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Hey guys,
Find yourself feeling stifled or tense when you're trying to stop a girl, flirt with her, ask her out, and even touch her?
Before you start looking at what to DO, i.e. do I preopen? Do I deep dive first? Do i do incidental touch first...etc. First check the place you're coming from. Are you trying to take something from her? This could be anything from reinforcing your self-image... to trying to prove to yourself you're good at game. Ask yourself..are you coming from the place of loving and giving?
This is important because it's going to determine how the girl respond to you than what you're actually doing. I only finally realize this today when I was out and I was very stuck in my head. I was constantly focused on my technique and the words I say, but the more I worry about these, the more I NEED something from the girl. And it just goes into a downward spiral of neediness. Then I look back to the times when I was doing well, I didn't even focus on what I was doing. I was just giving and flowing and the "techniques" just come out naturally.
Hope you find this helpful =)
Find yourself feeling stifled or tense when you're trying to stop a girl, flirt with her, ask her out, and even touch her?
Before you start looking at what to DO, i.e. do I preopen? Do I deep dive first? Do i do incidental touch first...etc. First check the place you're coming from. Are you trying to take something from her? This could be anything from reinforcing your self-image... to trying to prove to yourself you're good at game. Ask yourself..are you coming from the place of loving and giving?
This is important because it's going to determine how the girl respond to you than what you're actually doing. I only finally realize this today when I was out and I was very stuck in my head. I was constantly focused on my technique and the words I say, but the more I worry about these, the more I NEED something from the girl. And it just goes into a downward spiral of neediness. Then I look back to the times when I was doing well, I didn't even focus on what I was doing. I was just giving and flowing and the "techniques" just come out naturally.
Hope you find this helpful =)
