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The Marksman

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Hey All!
I am recent join to the Forums. I've been reading a few articles and was tipped off to the site by Anatman, my roomate, who showed me a couple of stories that he included me in. I am a versed natural with an eye for body language and an appetite to learn more and hone my abilities. This is my first Field report regarding capitalizing on a lob from my roommate with the daughter of a bar owner in town.

Two nights prior:
My friend texted the owner's daughter (we'll call her Vanessa ) saying that he had a good looking friend that he wanted to introduce her two, she said that she was at church but that afterwards she would think about coming. Fast forward to about 12:30 that evening. I'm sitting at the head of a large table in our kitchen with a large group of people sitting around it, we are all playing drinking card games.

Vanessa walked in with one of her friends and the two were introduced via a round of smoking (after all it was 30 minutes in to 420). Vanessa and her friend were standing to my right, while I remained seated, continuing to smoke and finish out the drinking game that the group had started. No dialogue had occurred yet but glances had been made and eye contact established. She played with her hair chatted with her friend while we played and continued to smoke. As the game ended, I took my hit and I blew the smoke out with a French inhale and then turned to her to pass the bowl (still seated). I looked her in the eyes for 1-2 seconds before calmly initiating dialogue. This is the jist of how it went, but it was two days ago so it's not perfect.

Me: I believe that's on you.

V: Oh thanks!

Me: (I turned to her friend first, extending my hand for a handshake) I'm Andy

Friend: I'm Jessica

V: I'm Vanessa.

Me: (Pointing and smiling as I reiterate) Jessica and Vanessa, I'll try to remember those but I'm terrible with names so If I forget you can't get mad because I'm telling you now

Both: laughing / it's fine-ing

( This whole time I have held on to Vanessa's hand continuing to shake hands)

Me to V: (maintaining eye contact and smiling) So do you normally hold hands with strangers or is this a new thing for you?

V: (laughing) haha no this is new.

Me: So you're someone who likes to try new things then?

V: Occasionally, depends on what it is.

Me: (flatly) Sounds thrilling, (turns) what about you Jessica?

J: Same

Me: Sounds like you tend to go along with what Vanessa does then right? haha

J: Heyyy!

Me: (interrupting) Haha calm down. (Turns to Vanessa) so who are you?

V: What?

Me: Who are you, do you work, are you a student, do you hate sushi?

V: (Clearly trying to assemble her thoughts) Ummmm…

Me: Ok, well while she figures out who she is and what she likes what about you Jessica?

J: Proceeds to tell me she's an assistant manager at Hyvee, a local grocery store, used to cheer, blah blah blah.

Me: Okay, interesting. (turns) Have you found yourself yet Vanessa? haha (At this point the hand that I had left resting on the corner of the table has now been moved to her hip and has pulled her slightly from her friend with one finger in a side belt loop)

V: Proceeds to tell me that she's the owners daughter, but doesn't like everyone to know because she doesn't want to be judged about it, along with other run of the mill hobbies like reading and such.

Me: Do you have any interesting hobbies?

V: What do you mean interesting? haha you think I'm boring?

Me: I just met you, I'm only passing judgement based off of what you tell me, do you like to workout or hike or do things that don't involve partying or staying inside? (At this point my left had is resting on the table cupping her hip/but and my right has grabbed her left hand that was hanging by her side )

V: Proceeds to say hiking, use got back into working out, dancing etc etc.

Me: (At this point my hands have moved to her right inner leg, in a somewhat doctor gesture) Your legs definitely suggest a dancer (I can feel her flex the leg slightly), so when do I get to watch?

V: hahaha ummmm I don;t know I don't have anything planned right now.

Me: You should challenge all the white girls in that one group on campus, what's their name again? Illusionz?

V: haha yeah that's them and their only half white lol.

Me: Assemble your crew and set up a little competition! Stomp the Quad lol

They both laugh a lot and agree.

At this point her friend reminds her about the time they said that they were going to leave.

Me: What time is it now?

V: It's…

Me: (interrupting) No no I asked her haha she's clearly the leader.

V: Heyyyy! (smiling)

J: It's 1:30 haha and you're right I am

Me: Well prove me wrong then. Stay until 2.

