text report

[Sub-Zero]

Ok so i had a makeout session with this girl in the club. We exchanged numbers i hit her up a few days after. We agreed on a date at night time another day. She texts me on the day asking about it. I told her i made it later because my day was busy. She says i planned to late and had to get up early, then i proposed another time and asked if that's late let me know a time you'd like. Bitch never texted me back.

What i noticed i should of told her was that if she can't do such n such text me when you can because im busy until then. I shouldn't have even changed my time to accommodate to that bitch, but i was trying to move fast. Im close to deleting her number.


So what should i have done differently guys and how do i get this girl straight to my crib?

Thanks gents

 

[Sub-Zero]

Bump.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Ok so i had a makeout session with this girl in the club. We exchanged numbers i hit her up a few days after. We agreed on a date at night time another day. She texts me on the day asking about it. I told her i made it later because my day was busy. She says i planned to late and had to get up early, then i proposed another time and asked if that's late let me know a time you'd like. Bitch never texted me back.

What i noticed i should of told her was that if she can't do such n such text me when you can because im busy until then. I shouldn't have even changed my time to accommodate to that bitch, but i was trying to move fast. Im close to deleting her number.


So what should i have done differently guys and how do i get this girl straight to my crib?

Thanks gents

Update: so she texted me back saying sorry, i said it's cool i understand and left it at that. What should i do?

 

[ThatAsshole]

You should provide parts of the convo, maybe more people can help. Just a thought

 

[Sub-Zero]

You should provide parts of the convo, maybe more people can help. Just a thought

Hmm that makes sense, thank you asshole .

Ill be descriptive as i can be. Ok, before the number we were dancing, making out and feeling on each other at the club. I had no logistics so we exchanged numbers.

These are the texts. Ill just go to the main part after we agreed to go out. I never told her I'd take her out or that this was a date.


Her: when are we going out on are date?
Me: Later tonight, im busy all day.
Her: i have to go to sleep early i work early.
Me: what time would be good for you:
(Next day)Her: sorry feel asleep.
Me: (using chase's article of flaking, i said it was cool and didn't say more nor try to reschedule) its cool. I understand you had to be up early.
Her: that's true!

Then i left it alone, it's been a week. I want to know what i could of done differently and what i can do now to smash.

I want to bring her straight to my crib for sex because we were so close to fucking if i had the logistics set up, i feel i would be going backwards to go on a date then try to bring her home and try to smash. Might as well bring her straight to the crib. Advice gents! Thanks

 

[ray_zorse]

Come over & watch a film... come over & listen to music...(tell her to bring her ipod or whatever)... come over for a coffee... for lunch... etc... just suggest some activity so she won't feel she's coming over for sex (plausible deniability... i had no idea we were going to fuck! it was just coffee)... if she's DTF she'll bite. However you could have a plan b... such as a coffee shop near home & then pull her home after a cup of coffee... if you don't feel like taking a risk then do something like that, cos if you go for easy date & she refuses (anti slut defence) then it will hurt compliance which you'll have to rebuild. i suggested easy date+movie lately, she refused so ended up having to actually take her to a movie..have a plan for if she refuses.
cheers, Ray

 

[Sub-Zero]

Come over & watch a film... come over & listen to music...(tell her to bring her ipod or whatever)... come over for a coffee... for lunch... etc... just suggest some activity so she won't feel she's coming over for sex (plausible deniability... i had no idea we were going to fuck! it was just coffee)... if she's DTF she'll bite. However you could have a plan b... such as a coffee shop near home & then pull her home after a cup of coffee... if you don't feel like taking a risk then do something like that, cos if you go for easy date & she refuses (anti slut defence) then it will hurt compliance which you'll have to rebuild. i suggested easy date+movie lately, she refused so ended up having to actually take her to a movie..have a plan for if she refuses.
cheers, Ray

Thanks man.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Guys! Can more of you give me advice on this situation? What should i have done differently and what should i do now? Thanks

 

[Estate]

I think you kinda blew it by being non-commital on setting up the date.

Just be the man and set a time and place. I think you were trying to get her to chase by being flakey before she got a chance to but sounds like she had zero investment before this so gave up.
One thing I've learned about "club make-outs" is they mean squat. If she made out with you Friday night, she might well have made out with a guy Saturday night, etc, etc... she's not going to invest a lot in you until you get her out on a date so you need to just use the texting to set up a definite time and go meet her.

In terms of re-opening. I wouldn't fluff talk. Within 3-4 texts you should have a confirmed date set up. If she's not responding, then drop it, you lost her.