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Ever since coming to this site and finally figuring it out, I have written about 11 lay reports and been with 15 different women. If my standards were lower when it came to looks, I would have likely been with a lot more. For a while I whined about my life on here though, mostly about being Indian and missing out. All of my lays have had a unique story to them whether it is a Russian blonde, Italian brunette, a redhead, or some crazy girl. Tons of pleasurable heart pounding moments to where I had the girl alone, made out with her, stripped her down, and pounded the life out of her.
Looking back at it all, I have realized that the hardest thing to do is just to get started and keep going. You would be amazed at how many limiting beliefs can easily die down with just experience and going out. Here are two limiting beliefs I held:
1. Girls hate brown guys.
William Gupta was kind enough to cover this in his podcast but I struggled with it for a long time. I am grateful that Franco and Chase were so patient with me but it was definitely a process. Once you go out, have some luck, get some good reception from a small number of girls, and have a fun night it goes away. I don't know if I am completely over it but I know that I am definitely a lot better off than when I started.
2. I am missing out, time is running out, and it will never be as good as it was in school or college.
I struggled with this a lot as well and to be frank, I still do. As someone who was never a part of the popular kids or high on the social hierarchy in college and high school, I often got to the point of thinking what's the point? Nothing I do at this point will compare with what the popular guy in high school or college experienced. That somehow I won't get the nice parties, fun friends, as well as hot girls in my social circle. While I do have the hot girls part covered and I have a couple of fun friends, I still lack the party and fun filled lifestyle right now. Regardless, sex with cute girls is fun and this beats living in regret the whole time.
Once I got started, that is when it happened.
It doesn't even have to follow a procedure or game plan. Sometimes you will get laid even when you did everything wrong. Looking back at it, most of the girls I got were initially interested in me. All it took was getting off my ass and getting out there, creating the opportunity!
Looking back at it all, I have realized that the hardest thing to do is just to get started and keep going. You would be amazed at how many limiting beliefs can easily die down with just experience and going out. Here are two limiting beliefs I held:
1. Girls hate brown guys.
William Gupta was kind enough to cover this in his podcast but I struggled with it for a long time. I am grateful that Franco and Chase were so patient with me but it was definitely a process. Once you go out, have some luck, get some good reception from a small number of girls, and have a fun night it goes away. I don't know if I am completely over it but I know that I am definitely a lot better off than when I started.
2. I am missing out, time is running out, and it will never be as good as it was in school or college.
I struggled with this a lot as well and to be frank, I still do. As someone who was never a part of the popular kids or high on the social hierarchy in college and high school, I often got to the point of thinking what's the point? Nothing I do at this point will compare with what the popular guy in high school or college experienced. That somehow I won't get the nice parties, fun friends, as well as hot girls in my social circle. While I do have the hot girls part covered and I have a couple of fun friends, I still lack the party and fun filled lifestyle right now. Regardless, sex with cute girls is fun and this beats living in regret the whole time.
Once I got started, that is when it happened.
It doesn't even have to follow a procedure or game plan. Sometimes you will get laid even when you did everything wrong. Looking back at it, most of the girls I got were initially interested in me. All it took was getting off my ass and getting out there, creating the opportunity!
