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Hey guys, the events of this FR is from this weekend.
My roommate's frat was having a mixer with one of the sororities from school. They were planning on going out afterwards so I decided to join them downtown.
While I'm still changing, my other roomate's girlfriend shows up at the door with her friends, all drunk(these are all girls from my social circle). They are slamming on the door and telling me to come out with them, haha. Silly girls. I tell them I'll meet them at the bar since we're all heading to the same bar. My outfit for the night was my leather bomber jacket(dark blue body, beige sleeves), a blue button down floral shirt (not too flashy, but still peacocking), black tight fitted jeans and brown chelsea boots. Feeling pretty pimp, I headed out into the night...
I get to the line which probably is about 5 minutes long. This indian guy behind me blurts out hi to me and apologizes instantaneously saying he's drunk. I stay humble and strike a conversation with him and his venezuelan friend. This beautiful girl standing next to me is talking on her phone, but notice me kindly talking to these two guys. They are clearly a lot older than me, but significantly less dominant. When she hangs up the phone, she then joins in on the conversation! Can't remember the last time a girl cold approached me. The conversation somehow gets on the topic about her father and she starts slamming him for being a bad person. I then whisper in her ear if she has daddy issues. She gives me this "did he just fucking say that" look which I found hilarious. I just smile and laugh when she replies "you can't just say that to someone you just met!" She asks me if I'm with the two guys which I reply no to and we start our own conversation. I deep dive her a bit before we get checked into the bar, her first. She waits for me and ask if I want to go get a drink with her at the bar. Well, why not?
The bar is absolutely PACKED. She starts heading to the bar and I grab her hand to not loose her. She holds back. This kinda set up a bad frame though since she is the one leading me at this point. We get to the bar and she starts ordering drinks for us. After what just happened and with her still leading I tell her that I'm not comfortable with her paying for me. She understands. When we get our drinks I tell her we should head downtairs (trying to take back the leadership role). She complies.
While walking towards the stairs, I don't grab her hand because I'm holding my beer in one hand and guiding my way through the crowd with the other. This was a mistake. When I reach the stairs I look back and see her talking to a guy and a girl. Shit. I approach them and she introduces me to them. The girl then leaves, while club queen is still talking to the guy. I slap on a bored look, but they are both locked in... after 1 minute I tell club queen that I'm heading downstairs. She tells me she'll be down in a minute. Yeah right...
I head downstairs and the bar is even more packed there. I meet some of my bros at the dancefloor as well as some other friends from way back. I approach the girl that club queen introduced me to earlier on the dancefloor, but no dice. I then head up another staircase to the first floor and join a table of people from my social circle. I strike a fun conversation with a new girlfriend of a friend of mine. She introduces me to her girlfriend, but she is neither attractive or fun to talk to. I then spot club queen and the guy, still talking 15 feet right ahead of me. The guy looks like he's struggling to keep up in the conversation, and then recognize me sitting at the table. I give him this "when you fuck up I'll be there to grab her" smile, haha. Just asserting my dominance. I continue socializing within my group. This time when I look up to spot club queen, I see her talking with a new dude, haha. The next time I look up, she's gone. Oh well.
My roommate asks me to join him and some of the guys to my favourite bar. I comply. As we're heading out, I spot club queen in the smoking area with ANOTHER GUY. Willing to try one last time, I tell my bro to give me 1 minute, casually go over to the smoking area asking people for a smoke before I "accidentally" bump into club queen and the fourth guy I'd seen her talking to that evening. She introduces me to this guy, I start asking her if her night's been good and all that. The other guy leaves pretty quickly. I then tell her that I'm about to head to another bar and tell her to come join me. She counters saying I should rather come with her inside and just get drunk there. I persist but she doesn't budge. In hindsight I should have countered with telling her I have drinks back at my place, shit... So I leave for the other bar with my bros. Turned out the other bar was dead, but I met a cute girl from my junior high days and got her number.
The next day me and my roomie went out to watch a comedy show. We got pretty drunk pregaming, but the show was still terrible. We then hit a karoake bar with some friends. My roomie was hitting it pretty well off with one of the pretty girls from our social circle, and they have hooked up before. For future references I will start calling my single roomie for GQ because he seriously looks the part, he is gorgeous. Not only that, he's also a very smooth talker. His only problem is that he doesn't really cold approach other places than the dancefloor. Most of his lays are from extended social circle girls chasing after him. I wanted to learn more about his conversation techniques since the girl was investing so heavily in the conversation, but I was seated too far from them... Anyway, looks like GQ was only teasing the girl and after a while he heads home. Me on the other hand head to my usual bar in town. And the second I step in, what do I see? That's right, club queen talking to another fucking guy at the bar. This is hilarious. I could now for certain put her in the club queen category: Beautiful, dominant, goes out a lot, very social and prefers male company. All the signs mentioned by Chase!
