The popular guy

[germinal]

Hello gents,
I have a very straightforward question. It makes good sense that attraction has an expiration date, and heck I've been a victim of it. But what of the particular case of the popular guy, in college, at the office etc., who has all the girls pining over him and trying to get his attention? How do they not get into "auto-rejection"? Another example of that is to be found in Chase's story about the pink mobile phone: the lady in question apparently had been chasing that other guy forever: how's that possible?

I suspect it's something to do with a closed environment and "lesser value" girls but I'm not sure...

 

[trashKENNUT]

germinal,

I have a very straightforward question. It makes good sense that attraction has an expiration date, and heck I've been a victim of it. But what of the particular case of the popular guy, in college, at the office etc., who has all the girls pining over him and trying to get his attention? How do they not get into "auto-rejection"? Another example of that is to be found in Chase's story about the pink mobile phone: the lady in question apparently had been chasing that other guy forever: how's that possible?

I suspect it's something to do with a closed environment and "lesser value" girls but I'm not sure...

i think it's not a case of attraction expiring but you have been put as a "boyfriend candidate". "Boyfriend candidate" have long term expiration date. Think of idols, or superstars. Anyway, the guy in Chase's video is probably her lover, while Chase, at that time, was just a "backup plan".

IF girls chase you longer than expected, it's more likely down to the value you bring, authority or "boyfriend candidate". It's funny research also says women are in it for something (resources, value, anything), just like guys do, for sex. Personal experience wise, i have had number of girls chase me for long awhile, two years, because of value.

My explanation here is not good. Let's see if some guys can answered it better.

Zac