V: I don't know we said we had to leave by 1:30 we both have to get up early tomorrow for Easter stuff with our families.

Me: Well I'm sure that's super exciting, but 1/2 an hour won't make a huge difference and I was less asking and more stating haha.

V: Oh really? You think I can be told what to do?

Me: I think you look like the kind of girl that enjoys giving in and doing what she know's that she shouldn't sometimes, which at this point is staying for another half hour.

V: We'll see haha

At this point a fraternity brother drunkenly saunters over and introduces himself and tries to but in. I quickly turn and look at a younger fraternity member sitting at the table who quickly understands the look and comes over and redirects the drunk guy away from my group and who then begins to entertain the friend where I begin my isolation with Vanessa.

I continue small talk somewhat suggestive until the friend suggest leaving again now that it's almost two.

Me: See was that so hard?

V: haha no, but I really do have to go.

Me: Well take my number and I'll let you know what we're doing tomorrow night.

V: Pulls out phone, takes number, texts me her first name.

Me: There better be a last name in that text to.

V: laughs and ends a follow up text.

As they both go to leave I state that she should give me a kiss before she leaves, as I pull her hand toward me to already build momentum in towards me. She laughs and says that we just met, still holding my hand. and walking. At this point I shrug and say suit yourself with a suggestive smile holding her hand as she walks away until I almost prevent her from walking further. I maintain eye contact for a couple tension filled seconds and then let her leave.

The Next Day:
I shoot her a text around 2:
Me: Hey we're grilling and drinking at our house and playing washers and such if you and jessica are done with the boring part of Easter for the day

V: I'll chat Jessica up. I'll have to get clearance to bail out on this family function first, but I can probably come chill.

I don't respond.

V: We'll probably come around 4:30.

Me: I'll be here.

She and Jessica wind up showing up around 5:30, we play a couple games of sandbags on the front lawn. I wager with her (and she flirtatiously refuses that she is in on the bet) That If I win, her friend leaves and she stays, and if I lose that she stays. we trow a couple more rounds and then I waste no time in ending the game with an 11 point throw round. I smile at her and tell her that Jessica can leave now. She laughs and plays slightly coy, but Jessica leaves soon enough. We sit down on the porch and I wrap my arm around her and pull her right next to me. My 4 month old german shepherd puppy is laying in the front lawn now so I call her over as well. She runs up to Vanessa and tries to kiss her, however I stop her and tell my puppy no, that they just met, making light of her excuse the previous night. She laughs and we talk about movies and the shows she likes to watch. I make a few interspersed attempts to go watch something in my room (I live in a fraternity house) to which she replies I want to but I have to leave in a bit, and that She had promised her dad a month ago that she would go to the opening day of hunting season with him which started at 5 a.m. There were many other people on the port and in the front yard still, a couple of which were girls she barely knew, others were some guys she didn't know at all to one or two she was acquainted with. I would have stood up and grabbed her hand and smiled and took her with me, however I guessed with caution that her hesitance lent itself more to social pressure and how she may be looked down on, so I let it roll. We talked a bit longer and made plans to watch a movie the following day. I pulled her in and kissed her and told her that she could leave now and laughed and stood up. She smiled and left, looking back a couple times as she went, while I just stared at her with a smug smile until she had driven out of sight.

She texts me that night with

V: It's 10:08. I'm in bed, watching the first episode of House. Sleep isn't happening.

I think, well that's what you get. I stay with this frame.

Me: The struggle is real haha. We could have finished the movie by now.

V: Ugh! I definitely missed out on that

Me: Well there's tomorrow, calm down lol. You have incredibly soft lips by the way.

V: My Lips are my favorite quality about myself obviously lol

Me: Next to your obvious strong humble nature? haha

V: (;

This is where I opted to end the convo

Last Night
Now here is where things get interesting. I'll have to write a separate lay report for the girl mentioned in this portion, but I'll get to that later.