She recognizes me, beams and exclaims my name and tells me to come over. I'm guessing the guy was a friend of hers, but he was cockblocking me and would not let me join in on the conversation. I tell myself screw this, and head to the dancefloor where I dance my ass off. Mind you I was quite drunk at this point and not really in seduction mode. The lights come on and people start to head out. I see club queen and her friend still talking at the bar. I end up inviting them both to an afterparty at my place. On the way I'm trying to find some girls to join the after party, but I don't see anyone while we're walking to the apartment? I end bringing some random guy who was waiting for his friends to pick him up. This turned out to be a good move, because the guy was hilarious and brought good vibes to the after party. We drink a lot so I don't remember much, but I'm pretty sure I didn't get any proper interactions with club queen back at my place. I remember her being on the phone with her mom for quite some time, she was recently divorced (this explains her previous rant about her father). Also the guy friend she was with kept talking about how hot her mom was, wtf? At 5 am people start to leave. Suddenly me and club queen are sitting alone in the couch, her friend is outside with some other guy friends that suddeny showed up. I think I told her that we should meet up some other time and to give me her number. She complies and writes both her first name and last name in my phone. She then starts to head out. After 10 seconds she comes back in again, walks up to me and kisses me for about 3 seconds. She then walks out the door again, eyes locked at me and smiling. I give her my devilish smile back before I see her leave out the door. Aaand that's about it.
I know I should have not let her go after she kissed me, I was trying to play it waay too cool just looking at her leave with my half grin smile. I should have persuaded her to stay even though there were five guys outside waiting for her. But these are the kinds of mistakes tvktvk does when he is shitfaced... I texted her the next day in the afternoon:
- Hey club queen, was nice meeting you again last night, haha
tvktvk
No response, so I'm pretty sure this is a dead end. I'll text her again later this week, just to make sure...
Any form of analysis of the FR is always greatly appreciated. Until next time fellas.
TVKTVK
My roommate's frat was having a mixer with one of the sororities from school. They were planning on going out afterwards so I decided to join them downtown.
While I'm still changing, my other roomate's girlfriend shows up at the door with her friends, all drunk(these are all girls from my social circle). They are slamming on the door and telling me to come out with them, haha. Silly girls. I tell them I'll meet them at the bar since we're all heading to the same bar. My outfit for the night was my leather bomber jacket(dark blue body, beige sleeves), a blue button down floral shirt (not too flashy, but still peacocking), black tight fitted jeans and brown chelsea boots. Feeling pretty pimp, I headed out into the night...
I get to the line which probably is about 5 minutes long. This indian guy behind me blurts out hi to me and apologizes instantaneously saying he's drunk. I stay humble and strike a conversation with him and his venezuelan friend. This beautiful girl standing next to me is talking on her phone, but notice me kindly talking to these two guys. They are clearly a lot older than me, but significantly less dominant. When she hangs up the phone, she then joins in on the conversation! Can't remember the last time a girl cold approached me. The conversation somehow gets on the topic about her father and she starts slamming him for being a bad person. I then whisper in her ear if she has daddy issues. She gives me this "did he just fucking say that" look which I found hilarious. I just smile and laugh when she replies "you can't just say that to someone you just met!" She asks me if I'm with the two guys which I reply no to and we start our own conversation. I deep dive her a bit before we get checked into the bar, her first. She waits for me and ask if I want to go get a drink with her at the bar. Well, why not?
The bar is absolutely PACKED. She starts heading to the bar and I grab her hand to not loose her. She holds back. This kinda set up a bad frame though since she is the one leading me at this point. We get to the bar and she starts ordering drinks for us. After what just happened and with her still leading I tell her that I'm not comfortable with her paying for me. She understands. When we get our drinks I tell her we should head downtairs (trying to take back the leadership role). She complies.
While walking towards the stairs, I don't grab her hand because I'm holding my beer in one hand and guiding my way through the crowd with the other. This was a mistake. When I reach the stairs I look back and see her talking to a guy and a girl. Shit. I approach them and she introduces me to them. The girl then leaves, while club queen is still talking to the guy. I slap on a bored look, but they are both locked in... after 1 minute I tell club queen that I'm heading downstairs. She tells me she'll be down in a minute. Yeah right...
