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Texting Response - Dating on My Terms - Advice ASAP appreciated :)

NewBeeWinner

Cro-Magnon Man
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Hi everyone! I was clearing out old phone numbers and texted a few follow up texts to a couple girls I haven't texted in a month+. This is about a reply from one of those girls.

Me: Hey (name)! Its NewBeeWinner - sorry I've been radio silent this past month, Ive been slammed with classes and work. Anyways listen, I was going through deleting old numbers and wanted to touch base as things are clearing up. How've you been? Id love to get together and catch up! Want to grab a coffee sometime?

She replied 5 minutes later with:

No worries! I'm supper busy with school and work as well. I have exams like crazy that I've been studying for. I'm honestly pretty boocked until Thanksgiving between work and school..

As this is a month out, its not really in my favor and I don't want to wait around that long. So in my response I'm thinking about something like:

"Ah, I'll be involved in different events that week and won't be avalible. So unless we can meet in the next week or two, I don't think I'll be able. I'd still like to meet so let me know if your schedule opens up. If not, hope you have a good life :) "

What do you all think? Any changes? A response ASAP would be much appreciated :) Thanks!
 

dcman

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Hi NewBeeWinner ,
if your first interaction went well and if she finds value in you she will agree to a meet up. otherwise regardless of your message she will be not interested in meeting.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Fuck This

Cro-Magnon Man
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Any college girl who says they are booked a month out isn't interested. I wouldn't put anymore effort into her. I'd text back something to the effect of: " Best of luck with the rest of the Semester/quarter. If I see you out, don't be a stranger." Then delete her number.
 
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