going somewhere with her when you get there, great. But only once you get there.
Anyone who honestly believes they are keeping another person interested in a LDR with no sex is a little naive. Unless the people were dating for a long time prior to it becoming a LDR, but even then, I'd say it its almost impossible to keep the individual parties from drifting apart.
-John
First off, long distance relationships never made much sense to me. There's a ton of girls where I live, so why would i need to find one that is in another city. let alone another country?
All that aside, I would not recommend moving in with her if you want the two of you be an item. No good will come of this and you said so yourself that you are too reliant on her at this point because you plan on moving there.
My suggestion would be to cut contact with her now. Focus on girls where you currently live. The time you are spending chatting this girl online could be used to meet girls that live in your city. If and when you do decide to move there, do it without this girl's help. You don't want to be dependent on someone that has not proven themselves to be reliable. If things end up going somewhere with her when you get there, great. But only once you get there.
Anyone who honestly believes they are keeping another person interested in a LDR with no sex is a little naive. Unless the people were dating for a long time prior to it becoming a LDR, but even then, I'd say it its almost impossible to keep the individual parties from drifting apart.
-John
