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I'm not sure how to title my FRs any more I just randomly title it. Maybe I should write in a journal but feels like I could get more feedback through reports.
I've been stuck at the office for the past two weeks so when I left work at a reasonable hour today I wanted to make the most of it and go do approaches.
The first girl I saw was a Thai girl who was clearly waiting for someone, she had a luggage with her. I asked her if she was waiting for someone, she said thank you. I think she didn't understand me lol. I asked her where she was from what she was doing etc. We had a good banter, she was smiling and giving me signs of interest. Her friend came, she was egyptian who wore a headscarf. I asked how are you in Arabic. I was hesitant to offer her my hand because I didn't know how religious she was. [Until a few years ago I was so religious I flat out refused to shake girls' hands when they offered it to me, I wasn't a dick about it still looking back it took some balls] Thank god she wasn't as religious as I was (get it
) so she shook my hand. Thai girl told me earlier that They were going to return to their homes tomorrow morning before. I invited her for a coffee. She said no I caan't regretfully. I said yess you can laughing. She said we can meet when I come to Istanbul again. I said yeah when is that. She said next year lol.But I knew it would be very hard to convince her to drop her friend and her plans to have a drink with me. So I told her "okay tell you what, I'm gonna be around a while, give me your number so we'll meet 2 hours from now (10 pm) when you're done walking around and shopping. Ber friend intervened "we've got a plane tomorrow!". Glad I gave her some attention lol otherwise her cockblock would have been something to behold. Thai was hitting my arm playfully saying noo but she gave me her number. I said see you later and walked off.
I didn't think anything would come out of it but I was glad I pushed to the end anyway. I sent her the classic save my number text. She didn't respond.
I drank some green tea. Then I saw the most beautiful black woman I've seen in my life. Not kidding here she could be a model. She wasn't dressed "sexy" just incredibly beautiful. She had a cute baby son with her. He was so cute! Lol. I told her "awful cute girl!" She said thank you but it is a boy huh, I asked them where they were from she said mixed race and said the name of a French island I think. I talked to her for a bit but I'm ashamed to say my vibe was just friendly. I put on my good social nice guy face lol. Still, I didn't really think I had a shot with her I just wanted to talk to her. We took a selfie, me the woman and the child. After that she politely signalled I should go on now (say thank you and by to the good gentleman to the child). She wasn't annoyed she just looked like she had to be somewhere. I wished her a pleasent night and left. Later I saw them with the dad on the street.
I saw two beautiful girls walking. I went past them and opened the one on my left "hi, I saw your tattoo and wanted to come and tell you it was cute." They were both Ukranians. She said thank you, she was warm I think but her friend had a bitch face. I gave some attention to her friend (who's your friend etc.) But she didn't talk to me. I asked her if they were on a vacation in Istanbul, she said yes with family. I asked her if they were family, cousins maybe. She said yes, and asked me "don't we look alike?" The way she said it it felt like a test so I told her no. We were talking and walking but the other girl suddenly pulled my girl in a shop. I looked back and my girl mouthed "sorry" apologetically but followed her friend inside. I didn't wanna go in because that'd be too much chasing and maybe a bit creepy. My vibe was good in this interaction. I was not as playful with as I was with the Thai girl or not as nice as I was with the black woman but I was more sexy. My voice was better. I felt more confident, spoke more slowly etc.
I half assed a couple of other approaches that aren't worth mentioning.
I texted the Thai girl she didn't answer. I called her and told her to meet up but she was all noo I cannn't I have to pack my things etc. But she kept talking to me in a I regret not being able to meet you kinda way so I persisted. Evantually I told her to have a safe trip then went home.
On the way, in a boat I situationally opened a girl then told her her butterfly tattoo was nice. She said thank you. I asked her if it had a story. She told me she would catch butterflies as a child and build them homes but they kept dying the next they. She thought it was her fault. Later she learned the truth and wantes to tattoo the butterfly so she would have one that never died (pretty cool story, no?). We talked about where she was studying where she was from. She was warm but not overly excited, a bit nervous truthfully. I asked her to have an icecream with me. She said no thank you. I persisted a bit. In hindsight, I should have just tried to number close this one. It was late so an insta day would be too much. She wasn't that interested. I asked her to get a coffee with me later but she said no to that as well. Again, she was apologetic. It seemed like she would like to but the situation was new to her. I'm not sure if I should have been sexier (admittedly my vibe wasn't the sexiest) or created more comfort. Maybe both. I told her it was pleasent to meet her. I left the boat, when I was waiting for a cab I saw her again she waved at me (good by) I waved her in turn. I went up to her called out her name and took out my phone, I told her to get a coffee with me, told her it was just one coffee and who knows maybe we would click. She hesitated. I could tell she really wasn't sure if she should. I should have overcome that objection somehow. I persisted she said let's each other on Instagram. I told her ino, laughing, f she didn't decide to meet up in person nothing would happen on instagram. She said maybe we could talk there implying it would take more time for her to decide, I treated it as a silly request, smiling playfully. I still had the phone out. I told her "just put your number." She said no thank you at last so I told her goodbye and left
Overall it was an enjoyable night even though I didn't get laid again feedbacks are welcome as always!
