the "Bitch shield" and improvisation.

[trashKENNUT]

i don't know if there is an article on this, but for most bitch shield, i tend to

1) Approve them, Exaggerate them later. (It makes them laugh although they bring it up later, depends on women, i find low quality women tend to bring it up later too often and the next time we meet if we are friends. Not judging )

2) Laugh it off. (Too platonic and land myself in the boyfriend role)

3) Show a taken aback look and laugh in self amusement. (Works well in solo)

The last one works superbly well, but it cannot work possibly in a group setting, I have no idea about that. Any deflections i can improvise?

Zac

 

[Marty]

Hey Zac,

This looks to be a potentially very intriguing topic, however, can you give more detail? Are you speaking about getting totally ignored, or a rude response, or playing along while keeping you psychologically at a distance, or what specifically?

On "cold approach" I am secretly hoping that one day I will get my ass handed to me by some ice queen, not because I am a defeatist, attention-seeking masochist (far from it), but just to have a reference point on the worst that could possibly happen (within reason). Is this the sort of thing you mean?

-Marty

 

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Marty,

This looks to be a potentially very intriguing topic, however, can you give more detail? Are you speaking about getting totally ignored, or a rude response, or playing along while keeping you psychologically at a distance, or what specifically?

I am discussing ways to handle approaching a women and this happens.

Getting totally ignored doesn't usually happen, unless rather in a social like setting where you approach her in a group and came off the wrong way. Most girls are generally going to engage you in some way, they also be totally taken off by your approach because most girls don't expect guys to approach them.

The worse thing that happen to me was this girl turn to me like she seen a ghost, even when i approach her from a side angle. HAHA! I would say even if you still abit creepy, you usually don't get ignored. Rather she dismiss herself out of there fast.

The younger girls will tend to be more rude or more friendlier than usual. This doesn't mean she hates you or likes you either. This is really because they don't really know what they doing, and asking themselves why some dick is not up her a$$ when they too mean or when guys are too aggressive on her that she has to be rude. That is when she's nice. This is where she learn about men, too.

Some girls will play along while keeping you at distance. This is more of girls who got game. They can also be girls who have not so much luck with guys too. You need to move things forward.

On "cold approach" I am secretly hoping that one day I will get my ass handed to me by some ice queen, not because I am a defeatist, attention-seeking masochist (far from it), but just to have a reference point on the worst that could possibly happen (within reason). Is this the sort of thing you mean?

IT really depends though, Unless you really a creep, she will owned your a$$ big time. But the worse sort of thing that happen to me was that i didn't took notice of the fact that i approach a girl in front of my classmates in secondary school that she had to throw me under the bus. (like Chase mention in his article)

I don't think most women are that mean, although i know some who only play for their social circle and status, and are not totally cool people. Mostly backstabbers who call you back later and pretend nothing happen.

Zac