the One and Done

[Doncorleone]

Hey GC community,

I’ve been reflecting on the past couple months of my experiences with girls in college. I have noticed that I have been experiencing a “one and done” kind of issue. What I mean by that is I have been able to meet lots of girls and am able to text / Snapchat them a bit, we go grab a cup of coffee or go out to a restaurant, go to a party but then it goes stale from there. Suddenly things start to become everyday occurrences and it feels like going through a daily motion, and we hear from each other less and less. I have no issue at parties meeting and moving fast with girls, but anything outside of that environment I struggle. What can I do to avoid this and get better at not making this happen?

 

[Ree]

I remember that phase....so many first dates that don't lead to lays or lead to date twos.......
....I don't know how other people handle this...l.but I handle it by cheating ....I screen out girls on the fence...and only date girls who are into me

 

[Doncorleone]

Thanks for your reply. can you give more info on your screening process? I'm a pretty confident person otherwise, I have a pretty respected student job on my college campus, I'm involved and and have a lot of friends, and act and dress accordingly. I think this turns girls on initially, but I lack the depth to take it to the next level with them.

 

[Ree]

hey.
i used to walk,chat girls up for a few seconds.then number close......
this method resulted in very many numbers but very few convert to dates.
nowadays i do what chase recomends.....
i ask for investment from girls within a few minutes of the interaction.(can i see ur bracelet?,can i see ur tatoo....even having a girl who was walking stop so that you talk,is investment)
this method will result in fewer numbers....many girls will not stop to talk to you....but the few numbers you get are usually stronger