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Texting a girl back after getting stood up on a date

Epik

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This is my first post on here but I need your help gentleman. Here is my situation...

So I met this girl about a year ago on the lake. She is a hard ten looks and personality wise, RARE! We clicked immediately and we were inseparable that night. She had a serious BF at that time but I still managed to get her #. We exchanged a few text messages but it never went anywhere. A year later, our mutual friend mentions to me that hard ten was newly single and had been on a few unsuccessful dates. Perfect I thought!

From there we exchanged text messages and I immediately set up a date. Everything was going perfect. About two hours from our date she sent a text sating she was 'excited for tonight". Then things turned. She text me saying she got out of the shower and was exhausted and she was terribly sorry. I actually called her (we had not spoke on the phone until now), and told her I understood and we just chatted for a few minutes. At the end of the call she thanked me for being understanding and she said her next day off was Sunday and we should reschedule for then.

Saturday night I asked how her weekend was etc. We got to chatting and shared some common interests (it went surprisingly well). Sunday comes, I shoot her a text and ask if we were still on for tonight. No response and it is now three days later. Normally I would blow off a girl at this point, but she is not a normal girl. Game filming my own situation, I should have refrained from texting her Saturday night and moved that to Sunday to open up the dialogue. I want to try one last time to get this date. Any advice is MUCH appreciated!! -Epik
 

Epik

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**UPDATE**

She just sent me this text "I am so sorry! I got my phone stolen Saturday and just got my replacement"

Not sure if I believe this or not. Any advice on how to play this from here...?

Thanks in advance
 
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AsianPersuasion

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This is likely a test that the girl is giving you... She probably want to see if you're gonna freak out about it or be supplicating. The majority of the guys she does this to will do one of those two things... Either they get angry and try to punish the girl, or they try to do this "Oh noo... That's okay, it was my fault anyway" sorta deal... Anyway, if you do either of those things, you tell her you aren't worth her time. Instead, I'd say just pretend it didn't happen and give her an "It's cool" and continue on with the conversation like it never happened.

My current theme is not give a fuck. Good things seem to happen when you don't give a fuck. And by not giving any, you'll stand out from all the guys at her knees trying to give her all of theirs.

Anyway, that's just my input. Hope that helps :)
 
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