I've been stuck at the office for the past two weeks so when I left work at a reasonable hour today I wanted to make the most of it and go do approaches.
The first girl I saw was a Thai girl who was clearly waiting for someone, she had a luggage with her. I asked her if she was waiting for someone, she said thank you. I think she didn't understand me lol. I asked her where she was from what she was doing etc. We had a good banter, she was smiling and giving me signs of interest. Her friend came, she was egyptian who wore a headscarf. I asked how are you in Arabic. I was hesitant to offer her my hand because I didn't know how religious she was. [Until a few years ago I was so religious I flat out refused to shake girls' hands when they offered it to me, I wasn't a dick about it still looking back it took some balls] Thank god she wasn't as religious as I was (get it
) so she shook my hand. Thai girl told me earlier that They were going to return to their homes tomorrow morning before. I invited her for a coffee. She said no I caan't regretfully. I said yess you can laughing. She said we can meet when I come to Istanbul again. I said yeah when is that. She said next year lol.But I knew it would be very hard to convince her to drop her friend and her plans to have a drink with me. So I told her "okay tell you what, I'm gonna be around a while, give me your number so we'll meet 2 hours from now (10 pm) when you're done walking around and shopping. Ber friend intervened "we've got a plane tomorrow!". Glad I gave her some attention lol otherwise her cockblock would have been something to behold. Thai was hitting my arm playfully saying noo but she gave me her number. I said see you later and walked off.I didn't think anything would come out of it but I was glad I pushed to the end anyway. I sent her the classic save my number text. She didn't respond.
I drank some green tea. Then I saw the most beautiful black woman I've seen in my life. Not kidding here she could be a model. She wasn't dressed "sexy" just incredibly beautiful. She had a cute baby son with her. He was so cute! Lol. I told her "awful cute girl!" She said thank you but it is a boy huh, I asked them where they were from she said mixed race and said the name of a French island I think. I talked to her for a bit but I'm ashamed to say my vibe was just friendly. I put on my good social nice guy face lol. Still, I didn't really think I had a shot with her I just wanted to talk to her. We took a selfie, me the woman and the child. After that she politely signalled I should go on now (say thank you and by to the good gentleman to the child). She wasn't annoyed she just looked like she had to be somewhere. I wished her a pleasent night and left. Later I saw them with the dad on the street.
I saw two beautiful girls walking. I went past them and opened the one on my left "hi, I saw your tattoo and wanted to come and tell you it was cute." They were both Ukranians. She said thank you, she was warm I think but her friend had a bitch face. I gave some attention to her friend (who's your friend etc.) But she didn't talk to me. I asked her if they were on a vacation in Istanbul, she said yes with family. I asked her if they were family, cousins maybe. She said yes, and asked me "don't we look alike?" The way she said it it felt like a test so I told her no. We were talking and walking but the other girl suddenly pulled my girl in a shop. I looked back and my girl mouthed "sorry" apologetically but followed her friend inside. I didn't wanna go in because that'd be too much chasing and maybe a bit creepy. My vibe was good in this interaction. I was not as playful with as I was with the Thai girl or not as nice as I was with the black woman but I was more sexy. My voice was better. I felt more confident, spoke more slowly etc.
I half assed a couple of other approaches that aren't worth mentioning.
I texted the Thai girl she didn't answer. I called her and told her to meet up but she was all noo I cannn't I have to pack my things etc. But she kept talking to me in a I regret not being able to meet you kinda way so I persisted. Evantually I told her to have a safe trip then went home.
On the way, in a boat I situationally opened a girl then told her her butterfly tattoo was nice. She said thank you. I asked her if it had a story. She told me she would catch butterflies as a child and build them homes but they kept dying the next they. She thought it was her fault. Later she learned the truth and wantes to tattoo the butterfly so she would have one that never died (pretty cool story, no?). We talked about where she was studying where she was from. She was warm but not overly excited, a bit nervous truthfully. I asked her to have an icecream with me. She said no thank you. I persisted a bit. In hindsight, I should have just tried to number close this one. It was late so an insta day would be too much. She wasn't that interested. I asked her to get a coffee with me later but she said no to that as well. Again, she was apologetic. It seemed like she would like to but the situation was new to her. I'm not sure if I should have been sexier (admittedly my vibe wasn't the sexiest) or created more comfort. Maybe both. I told her it was pleasent to meet her. I left the boat, when I was waiting for a cab I saw her again she waved at me (good by) I waved her in turn. I went up to her called out her name and took out my phone, I told her to get a coffee with me, told her it was just one coffee and who knows maybe we would click. She hesitated. I could tell she really wasn't sure if she should. I should have overcome that objection somehow. I persisted she said let's each other on Instagram. I told her ino, laughing, f she didn't decide to meet up in person nothing would happen on instagram. She said maybe we could talk there implying it would take more time for her to decide, I treated it as a silly request, smiling playfully. I still had the phone out. I told her "just put your number." She said no thank you at last so I told her goodbye and left
Overall it was an enjoyable night even though I didn't get laid again
feedbacks are welcome as always!