I begin with a text that day asking how the early morning went. She responds with how uneventful it was. I say "sounds like it was worth going home for." She laughs, justifies it with getting to nap in the woods, and we go back and forth about when to meet up that night and about playing a drinking game to the movie. She shows up, the movie starts, drinks in hand, her on my bed with my arm around her. About 30 minutes into the movie I hear a knock on my door, and it opens. Standing in the doorway is another girl I am currently sleeping with, Dani. She asks if we can talk.

Without skipping a beat I say sure and get up and we step out into the hall. She wants to talk about why I've been distant the past week and how clearly she gets why now. I let her know she knows nothing and reassure her that she will understand tomorrow when we will talk about it. I also remind her of the bounds that we had set up, that we were not in a committed relationship, and that if her feelings had changed for me which clearly they had, that she should have spoken up so we could have discussed it and avoided the situation altogether, besides she came over of her own accord. We hug, and agree to talk the next day. I'm not that worried, she's already been DEEPLY converted, but I'll explain that whole situation, along with how I slept with her the next night in a separate lay report on her to follow this one.

Back to Vanessa.
I walk back in, she smiles and informs me of how many drinks I;ve missed. I respond with how I need them. I sit down, she curls back up to me and I say

Me: Can I ask you a question, this is random, but how crazy are you?

V: What? haha

Me: I'm up to my ass in crazy people i've tried to have a casual relationship with and I can't deal with anymore 5 missed calls, 8 missed texts, randomly showing up and sometimes banging on my door wanting to talk. If you're that brand of casual relationship female we can just call it a night here haha.

V: HAHhahahahahaha don't worry I'm DEFINITELY not like that at all.

Me: Well I wasn't completely sure, but since you said so NOW I believe it…hahaha

She laughs and tells me to drink for a scene in the movie and I do so. At some point she finishes her drink and then sets it down. I do the same and then I initiate making out. I touch her elbow and lean back which pulls her right on top of me with relative ease. More making out and ass grabbing, which I smack once, then give her hair a light tug before I roll her onto her back and tell her that she's breaking the rules. She asks what rules and as I take my shirt off I tell her that she is wearing far too many clothes for how late it is and for being in my bed. She laughs and undresses. After fingering and making out and such I tell her to fuck me and she tells me to saddle up. I get up to get the condom and strap up and turn to her and tell her to get on her hands and knees while I finger her but she hesitates. I immediately become much less interested in sleeping with this girl, as all she is really interested in doing the whole time is dead fishing missionary. While I could have pushed for more interesting things and used a few different techniques to bring out more of the freak in her, I've been sleeping with two other girls at this point on alternating nights, and I really wasn't all that interested considering Dani lets me fuck her in my large breed puppy's kennel and the other girl Maggie likes butt play and tells me to fuck her in her wet pussy while she borderline chokes me. Needless to say, her inexperience or disinterest to anything other that vanilla sex soured my interest to the point where I pulled out and took the condom off and told her she'll have to blow me for a bit to get me back into things. She acquiesces, however the blow job is toothy and a bit clumsy. Yeahhhhhhhhh…

So I flip her over, finger her/ eat her out a bit until she is says she's about to come and then stop. I look up at her and smile and say "Now we're even." I tell her this will have to wait for a night where we both haven't been hardcore slamming drinks for the past 2 hours and she lightly laughs and agrees. I roll over on my stomach and go to sleep, and she curls up against my side/ back and does the same. The morning comes and we both wake up. I go to class and she goes home.

I'll write up the LR on Dani and Maggie to follow this one, as well as some interesting and incredibly forward text experimentation I'm working on, but feel free to comment, offer suggestions, or have a good laugh and enjoy my first post to the forum!

- The Marksman
 

Hector Papi Castillo

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Mah nigga.

I had the pleasure of watching most of this go down in dat real life (except for the actual escalation, which is funny since our fraternity loves voyeurism). The Marksman is a boss and fortunately my best friend.

For those of you who didn't recognize this stroke of genius
Me: Can I ask you a question, this is random, but how crazy are you?

V: What? haha

Me: I'm up to my ass in crazy people i've tried to have a casual relationship with and I can't deal with anymore 5 missed calls, 8 missed texts, randomly showing up and sometimes banging on my door wanting to talk. If you're that brand of casual relationship female we can just call it a night here haha.

