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The 4 Levels of Romantic Strategy (Video)

Hector Papi Castillo

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The dating world is a battlefield. The number of broken hearts should be obvious enough to demonstrate that brutal fact, but how do those broken hearts get there?

Because someone played the game better than the other. Someone got what they wanted at a lower cost, and the other person gave everything and didn't get what they really wanted.

How do you make sure you come out on top and always get what you want? You practice. You drill. You become a master technician.

But you need to know what's good learning and what's not. And a lot of the material out there, while good, doesn't really help you get technically better...because it's not technical. Or, rather, tactical.

In this video, I go into the four levels of strategy and how they apply to romance.

Click here for the video.

Hector Castillo
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

James D

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Hector,

The video was fantastic! Keep them coming!

Could you cover the idea of "A man who loves women is loved by women" in one of your future videos?
It would be really amazing.

Cheers,

James D
 

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That explains a lot.
A while ago I saw a video called "Money does not buy happiness" and it has 4m views on YouTube.
Because it's a grand strategy.
 

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Hector Castillo said:
Having spent time with Zan also helped clarify this for me.

You met the beast! Amazing. Just to be curious, what does he think of Girls Chase?

James D
 

Hector Papi Castillo

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James D said:
Hector Castillo said:
Having spent time with Zan also helped clarify this for me.

You met the beast! Amazing. Just to be curious, what does he think of Girls Chase?

James D

He read the article I wrote about his book and he said he likes the website but the conversation didn't go beyond that. I'm usually in his environments, so I tend to keep conversations on his style, his groups, his philosophy, etc.

That explains a lot.
A while ago I saw a video called "Money does not buy happiness" and it has 4m views on YouTube.
Because it's a grand strategy.

Precisely. It sells, but isn't too helpful. Plus, it's wrong. Money does a damn lot. The only people who are qualified to say money isn't awesome are the rich (and whether or not it's true, it's weird coming from them since they aren't giving it up anytime soon), and monks. And even the latter are taken care of by people who have money (the Buddha was absolutely SHOWERED with gifts by kings and other patrons in his day). Though what the latter gives back is worth infinitely more than a trillion dollars.

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