texted by a girl a friend of mine digs

[Prehistoric]

We met her yesterday. We both liked her but he was totally into her. I moved away from them to let my friend do his thing. But after 10 minutes they came back and we all had a few drinks in group (with other people as well).

I was being pretty social and having a good time with everybody, just teasing/provoking her every now and then (I couldn't help it). We all exchanged numbers and/or FB contacts.

This morning she writes me on FB asking me how was the rest of the evening (she went away earlier). I knew my friend wanted to write to her today. Do you think he already blew his chances?

She's very pretty and has a very nice body, especially the tits. I know that if my friend doesn't manage to bed her, I'll regret not having given it a try. What would you do?

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

If your buddy is a PUA he will know if he has been passed over. I would ask him if he heard from her. If not then ask him if you can give it a shot since you did. Don't wait very long as she might get cold.

 

[Throwaway01]

Well, talk to your friend about it. Ask how it went with her and if she really isn't into your friend but
is interested in you, I wouldn't see how that is exactly wrong, I mean she has the right to choose who
she wants to be with.

Just don't do stuff behind his back, no men or women is really worth making yourself a worse person.

(coming from experience, I regret.)

 

[Anonymous]

It depends on how close you are with this guy.

Out of respect, I don't meddle/interfere with women my friends are involved with. Even if he just has a crush on her, I will give him the opportunity and space to talk to her without distractions. If I know the girl is interested in me, doubly so.

If she's not interested in him, and he's already blown his chance, then all bets are off. He doesn't own her, no man owns a woman. It's her choice, and if your friend messed up/she's not into him at all, then just let him know and take your shot.

 

[Prehistoric]

It depends on how close you are with this guy.

He's one of my best friends in the town I am currently living.

I realised he really got a bad crush on her. Unlike me, he's not really going out a lot, approaching a lot of girls and trying to improve his game (which might be one of the reasons he fell for her so easily)

I answered her text in a playful way, to keep her warm just in case (considering there's the chance I'll meet her again because we found out we have common friends). Meanwhile I am giving my buddy the time to do something. I also gave him some advice (write her the day after getting the number, suggest a location close to your place etc..)

I'm happy if he manages to bang her.