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Killa DeX

Space Monkey
space monkey
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This FR is with a girl that I used to go to high school with and have an off and on FWB type of relationship. The main reason I titled this as 'The Annoyance' is that she constantly texts me and calls me. She also expects me to see her a lot and If I tell her I'm busy or have prior engagements, she gets upset. She is also insanely jealous. This is the girl that I mentioned in my post on the general board, that is friend's with Becca. You can read that here-->https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=6871
Anyway, on with the FR...

Friday
I'm on my way to the store to buy a new CD to listen to in my car. It's a beautiful friday afternoon, the birds are chirping, the kids are out playing....and all I can think about is how much I want some pussy. So what do I do you may ask? I hit up the annoyance. I'm close by her place anyway, I might as well get something else besides a CD ;)

The Slickness ;)
Me: You at work?
Her: No
Me: U home?
Her: Yes
Me: Is there a Target in your town?
Her: Yes
Her: Why?
Her: ????
Her: Hello
Me(20 mins later): Sorry I was driving. I had to go to your town real quick. I'm home now
Her: WOW
Me(Pulled up in front of her place): Why don't you come outside
Her: Huh?
Me: Look outside

There I am standing right in front of her apartment. She walks out and the first thing I notice about her is that she has a lot of make-up on. I smile at her, she walks ups to me and says "Your an asshole" and then she proceeds to fall into my arms. I lift up her chin and proceed to manhandle kiss her. "We should go inside" "We can't I have Jill with me" :(
"So did you come just to see me?" "I was in the area and I figured I'd pass by and give you some time out of my day" "Asshole" "I know ;P" "I have to go to Target in your town, come with me" "Sure we'll take Jill's car". I try to fight this and persist that it should just be me and her but her friend comes out and its a girl I recognize from high school and used to chill with so I let it slide. We proceed to head to Target in her car. As we walk into Target the first thing she does is hold my hand while in the store; to please her I go along with it. Once I get what I came for we go back to her place. She tells me that her and Jill are going to meet up with some friends. I tell her I can't and that I have errands to run. She pouts for a bit until I grab her in my arms and kiss her lips. I put my hands on her butt and tell her I wish we had more time. "You never make plans with me though" I tell her that I will and give her a kiss and get in my car. When I get home I look in the mirror and I realize I have her foundation all over my nose and face. This really pisses me off because my mother noticed it and I had to make up a lie as to how it got there. (I try to keep my family out of my relationship/sexual business)

Monday
I'm on my way to get my car serviced at the dealer. I wanna make up for last time so I decide to hit her up and swing by her house.

Me: You home?
Her: Yeah
Me: Cool I'll come by and visit
Her: Cool
Me: After I go to this car dealership 20 exits away
Her: -__- That'll take forever
Her: Come before you go
Her: Guess your not coming to see me...
Me: They close at 4:30 but I'll come before I go

So I pull up to her place; again she comes out with a fuck-ton of make up on -__-.... I give her a hug and a kiss and I ask if we can go inside. She tells me that her mom is home so we can't. Instead we go to my car and talk. At first we just talk about our friends and old high school buddies. I deep dive her and some personal stuff she mentioned to me before. While we're talking I'm cuddled up on her shoulder and I also lie my head on her lap(I know I know....) I proceed to kiss her and work down to her neck. I stop because someone is coming by the car and I don't want people from her apartment building to see us. She then proceeds to get into her annoyance mode and get on my case about how her and I should be in a LTR and if not we should just be friends. Her:"I wanted to tell you last time that I don't think we should do anything together anymore. I want to be in a relationship with you, but you say that you don't see us together. Its like whenever you come home you get your feel of me, but then you go off to school and you say that I shouldn't hit you up and you're hung up on other girls." Me:"Des we've talked about this so many times. I tell you I don't see us together because we always argue all the time and I don't like that. I'm a grown man and dealing with petty arguments that aren't going to move me forward aren't worth my time" Her: "But we always get into those arguments because we aren't together. But instead of working things out, you just don't talk and you talk to other girls. I don't wanna be hung up on you." At this point Im just annoyed now cause she's bringing up stuff they've already talked about and concluded that we are better as FWB. I don't care anymore and I tell her if she wants to be strictly friends then its whatever. I walk her back to her apartment and I go on my way.

My Main Issues with this girl
This girl and I have history together. We used to kiss and make out all the time in high school. I've fingered her a few times and we've gotten close to sex but I've never slept with her because she says she wants to be in a LTR. I care for her deeply and we are friends but I just don't see myself with her. She is pretty overweight, she wears it well but she is definitely round. I'm a muscular guy and I naturally dominate and I love to manhandle girls especially pick them up. I'm strong but she is definitely too big for me to pick up. Her weight is a big problem for her emotionally. She's come to me asking me for advice and when I give it to her or tell her what to do she gets upset. She is also not very supportive of me. Right now I'm studying mechanical engineering in college and when I graduate I would like to pursue a career in the United States Marine Corps as an officer. I also LOVE to weight lift and I am currently preparing to do my first bodybuilding show in 2015. She is okay with me wanting to be in he USMC but she complains that I don't see her enough cause I live on campus. She also always criticizes me whenever I mention that I have to go to the gym so I can't see her right away; she also could care less when I talk about my diet or more other friends that also love to lift. She is also a party girl and I'm not that cool with that. She also has daddy and mommy issues. She was sexually abused by her previous bf's and that heavily affects her and she is scared to give head.

Like I said though, I really care about her but I don't want anything more than a FWB with her. But getting her pussy is too much hassle and is a constant headache so I'm just done trying.
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Eternity

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Cut her off bro. Quit giving her false expectations, karma is a bitch. Plus, there's plenty of pussy around, make use of your learned seduction skills. Sounds pretty needy, which is a bad combo if you decide to mess with her more, she might cockblock you in school just to make your life hell and so you pay attention only to her. Talk to her and get her off your hook, no good can come out of this if you keep at it. Think about it? If a girl was attention whoring with you, would u like that shit? Same shit, different story. I like to fuck with girls heads, to lie, to cheat, to be an asshole, but there were times I went through the same shit as that girl, maybe it made me more this way, maybe not but I would've been very grateful if the chick who did this to me would've sat down with me and been honest, straight up and let me go of any false hope. But this is just a humble opinion, do as you wish...
 

Killa DeX

Space Monkey
space monkey
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I think I'm pretty much done with her. Like you said Eternity, I need to cut her off for good. I tell myself all the time that I will cut her off for good but I end up right back in this situation. I think the main reason I end up back is because she's easy to manipulate and I can always keep her around, especially when I go through a dry spell of women.
 
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