I head downstairs and the bar is even more packed there. I meet some of my bros at the dancefloor as well as some other friends from way back. I approach the girl that club queen introduced me to earlier on the dancefloor, but no dice. I then head up another staircase to the first floor and join a table of people from my social circle. I strike a fun conversation with a new girlfriend of a friend of mine. She introduces me to her girlfriend, but she is neither attractive or fun to talk to. I then spot club queen and the guy, still talking 15 feet right ahead of me. The guy looks like he's struggling to keep up in the conversation, and then recognize me sitting at the table. I give him this "when you fuck up I'll be there to grab her" smile, haha. Just asserting my dominance. I continue socializing within my group. This time when I look up to spot club queen, I see her talking with a new dude, haha. The next time I look up, she's gone. Oh well.
My roommate asks me to join him and some of the guys to my favourite bar. I comply. As we're heading out, I spot club queen in the smoking area with ANOTHER GUY. Willing to try one last time, I tell my bro to give me 1 minute, casually go over to the smoking area asking people for a smoke before I "accidentally" bump into club queen and the fourth guy I'd seen her talking to that evening. She introduces me to this guy, I start asking her if her night's been good and all that. The other guy leaves pretty quickly. I then tell her that I'm about to head to another bar and tell her to come join me. She counters saying I should rather come with her inside and just get drunk there. I persist but she doesn't budge. In hindsight I should have countered with telling her I have drinks back at my place, shit... So I leave for the other bar with my bros. Turned out the other bar was dead, but I met a cute girl from my junior high days and got her number.
The next day me and my roomie went out to watch a comedy show. We got pretty drunk pregaming, but the show was still terrible. We then hit a karoake bar with some friends. My roomie was hitting it pretty well off with one of the pretty girls from our social circle, and they have hooked up before. For future references I will start calling my single roomie for GQ because he seriously looks the part, he is gorgeous. Not only that, he's also a very smooth talker. His only problem is that he doesn't really cold approach other places than the dancefloor. Most of his lays are from extended social circle girls chasing after him. I wanted to learn more about his conversation techniques since the girl was investing so heavily in the conversation, but I was seated too far from them... Anyway, looks like GQ was only teasing the girl and after a while he heads home. Me on the other hand head to my usual bar in town. And the second I step in, what do I see? That's right, club queen talking to another fucking guy at the bar. This is hilarious. I could now for certain put her in the club queen category: Beautiful, dominant, goes out a lot, very social and prefers male company. All the signs mentioned by Chase!
She recognizes me, beams and exclaims my name and tells me to come over. I'm guessing the guy was a friend of hers, but he was cockblocking me and would not let me join in on the conversation. I tell myself screw this, and head to the dancefloor where I dance my ass off. Mind you I was quite drunk at this point and not really in seduction mode. The lights come on and people start to head out. I see club queen and her friend still talking at the bar. I end up inviting them both to an afterparty at my place. On the way I'm trying to find some girls to join the after party, but I don't see anyone while we're walking to the apartment? I end bringing some random guy who was waiting for his friends to pick him up. This turned out to be a good move, because the guy was hilarious and brought good vibes to the after party. We drink a lot so I don't remember much, but I'm pretty sure I didn't get any proper interactions with club queen back at my place. I remember her being on the phone with her mom for quite some time, she was recently divorced (this explains her previous rant about her father). Also the guy friend she was with kept talking about how hot her mom was, wtf? At 5 am people start to leave. Suddenly me and club queen are sitting alone in the couch, her friend is outside with some other guy friends that suddeny showed up. I think I told her that we should meet up some other time and to give me her number. She complies and writes both her first name and last name in my phone. She then starts to head out. After 10 seconds she comes back in again, walks up to me and kisses me for about 3 seconds. She then walks out the door again, eyes locked at me and smiling. I give her my devilish smile back before I see her leave out the door. Aaand that's about it.
I know I should have not let her go after she kissed me, I was trying to play it waay too cool just looking at her leave with my half grin smile. I should have persuaded her to stay even though there were five guys outside waiting for her. But these are the kinds of mistakes tvktvk does when he is shitfaced... I texted her the next day in the afternoon:
- Hey club queen, was nice meeting you again last night, haha
tvktvkNo response, so I'm pretty sure this is a dead end. I'll text her again later this week, just to make sure...
Any form of analysis of the FR is always greatly appreciated. Until next time fellas.
TVKTVK
