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I may be beating a dead horse here for some of you but I still wanted to put this thought in the air.
If you happened to stumble across my recent post on shit tests i’d mentioned that I had a hard time for the longest distinguishing shit tests in normal conversation. The concept was hard to grasp when explained by other seducers whether by word of mouth or on paper, the concept never really rung a bell if yknow what i'm saying. I believe this to be because the examples people use are all different depending on the individual because we are all different.
But I digress FINALLY I was able to grasp the concept after an interaction with a girl i’d been gaming. Like a cartoonish light bulb went off above my head I understood just like that.
I’ve been revisiting articles on shit tests trying to find the best ways to respond and what works and what doesn’t. I tend to be witty, smooth, and sometimes snarky or arrogant in my responses when provoked. But it’s not always a sure thing every time. So I believe this might’ve been a major hole in my game just off of not being aware when I was tested. Now that i’m aware girls have been 100% more submissive earlier on in interactions i’ve had.
But this made me notice something and just to clarify i’m 18 years old. I stay with a snappy mom and a arrogant younger sister, similar to me in many ways. When I was way younger I used to hate my life because it seemed like they were always bringing me down in some way. I always thought they were playing mind games. Then after a while I became so arrogant in myself that I started putting them below me verbally when they’d try to provoke a reaction, to be completely blunt. This caused them to be doting, loving, affectionate, and submissive. From an early age I’d beat their “tests” without knowing thats what they were. I now realize that they were in fact testing me and it was never malicious. They were unconsciously hardening me to be attractive in their eyes. After a while these became my auto pilot responses to them and our relationship became almost harmonious in my eyes.
This may not have been the same for everyone, but my dad was in jail for a good 10 years so i’ve been the man of the house since about 9 years old. I’m thinking this caused them to look to me as the leader of the pack unconsciously.
Don’t get me wrong i’m not trying to game my family but I think shit tests are deeper than seduction or sexual attraction. I believe its about females wanting to feel dominant energy from the men they want to respect. It’s very primal. At least thats my summation. Obviously it’s different for a girl you aren’t related to as passing tests boosts sexual attraction for them it seems.
I’m basically a novice at understanding tests because I just became consciously aware of them. I’ve always been pretty arrogant with girls but for some reason I think I might’ve softened up on girls who I perceived as 8s 9s or 10s and this caused me to lose them in the past. Their tests were potent and even though I’ve never really been a nice guy I feel I may have broken over tests instead of keeping true to my dominance. Now that I’m aware of tests I’m hoping i’ll never lose a girl who’s on the hook from my own conscious mistakes again. I’d much rather be cock blocked by a venue, a boyfriend, a friend, a friend of a friend, her mom, or cat or dog, than my own mistakes ever again. Nothing worse than losing a girl who’s basically throwing you her vagina because you can’t read between the lines.
If you happened to stumble across my recent post on shit tests i’d mentioned that I had a hard time for the longest distinguishing shit tests in normal conversation. The concept was hard to grasp when explained by other seducers whether by word of mouth or on paper, the concept never really rung a bell if yknow what i'm saying. I believe this to be because the examples people use are all different depending on the individual because we are all different.
But I digress FINALLY I was able to grasp the concept after an interaction with a girl i’d been gaming. Like a cartoonish light bulb went off above my head I understood just like that.
I’ve been revisiting articles on shit tests trying to find the best ways to respond and what works and what doesn’t. I tend to be witty, smooth, and sometimes snarky or arrogant in my responses when provoked. But it’s not always a sure thing every time. So I believe this might’ve been a major hole in my game just off of not being aware when I was tested. Now that i’m aware girls have been 100% more submissive earlier on in interactions i’ve had.
But this made me notice something and just to clarify i’m 18 years old. I stay with a snappy mom and a arrogant younger sister, similar to me in many ways. When I was way younger I used to hate my life because it seemed like they were always bringing me down in some way. I always thought they were playing mind games. Then after a while I became so arrogant in myself that I started putting them below me verbally when they’d try to provoke a reaction, to be completely blunt. This caused them to be doting, loving, affectionate, and submissive. From an early age I’d beat their “tests” without knowing thats what they were. I now realize that they were in fact testing me and it was never malicious. They were unconsciously hardening me to be attractive in their eyes. After a while these became my auto pilot responses to them and our relationship became almost harmonious in my eyes.
This may not have been the same for everyone, but my dad was in jail for a good 10 years so i’ve been the man of the house since about 9 years old. I’m thinking this caused them to look to me as the leader of the pack unconsciously.
Don’t get me wrong i’m not trying to game my family but I think shit tests are deeper than seduction or sexual attraction. I believe its about females wanting to feel dominant energy from the men they want to respect. It’s very primal. At least thats my summation. Obviously it’s different for a girl you aren’t related to as passing tests boosts sexual attraction for them it seems.
I’m basically a novice at understanding tests because I just became consciously aware of them. I’ve always been pretty arrogant with girls but for some reason I think I might’ve softened up on girls who I perceived as 8s 9s or 10s and this caused me to lose them in the past. Their tests were potent and even though I’ve never really been a nice guy I feel I may have broken over tests instead of keeping true to my dominance. Now that I’m aware of tests I’m hoping i’ll never lose a girl who’s on the hook from my own conscious mistakes again. I’d much rather be cock blocked by a venue, a boyfriend, a friend, a friend of a friend, her mom, or cat or dog, than my own mistakes ever again. Nothing worse than losing a girl who’s basically throwing you her vagina because you can’t read between the lines.
