Hey,
These are my first LR and FR's. This is mostly a LR and a summary of my FR/FU which would be great to get some feedback on, following running into the girls at future mutual events and escalating without closing.
LR: Amanda
At a University party and social proof is working well for me here as I know a lot of people here. I get introduced to two girls Amanda and Emily while sitting down next to them at a group chat. Start talking to them and I'm interested in Amanda more so than Emily but their both cute. Amanda about 5'4 tanned darkish hair, Emily 5'5, paler and also darkish hair. Started flirting a bit and focused on Amanda mostly and deep dived a bit. I could tell she was interested as we just kind of fazed out of the group discussion. Turns out she's friends with a girl I hooked up with so I was hoping this didn't work against me. After about 15mins I ejected and went to get a drink and talked to a few more people.
I was getting a drink at the bar when I saw Amanda again, we were about to head off so I decided to get her number before I left.
Me: We're heading of to x bar for another party, you guys continuing the night?
Amanda: Nah I think we're heading home soon, can't handle rough nights anymore!
Me: Damn, I was hoping you liked it rough! (said with a smile on my face)
Amanda: (She laughs) I never said I didn't.. ( with a flirty smile)
Me: You're what 20!? and you can't handle it anymore!
Amanda: Haha I got work tomorrow! and I can handle it!
Me: hmmm sure...
some small talk then..
Me: Hey gimme your number, let's hang out some time
Amanda: Sure it's (phone number).. txt me!
Saved her number then headed off:
Me: Hey It's Charmo, save my number ;-)
Amanda: Done ;-) enjoy the rest of your night!
Couple of days later txt her to hang out:
Decided to meet get a drink and meetup near uni. She was wearing yoga pants and some sort of nice looking top and was looking amazing. We small talk, then deep dive, I keep it light and flirty and we tease each other. She's enthusiastic, smiling and there's plenty of sexual tension.
Turns out she's into athletics and is very active. She also lives nearby and I propose we go watch a movie at hers ( I don't have a place to close at).
We head to hers and ask her to grab me some water. She grabs some water loads up the movie and soon as she comes back to sit on the couch, I pull her onto me and manhandle kiss her, this goes on for about 3-4 mins before she begins to pull back and starts saying should watch the movie. I chill and watch the movie a bit and pull her into me and place my hands on her ass. 10 mins later I rub her pussy outside her yoga pants then tilt her head up and we kiss hard. She's really into it and is starting to moan.
She then starts to give some LMR. Saying ' I don't usually do this' , 'we're moving fast' etc. Movies still running and I just deflecting her objections and treating her like she's being silly. I change topics and we start talking about past sexual experiences, dirtiest stuff we've done and she's a bit shocked.
I start escalating again, take her bra off, play with her breasts really turn her on, kissing up around her neck and spank her ass. She still won't let me take her pants off so I place her hand on my dick. She starts rubbing it, we make out some more and then I tell her to take it out.
Amanda: your zips gonna break!
Me: Well this is your fault, you caused it!
Amanda: All of this... (she takes it out)
I tell her how sexy it would be with her mouth on my dick and she gives me a blowjob on the couch and I finger her. I place her in front of me. She was very sloppy! I couldn't tell if she was doing it on purpose or just really amateur and enthusiastic. We head to the bedroom and I give her some oral and finger her.
Amanda: go slow tho, you're big!
Me: You sure want this inside? ( I'm teasing her by just rubbing around her pussy) and she's moaning asking me to put it in.
I go in and she wasn't kidding, tight! ( must've not had sex for awhile)
We take about 10 mins to work up to a good rhythm and then I really give it to her. Spank her, pull her hair, toss her around, passionately kiss her all around her body and some light choking. It took a while to work up to but it was really good sex.
Amanda: shit that was intense!
Me: I know, I could probably go another 3 hours with you!
Amanda: Omg you're insatiable!
We have sex again and she asks me to stay the night. We go again in the morning then I head off to work!
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FR x 1: Chloe
This girl I met on campus, both waiting in line. Super cute, and seemed very into me. Got her number.
Send my usual: "Hey it's Charmo, save my number ;-)"
Chloe: Nice meeting you ;-)
She texts me about a week later ( I got caught up with having to do a few things).
Chloe: "Hey, how's it going?"
Me: Just been busy trying to handle multiple things at once. What are you upto?
Chloe: Nothing just a bit of study, bla bla. Are you out this weekend?
Me: Not sure atm but pretty likely
Chloe: Ok lemme know if youre out!
