Texting Question: What to Do When She Doesn't Contribute

[Sandman]

I usually run into this when I'm gaming online, sometimes in the first messages sometimes for whatever reason a bit later in the interaction but I guess same thing may happen when you get a number without getting the girl agree to a date first.

Basicall you ask a question and the girl responds with just a word, not contributing to the interaction at all.

If you try to keep the conversation going you are chasing, leads to nowhere.

I usually call her out on this if she answers to the second question same way. I have tried "why so cold? lol"; "hey, it's okay if you're busy, we can talk later " or varieties. Sometimes it works but not often.

I know this is online and if the girl isn't sold on you, there is not much you can change that. Still, if any of you ran into the same problem and found a method that works more consistently I'd love to hear it

 

[NealIRC]

Something like that happened with me and this girl.

There was a time I was messaging her for some 3 days in a row and she no response, only view.

And so, I waited 3 weeks. And started messaging her. And she instantly replied, to pretty much everything. It was like she was bitchy and moody.

Then after that, I waited 4 weeks before messaging her again. And when that happened, it was revenge time for her. She will never forgive me.

This was not texting though, this was Facebook messages.

 

[Frost]

I still run into this problem, but I find that freezing her out for some time works many times. It may be her mood, or she may be making you chase, but if you stop texting her for a few days at least (depends on the situation of course) and then re-engage her, you show that you are not needy but you're rather giving her another shot to respond properly.