The need to prove

[Chad Tyrone]

So happens that I'm around new people partly because I'm kinda working with them but will be out of here anytime soon.

I have done social circle back in the past and I'm well aware of the dynamics.Hell,pulled lays of it.Regardless of this,I prefer cold approach every time.

Again I have a circle currently.I'm more sigma but the guys(dudes and chicks) keep coming where I am at any given moment.Funny thing is they keep bringing up dating,sex and relationships every single time and I hate it that they are clueless about any of the subjects lol.

I've read articles in the past over at the site about not talking pickup or game with other people unless they are game aware and I've stuck with that for the better part of my life.Also read the article about being a showoff and how to do it good.However,happened that one day one guy brought up the game thing again when we were alone by ourselves.

At first I thought he may be aware of sex talk but once I kept him opening up and opening up I realized how little of life he has experienced lol .That's how good I am at picking up people's brains . Really helps me a lot.I then asked him if she's ever had a girl chase him from the go for sex or relationships once they first met and he said such a thing is impossible.I mentally facepalm .

He then went bragging of how he's good at getting girls despite of his lame knowledge about game or seduction as a whole .I kinda felt belittled and wanted to show him my results but decided against it cause I would be breaching one of my virtues, discretion that is,that I usually communicate and stick with with women.

I then thought about showing him the site or the forum but still chose not to.I realized how mouthy he is and would tell the chicks which he did that's why I didn't want to.Anyways he asked the chicks if such a thing is possible and lucky me I wasn't around at the time.I am at a point where I never introduce people to game cause for starters they are lazy to put in the work and two they will go around fucking up my reputation mainly because they are jealous.I would then be thought of as a "manipulative" guy.I just wanna come across as a ''just gets it" kind of guy.

Talked about it with one of my game-aware guys and he said he is experiencing it too.He is around chicks that he's meh about gaming lol.Told me that he heard the chicks bragging about how good they are at stringing guys along and would never chase a guy themselves.Sounds like what Chase talks about some chicks saying that game doesn't or would never work on them.

My buddy wanted to show them a good way of looking at things but like me he chose not to.

So my question is what do you experienced guys do ,if you have ever experienced this,when someone belittles you and thinks you are lame just like them when deep down u know u r god's gift to women

Should I keep it on the low and let them win with their shitty life experiences...the dudes kissing up to chicks and the chicks missing out on a chance with a true seducer who saves them from the mundane lives they lead .

More about proving to them that this stuff is possible cause hey I ain't going into hour long discussions about game and seduction only to have them experience cognitive dissonance and hardly winning any of them to my side.

Best,
Chad Tyrone.

 

[Chase]

@Chad Tyrone,

Well the long-term answer is you just stop hanging out around those kinds of people.

When you have a lot of knowledge or experience in an area, and somebody else has a bunch of loud opinions rooted in ignorance, the only satisfying solution is "get the hell away from that person."

You are not going to educate him. If he wanted education he would be inquisitive, looking about, discussing with others in an open-minded way, searching for answers, not braying about his big opinions.

If you want to one-up someone like this, you easily can... just ask him questions that lead him into hanging himself by his own rope:

GUY: Dude, I am such a pimp. I get ALL the ladies. P.S. girls chasing you is impossible.​

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YOU: Oh yeah? Thanks for the knowledge share, Pimp Supreme. So how would you pick up that girl over there?​

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GUY: Dude, look at that girl. She's a bitch queen imperial. You CAN'T pick up that girl. So don't even try. I'll tell you the secret: you've got to become friends with a girl, then six, eight months down the line, when she's bawling her eyes out over her abusive ex, you STRIKE!​

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YOU: Sick plan, broski. So would we call that the 8-month plan? What do you do, have like 16 or 24 plates spinning at once so you've always got a couple of 8-month-planners coming up each month?​

At some point if you just keep asking him questions like this he will realize he's being mocked and stop talking.

But yeah, long-term, find friends who are inquisitive, open-minded, improvement-oriented people, rather than blockhead opinion brayers.

Chase

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Lol had enough of these suckers today.I just walked away .I would keep my knowledge to myself.I paid for it and these guys would take it for granted.Probably too lazy and arrogant to learn.