Monday the weekend after:
Me: How was your weekend?
Chloe: Was good, how was yours?
Me: Good didn't end up going out tho. Btw we were meant to grab drink weren't we? (I mentioned this to her when I got her number)
Chloe: We were! haha
Me: What's your schedule like this week?
Chloe: I'm free from wed onwards
Me: Cool ,lets meet up at 5 at x bar on thurs evening?
Chloe: Sounds good, Ill see you then!
few days later text her:
Me: Hey will be about 10 mins late!
Chloe: Ok, see you soon.
We meet up. She's pretty sweet and is definitely very interested. I deep dive and she's making a lot of excuses to touch me as we talk. Turns out we have a lot of mutual friends. We talk about sexual experiences, fetishes, past rships. I point out that Im not looking for a rship, how Id make a horrible bf etc.
I decide we should get out of the bar and head to the park. We chill for about 20mins more deep diving and she's starting to stare at me. So I know I can escalate. Problem is she lives at home, I don't have a place to escalate at. So I decide to escalate there.
I kiss her and she reciprocates hard and she's all over me. We kiss for about 3 mins then I pull away. Some more small talk then she starts to freak out and say 'she doesn't usually do this' and hook up with heaps of guys etc and how I do. I continue to deflect but she decides we should end the date. I tell her to chill and we make out some more ( she's really into it and is moaning) but then says no she has to go and study etc. After about 4 no's I say ok let's head out then.
And that was that. Haven't txt her since. Not having a place to escalate at is a major problem for me. Unless she has a dorm we can go back to, its pretty easy with some sweet talk. This has happened a few times now.
As we all know when you escalate and then don't close the deal, girls often turn lukewarm after that even if they are very into you prior to escalating. But if you don't escalate and go an informational date, they are always keen for a second date or to go back to theirs to watch a movie. The problem for me is escalating without having a place to close at.
Would like your advice on going back to their place ( If it's not their own place like a dorm and it's their family home because then their hesitant). Escalating in a car?
and also will be running into a girl I've hooked up with on a date but then didn't close the deal ( similar to above) although she did text a few times afterwards but didn't bite on setting a date. Later on she sent some sweet messages saying that I'm really awesome etc so wondering the best way to handle this is at the upcoming parties?
Charmo
These are my first LR and FR's. This is mostly a LR and a summary of my FR/FU which would be great to get some feedback on, following running into the girls at future mutual events and escalating without closing.
LR: Amanda
At a University party and social proof is working well for me here as I know a lot of people here. I get introduced to two girls Amanda and Emily while sitting down next to them at a group chat. Start talking to them and I'm interested in Amanda more so than Emily but their both cute. Amanda about 5'4 tanned darkish hair, Emily 5'5, paler and also darkish hair. Started flirting a bit and focused on Amanda mostly and deep dived a bit. I could tell she was interested as we just kind of fazed out of the group discussion. Turns out she's friends with a girl I hooked up with so I was hoping this didn't work against me. After about 15mins I ejected and went to get a drink and talked to a few more people.
I was getting a drink at the bar when I saw Amanda again, we were about to head off so I decided to get her number before I left.
Me: We're heading of to x bar for another party, you guys continuing the night?
Amanda: Nah I think we're heading home soon, can't handle rough nights anymore!
Me: Damn, I was hoping you liked it rough! (said with a smile on my face)
Amanda: (She laughs) I never said I didn't.. ( with a flirty smile)
Me: You're what 20!? and you can't handle it anymore!
Amanda: Haha I got work tomorrow! and I can handle it!
Me: hmmm sure...
some small talk then..
Me: Hey gimme your number, let's hang out some time
Amanda: Sure it's (phone number).. txt me!
Saved her number then headed off:
Me: Hey It's Charmo, save my number ;-)
Amanda: Done ;-) enjoy the rest of your night!
Couple of days later txt her to hang out:
Decided to meet get a drink and meetup near uni. She was wearing yoga pants and some sort of nice looking top and was looking amazing. We small talk, then deep dive, I keep it light and flirty and we tease each other. She's enthusiastic, smiling and there's plenty of sexual tension.
Turns out she's into athletics and is very active. She also lives nearby and I propose we go watch a movie at hers ( I don't have a place to close at).
We head to hers and ask her to grab me some water. She grabs some water loads up the movie and soon as she comes back to sit on the couch, I pull her onto me and manhandle kiss her, this goes on for about 3-4 mins before she begins to pull back and starts saying should watch the movie. I chill and watch the movie a bit and pull her into me and place my hands on her ass. 10 mins later I rub her pussy outside her yoga pants then tilt her head up and we kiss hard. She's really into it and is starting to moan.
