The heart breaking seducer

[Ree]

Read some post where chase says if you are not going to give a girl a relationship ,you should probably just fuck her once....
This is to prevent the girl from being emotionally attached
I follow this rule religiously
I only ever fuck girls once 
And the scenario unfolds the same way every time.
the girls try to organize another meet,I avoid it,the girls get bitter and hurt.
....I really cannot think of a single girl I slept with who did not follow this route.
Is there a better way to one night them?
Is there a way where you lay them....give them good sex...never see them again..without...them getting hurt.
....because man..I have tried everything.....before the seduction I tell them I am in a relationship...I lie that I travel a lot...I tell them I am busy....but the results never vary...every lay,ends up heartbroken .
     Does there exist another route?..or is this the only path....for the heartbreaking seducer?

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Ree,

I started by keeping them as girlfriends. It's nice for a time, but then you realize it sucks a lot of time and energy, and don't progress fast in getting good with girls.

Then I went the same route as you are now, accumulating a lot of one timers. But after some time you realize that it's a little pointless to just rack up numbers.

Then I started keeping the ones that I liked, and went on the polyamorous route. That's still where I am. It's the best solution I have found so far. There is one (you like the most) who is your "main" girlfriend. Then you have many regular sides.

With the sides, you meet regularly, but not often enough that they develop feelings, and you keep things very well into sexual territory when you meet them. You bond with them, just enough to keep their interest up, but not enough for them to develop feelings. After a few times, if you calibrate well enough, I guarantee you that they have the very clear picture of what this is, and most of the time (there are some unfortunate exceptions) there won't be any heartbreak. You'll also find out that many girls are fine with this arrangement, at least for a time... until they leave you for a tree with greener leaves. Meaning you won't have to worry about formally "breaking" with them. You will also find out that some of these girls who leave you, will come back to you sooner or later.

That's with the FB side girls. They are easy to manage.

With the "main" you can afford to be a little bit more bonding and BF like... Still keeping it highly sexual when you two meet. It's harder to manage and have higher risks of heartache. I'm still learning it.

I hope this helps!

Cheers
Seppuku
PS. I've been thinking of visiting Nairobi for a little while. Maybe April or May this year if stars align. Happy to meet you in real if we have a chance.

 

[Ree]

Wow......come visit Nairobi man.....damn...that would be super awesome

 

[Mr.Rob]

Ree,

Sounds like life is really hard for you right now.

Perhaps try not giving them as amazing sex as you have previously?

 

[Ree]

Ree,

Sounds like life is really hard for you right now.

Perhaps try not giving them as amazing sex as you have previously?

Lol....my Nigerian seducer freind gave me the same advice....