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Note: this is simply a thank you post.
Since my younger days, very early days I was successful with women (around 10/11), I was confident, had a devil may care attitude and was comfortable with women just doing what I did (applying things like LOLE and others without actually noticing or trying).
Then as I grew up from 12-21ish I lost the confidence, had an attempted suicide and all sorts of other issues, declaring that if I couldn't get a women I didn't deserve to live, or believing that to get a women I would need to be very muscular - which I then worked on becoming, though this didn't effect my confidence in a good way, only in a way of thinking I needed to get bigger, more ripped or whatever for women to pay attention to me.
After finding girls chase, I've started to incorporate the things on here, comfortable body language, working on my conversation and all sorts of others (law of least effort is the most important to me, with the abundance mentality.)
One thing I have learned from this is that approaching women in the day is one of the greatest things ever, even simply saying "hi" or 'hey" to introduce yourself, ths sheer number of men out there that are too self conscious or worried about her rejecting them in broad daylight. Some of the ladies I've approached in the day were flat out shocked or flattered that a man had the balls to approach her without being weird.
The first day approach I made was in May, where I was with friends in Birmingham, I Saw a lovely lady coming my way and just as she passed - I walked along side her and made conversation with her (for maybe 3 or 4 minutes) she took my number and I thought...she won't call. Around 4 hours later, she calls me, then text me to see if I was still around, So I called, we arranged a meetup same day and I went over with some wine, no nee to say what happened after that.
(I've only made around 4 day time approaches) But I now feel so confident in all sections of my life, I'm not afraid to admit when I'm wrong and I try to learn something from every person I meet now, I've changed my style up, not dramatically but to clothing that's more 'me'. With rejection now, via text or call or in person...it doesn't phase me one bit, and this actually makes some women I've met come back, they haven't seen a man get rejected and not care, she might text and say "hey sorry I can't make Tuesday' and I now just reply with 'ok cool, we'll rearrange' (only to find this is sometimes a test to test me as a man.) as opposed to my old self who would call or text back asking why she can't make it.
That's alot above anyway...but Chase and all other writers on this website you have made my life what it is and I'm greatful for it, thank you so much.
Since my younger days, very early days I was successful with women (around 10/11), I was confident, had a devil may care attitude and was comfortable with women just doing what I did (applying things like LOLE and others without actually noticing or trying).
Then as I grew up from 12-21ish I lost the confidence, had an attempted suicide and all sorts of other issues, declaring that if I couldn't get a women I didn't deserve to live, or believing that to get a women I would need to be very muscular - which I then worked on becoming, though this didn't effect my confidence in a good way, only in a way of thinking I needed to get bigger, more ripped or whatever for women to pay attention to me.
After finding girls chase, I've started to incorporate the things on here, comfortable body language, working on my conversation and all sorts of others (law of least effort is the most important to me, with the abundance mentality.)
One thing I have learned from this is that approaching women in the day is one of the greatest things ever, even simply saying "hi" or 'hey" to introduce yourself, ths sheer number of men out there that are too self conscious or worried about her rejecting them in broad daylight. Some of the ladies I've approached in the day were flat out shocked or flattered that a man had the balls to approach her without being weird.
The first day approach I made was in May, where I was with friends in Birmingham, I Saw a lovely lady coming my way and just as she passed - I walked along side her and made conversation with her (for maybe 3 or 4 minutes) she took my number and I thought...she won't call. Around 4 hours later, she calls me, then text me to see if I was still around, So I called, we arranged a meetup same day and I went over with some wine, no nee to say what happened after that.
(I've only made around 4 day time approaches) But I now feel so confident in all sections of my life, I'm not afraid to admit when I'm wrong and I try to learn something from every person I meet now, I've changed my style up, not dramatically but to clothing that's more 'me'. With rejection now, via text or call or in person...it doesn't phase me one bit, and this actually makes some women I've met come back, they haven't seen a man get rejected and not care, she might text and say "hey sorry I can't make Tuesday' and I now just reply with 'ok cool, we'll rearrange' (only to find this is sometimes a test to test me as a man.) as opposed to my old self who would call or text back asking why she can't make it.
That's alot above anyway...but Chase and all other writers on this website you have made my life what it is and I'm greatful for it, thank you so much.