Happened that they brought it up again.They really look at things surfacely ... hardly can back up any stuff they talk about.

The guys say you are the guy you should lead which I'm not against.Hell,Girlschase talks about it endlessly.Funnily enough these guys take it over the top when I talk about girls chasing and they are capable of doing so in different ways which the guys ,it seems,have never experienced or rather are oblivious to.

Anyway,one of them says that a girl shouldn't be chasing cause u r the leader u should be the one pursuing .I mean they are all against the girl complying in any way and would rather have themselves investing more and more into the girl.Haha no amount of therapy is gonna undo this level of programming .


A chick then joins the guy and says that yeah if you don't simp or spend lots of cash , there's no way in hell you getting the girl...dummy as it gets.They back each other up while dumbing each other down to me.I only tell them that they are living a different reality and walked away.Never felt that good being at the top.I mean hardly anyone around measures up to me.Not to brag but this is a reality I've been living for long.

Yeah but it's odd they just don't pick up I'm fooling them when I play dumb.They go on and on giving me lame advice that I'll never follow...not in a million years.And I sit there silently thinking how they got it all wrong.It's such a great feeling when u have this mysterious air about you.

I mean you losers can sit there waste ur time telling me things that don't relate with what I've experienced and read for years while I sit here and see what a fool u making of yourself.

I would never have such people as friends it's only that we happen to be working in the same firm temporarily and this far my beliefs are grounded enough that none of them could shake them in any way whatsoever.

Got two friends around who we can talk about seduction and game for long giving different views without disagreeing.I would stick with those.

To hell with the losers.

And btw how would u deal with such if an older relative would think of u as clueless with girls?I just shut the fuck up and pretend I'm listening lol.Again,it's pretty much the Dunning-Kruger effect here

Chad Tyrone

 

[Chase]

A chick then joins the guy and says that yeah if you don't simp or spend lots of cash , there's no way in hell you getting the girl

"Nice. So what's the usual price guys end up paying for you? Is it more in the hundreds or more in the thousands?"

Yeah but it's odd they just don't pick up I'm fooling them when I play dumb.

Well they're just low IQ then.

There's a certain threshold of intelligence where below it people simply cannot tell if you are bullshitting them or not.

it's only that we happen to be working in the same firm temporarily

Ah. Not much you can do there.

Just plug your ears with cotton whenever those guys are around.

Or make a game of it. Find the biggest simps you can and talk to them about how these guys are players.

Then dap them when they call these simps pimps.

And btw how would u deal with such if an older relative would think of u as clueless with girls?I just shut the fuck up and pretend I'm listening lol.Again,it's pretty much the Dunning-Kruger effect here

Chad Tyrone

Well I don't know what your relationship with your relatives is like. I think it's pretty different between people and their relatives.

Like in another thread @POB mentioned he will tell his relatives "It's none of your business"... which tells me it's a very different relationship (with probably much more annoying relatives) than I have. I really like all my relatives. My family is for the most part awesome. If they want to know something about my love life, and I don't want to tell them, I'll demur and they'll respect it. But some folk's relatives are not as respectful or aware, or they will just latch on and insist, or be annoying, etc.

So yeah, you can just pretend you're listening. You can thank them for the tips.

If you want to get them off your back for good you can just agree with them while tying it to an experience of yours that DHVs your game skill:

UNCLE JOE: You know what you've got to do with these girls is not chase 'em too hard. That's the secret sauce. Because if you chase too hard, they can just string you a long. There's a balance you've got to hit.​

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CHAD TYRONE: Oh absolutely. You know I had this girl over the other night, and you know how I got her? After I first met her, she was acting all flaky, and I just did exactly what you're talking about... I just cut the communication way down, almost stopped texting her entirely, and four days later she's triple messaging me to see where I am and what happened to me and she came right out after that. It totally works.​

Then they'll realize oh, okay! He's a player. He knows this stuff. He knows the same stuff I do. Good!

At that point they'll either chill out about it or you'll get a higher level of discussion with them, since they don't think they're talking to a newb who doesn't know women anymore.

Chase