V: HAHhahahahahaha don't worry I'm DEFINITELY not like that at all.

Me: Well I wasn't completely sure, but since you said so NOW I believe it…hahaha

Perfectly teeters the line between explicitly and implicitly communicating pre-selection (i.e., bitches go crazy for him), and also screens her and forces her to qualify herself ("I'm DEFINITELY not like that at all").


Be on the lookout for some tag-team shenanigans soon (though he's too much of a bitch to double team a girl with me).


P.S. I can personally attest to Vanessa's toothy blowjobs ;) Fuckin' freshmen...
 

Eternity

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Interesting. I wonder who'll outgame who... ;)
 

Marty

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Marksman:

My thoughts were the same as Eternity's, he beat me to it: interesting report.

This is brilliant:
The Marksman said:
(At this point the hand that I had left resting on the corner of the table has now been moved to her hip and has pulled her slightly from her friend with one finger in a side belt loop)
...as is this sequence...
The Marksman said:
Me: What time is it now?

V: It's…

Me: (interrupting) No no I asked her haha she's clearly the leader.

V: Heyyyy! (smiling)

J: It's 1:30 haha and you're right I am

Me: Well prove me wrong then. Stay until 2.
I want to ask about this remark:
The Marksman said:
If you're that brand of casual relationship female we can just call it a night here haha.
At what point did you set the expectation with her of a casual relationship? I don't see it in the report. Or is this in fact the point where you communicate that?

Thanks,
Marty
 

Hector Papi Castillo

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Eternity said:
Interesting. I wonder who'll outgame who... ;)

Our styles are quite different.

Me - Loud asshole who tells girls I want my dick in their mouth and that I know they want it, too

Marksman - Casual, laid-back social guy who's commanding but not too asshole-y.

Or to put it another way, I'm obvious and fast, he's smooth and slow(er, but not bad slow).

Usually we hit different crowds, but we're spending the summer together working at a club. So we'll see what happens ;)



And yeah, Marty, the time-competition dynamic was pretty slick. Jealousy plot-lines are a specialty of his.

- Anatman
 

The Marksman

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Hey Marty!
Firstly thanks for reading and the kind words, Secondly:
Marty said:
At what point did you set the expectation with her of a casual relationship? I don't see it in the report. Or is this in fact the point where you communicate that?
Marty

This is the point where I communicate that. I wanted to dispel any thoughts or lingering feelings that could possibly be there after the obviously awkward interaction she just witnessed. Jealousy plot lines can work in your favor if you act and don't let the lady come to her own conclusions of things. Most college girls are used to dealing with college BOYS, so to them a guy that comes to them, is up front about his wants and expectations, and handles them in a calm, and openly communicative fashion is fairly refreshing. So to set the frame that I am currently seeking new endeavors and am completely done with past endeavors, and to also make light of the situation and get her in the mind frame of qualifying herself as better than my past endeavors, I worded the question at that point in time so that I set my expectation of things as what I was expecting was a casual relationship, but that if she was going to be overly needy that we could call it a night now. I hope that answers your question appropriately!
 

Vash

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Hmm, those "tag-team" reports should very entertaining. :]
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

The Marksman

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Casanova,

Thanks for the input! That gif was hilariously accurate haha. Getting her to stay I agree was a pivotal moment in the grand scheme. I always try to make sure that every interaction I have with a girl is moving things forward in some way shape or form, further than where we left things the last time at least. I think this is an important frame to keep in mind, even if you don't get her to sleep with you that night or do anything besides a kiss goodbye, as long as the next time you hang out, you passionately make out and grope and set a stronger sexual tension, you've set the frame further than you did the last time. I am definitely trying to work on pushing through LMR and detecting shit tests and when to push even though things seem like a no.

Again thanks for the input! I wish you the best of luck in your endeavors and many positive reports to come!

- The Marksman
 

Mr. oblivious

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Just read all your field reports Solid effort i need to aim to be this smooth with my interactions
 

The Marksman

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Yoda said:
Just read all your field reports Solid effort i need to aim to be this smooth with my interactions

Appreciate the kind words! Keep up the practice, trial by fire will refine your skills.
 
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