She then starts to give some LMR. Saying ' I don't usually do this' , 'we're moving fast' etc. Movies still running and I just deflecting her objections and treating her like she's being silly. I change topics and we start talking about past sexual experiences, dirtiest stuff we've done and she's a bit shocked.
I start escalating again, take her bra off, play with her breasts really turn her on, kissing up around her neck and spank her ass. She still won't let me take her pants off so I place her hand on my dick. She starts rubbing it, we make out some more and then I tell her to take it out.
Amanda: your zips gonna break!
Me: Well this is your fault, you caused it!
Amanda: All of this... (she takes it out)
I tell her how sexy it would be with her mouth on my dick and she gives me a blowjob on the couch and I finger her. I place her in front of me. She was very sloppy! I couldn't tell if she was doing it on purpose or just really amateur and enthusiastic. We head to the bedroom and I give her some oral and finger her.
Amanda: go slow tho, you're big!
Me: You sure want this inside? ( I'm teasing her by just rubbing around her pussy) and she's moaning asking me to put it in.
I go in and she wasn't kidding, tight! ( must've not had sex for awhile)
We take about 10 mins to work up to a good rhythm and then I really give it to her. Spank her, pull her hair, toss her around, passionately kiss her all around her body and some light choking. It took a while to work up to but it was really good sex.
Amanda: shit that was intense!
Me: I know, I could probably go another 3 hours with you!
Amanda: Omg you're insatiable!
We have sex again and she asks me to stay the night. We go again in the morning then I head off to work!
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FR x 1: Chloe
This girl I met on campus, both waiting in line. Super cute, and seemed very into me. Got her number.
Send my usual: "Hey it's Charmo, save my number ;-)"
Chloe: Nice meeting you ;-)
She texts me about a week later ( I got caught up with having to do a few things).
Chloe: "Hey, how's it going?"
Me: Just been busy trying to handle multiple things at once. What are you upto?
Chloe: Nothing just a bit of study, bla bla. Are you out this weekend?
Me: Not sure atm but pretty likely
Chloe: Ok lemme know if youre out!
Monday the weekend after:
Me: How was your weekend?
Chloe: Was good, how was yours?
Me: Good didn't end up going out tho. Btw we were meant to grab drink weren't we? (I mentioned this to her when I got her number)
Chloe: We were! haha
Me: What's your schedule like this week?
Chloe: I'm free from wed onwards
Me: Cool ,lets meet up at 5 at x bar on thurs evening?
Chloe: Sounds good, Ill see you then!
few days later text her:
Me: Hey will be about 10 mins late!
Chloe: Ok, see you soon.
We meet up. She's pretty sweet and is definitely very interested. I deep dive and she's making a lot of excuses to touch me as we talk. Turns out we have a lot of mutual friends. We talk about sexual experiences, fetishes, past rships. I point out that Im not looking for a rship, how Id make a horrible bf etc.
I decide we should get out of the bar and head to the park. We chill for about 20mins more deep diving and she's starting to stare at me. So I know I can escalate. Problem is she lives at home, I don't have a place to escalate at. So I decide to escalate there.
I kiss her and she reciprocates hard and she's all over me. We kiss for about 3 mins then I pull away. Some more small talk then she starts to freak out and say 'she doesn't usually do this' and hook up with heaps of guys etc and how I do. I continue to deflect but she decides we should end the date. I tell her to chill and we make out some more ( she's really into it and is moaning) but then says no she has to go and study etc. After about 4 no's I say ok let's head out then.
And that was that. Haven't txt her since. Not having a place to escalate at is a major problem for me. Unless she has a dorm we can go back to, its pretty easy with some sweet talk. This has happened a few times now.
As we all know when you escalate and then don't close the deal, girls often turn lukewarm after that even if they are very into you prior to escalating. But if you don't escalate and go an informational date, they are always keen for a second date or to go back to theirs to watch a movie. The problem for me is escalating without having a place to close at.
Would like your advice on going back to their place ( If it's not their own place like a dorm and it's their family home because then their hesitant). Escalating in a car?
and also will be running into a girl I've hooked up with on a date but then didn't close the deal ( similar to above) although she did text a few times afterwards but didn't bite on setting a date. Later on she sent some sweet messages saying that I'm really awesome etc so wondering the best way to handle this is at the upcoming parties?
Charmo
