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Hello Gents,
I haven't been on GC so much but something recently happened that hasn't really happened.
I've been seeing a girl for about a 6-weeks ish, bout twice a week and sometimes once a week.
It really depended on my schedule. And I've noticed she's starting to push for more things now.
We usually go eat at a nice restaurant (I personally enjoy nice restaurants with nice aesthetics) and go to a movie theater/park/walk around, do whatever. Sometimes I'll just lay around grass with her and other times I'll be in a movie theater or park and she's giving me one of the best head ever.
Recently, she started making comments such as these.
"We should go somewhere else, we always go to X"
And as I've expected her to want to go more forward with the relationship, I said sure, why not.
As I enjoy her company and she also knows this is a 'casual open relationships', and I'm seeing other girls.
Also, NOONE knows about this, as we keep it very discreet.
Anyway, recently I sent her a video of something funny that happened while I was out and about and showed it to her.
And immediately she sends me a text.
Her: 'Aw, were you at Y?, Next time take me with you~
Me: Sure.
Her: Yay!
Me: Not anytime soon, just down the road.
Her: ?? Promise me you'll take me to places.
And I didn't respond to that.
It's actually moving way faster than I expected and honestly I just wanted to keep this relationship as casual for long as possible. But it seems like she's starting to want more from me as 'taking her to places'. And when we do hang out, I usually have to leave and it goes something like this.
Her: 1 More hour, please?
Me: No I really have to go.
Her: But we haven't spent any alone time!
Me: I know but I really have to go, I told you before
Her: She sits on my lap and starts 'rubbing my dick'
(Mind you we're in public place and she's doing this discretely'
Me: What.. Omg
Her: We can have fun? Please!
Me: No.
Her: Fine.
What threw me off was the last text she sent me.
"Promise me you'll take me to places"
As if I need to be taking her to places in the first place?
I'm not sure how I should be responding to this?
As I'm starting to be careful around here.
Sometimes I'm insecure as to thinking she just wants me to take her to places.
OR she just wants to move forward.
BTW I usually always pay for our uber rides, as she's not really financially well and pretty broke.
But She does pay here and there when she can (and even lied to her parent using their credit card to pay for our meal once)
So is she just using me to go to places because she's broke?
Or does she just want to go forward with the relationship?
How can I test this?
I haven't been on GC so much but something recently happened that hasn't really happened.
I've been seeing a girl for about a 6-weeks ish, bout twice a week and sometimes once a week.
It really depended on my schedule. And I've noticed she's starting to push for more things now.
We usually go eat at a nice restaurant (I personally enjoy nice restaurants with nice aesthetics) and go to a movie theater/park/walk around, do whatever. Sometimes I'll just lay around grass with her and other times I'll be in a movie theater or park and she's giving me one of the best head ever.
Recently, she started making comments such as these.
"We should go somewhere else, we always go to X"
And as I've expected her to want to go more forward with the relationship, I said sure, why not.
As I enjoy her company and she also knows this is a 'casual open relationships', and I'm seeing other girls.
Also, NOONE knows about this, as we keep it very discreet.
Anyway, recently I sent her a video of something funny that happened while I was out and about and showed it to her.
And immediately she sends me a text.
Her: 'Aw, were you at Y?, Next time take me with you~
Me: Sure.
Her: Yay!
Me: Not anytime soon, just down the road.
Her: ?? Promise me you'll take me to places.
And I didn't respond to that.
It's actually moving way faster than I expected and honestly I just wanted to keep this relationship as casual for long as possible. But it seems like she's starting to want more from me as 'taking her to places'. And when we do hang out, I usually have to leave and it goes something like this.
Her: 1 More hour, please?
Me: No I really have to go.
Her: But we haven't spent any alone time!
Me: I know but I really have to go, I told you before
Her: She sits on my lap and starts 'rubbing my dick'
(Mind you we're in public place and she's doing this discretely'
Me: What.. Omg
Her: We can have fun? Please!
Me: No.
Her: Fine.
What threw me off was the last text she sent me.
"Promise me you'll take me to places"
As if I need to be taking her to places in the first place?
I'm not sure how I should be responding to this?
As I'm starting to be careful around here.
Sometimes I'm insecure as to thinking she just wants me to take her to places.
OR she just wants to move forward.
BTW I usually always pay for our uber rides, as she's not really financially well and pretty broke.
But She does pay here and there when she can (and even lied to her parent using their credit card to pay for our meal once)
So is she just using me to go to places because she's broke?
Or does she just want to go forward with the relationship?
How can I test this?
