LR The Power of Intention

[Howell]

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Forming My Intention

This morning I woke up from a Bergman-esque dream of me interacting with some extremely feminine women. It was a good dream and I reflected on it as I took a shower and had breakfast. My plans for the day had been basically to get some work projects done and do a bit of writing. The usual. But as I thought about it, I realized I hadn't met anyone new for a few weeks now, as I've been totally absorbed in some nonsocial activities. And upon reflection, I also realized that I'd steadily been growing weary of the lack of variety; the monotony of my routine. It was time for a change. So I decided I'd devote today primarily to socializing -- and more specifically, to seduction. Quite simply, my goal was to find a cute girl to be intimate with ASAP.

So I axed my original plans and got started.

Taking Action

I started out by logging on to OkCupid. Luckily I made a profile a few months ago and just had to reactivate it. I sent a bunch of messages but didn't really have all that high of hopes. Online dating has never really been amazing for me. Only a handful of lays from it over a 2-3 month period. But today, within the first few hours after I decided to find a new girl, I got into conversations with 7 (attractive) girls. And all but two of those eventually gave me their numbers. And 2 of those 5 agreed to a date this very day -- one at 2 PM, the other at 8:30 PM. If you're not familiar with online dating, just know that these numbers are really good. I attribute this to luck and my "pre-opener" (all I do is say "You're adorable." and all the girls that respond to that I move on to opening/inviting them to meet up in a more individualized fashion).

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That settled, I go to the gym and work out, then go to a park and meet a few girls walking around. I practice situational openers and after about a 45 minute walk end up with 2 new prospects. So far so good

It's only just past noon, and I'm already juggling more girls than I can keep track of, so I decide I'll take a break from meeting people and get a little work done. I go to a cafe and pull out my computer and do stuff online for a while. Then date #1 roles around, and since we're meeting at this cafe, I just keep working till she arrives.

She shows up and, though she's cute, she's not as cute as she looked in her pics. But that doesn't bother me -- I had been planning to just use the interaction for social momentum anyway, and it served that purpose nicely.

We have an interesting and sexually charged conversation and then I get hungry so say farewell to go get a burger (buy one get one free tempeh burgers with a side of potato salad. Delicious).

After that I go on Tinder and talk with some more people on there. Then I walk around main street, but I don't find any more girls to pick up.

Next I go to the library and renew my library books then do work and reading till date #2 comes around at 8:30 PM.

Meet this girl at the same bar/cafe/bicycle repair shop as the first one, and happily this girl is ever CUTER than she is in her pics. Short cropped blonde hair, bright eyes, and large breasts. Also a perky, yet shy attitude.

Awesome.

We talk, deep dive, etc. She's responding well to my touch and things couldn't be going more smoothly, so I say "let's get out of here" after about a half hour. She says okay. We go for a brief stroll and I bump into my old roommate. High five and a hug then move on.

Sit and talk on some benches, and though the interaction is not super "on" physically, we still are getting along swimmingly and are quite comfortable with each other. A sexual frame is also in place, so I invite her to "watch a movie". She agrees and we head back to our vehicles. I drive and she bikes back to her apartment. I show up after her and she leads me to her room. Choose a movie and snuggle up on the bed. When the opening credits start to roll I pull her chin up towards my face and kiss her. GG.

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2 hours later I'm driving home. I get home just after midnight and realize that I'd succeeded in doing exactly what I'd set out to do today. It feels pretty good (though the sex was still better).

{Come to think of it, that was one of my fastest meet to lay times (1:30). Nice.}

And with 3 more dates coming up in the next few days -- two from OkCupid and one from the park, I have to say: it's been a pretty good day.

Conclusion

This all just goes to show you the power of your intention. Had I not acknowledged that I wanted to get a girl today and then took the necessary actions to do so, none of this would have happened.

So here's to making plans and taking action!

-Howell

 

[ray_zorse]

Fist bump...I want to retry tinder...bought the system just out of interest and it's incredible (highly recommended) but I still cbf getting professional pics done, juggling too many priorities but I'm damn impressed w this lay. Always see u giving good advice to dudes and I'm glad you're not neglecting to care for yourself too Go get em
-Ray

 

[NarrowJ]

Howell,

This is definitely a great motivational read for anyone who wants to take charge of their dating life.

I remember when I was first starting out that getting girls seemed so fucking difficult, an almost insurmountable task just to lay a single girl, let alone have a contact list in my phone literally chock full of women. After you realize that getting out and actually taking action gets you not only a random piece of ass here and there every few months or so... but if you are adamant enough about it, put in the necessary work, and ACTUALLY APPROACH girls that you like when you see them... well, you can actually literally have more pussy on your schedule than you can even account for.

And we saw that in your report. I mean, damn... after only a few hours of messaging / approaching girls you had more than you could literally keep track of.

It's nice to go from the frustration of "When am I going to meet a girl I actually have a chance with?!!" to instead the jubilation of "I want to get laid today. Guess I'll go talk to some girls and do this shit!", and it's easy for any guy to do that. He just has to do what you did; get out and take action and make it happen.

Again, great report!


J.J.

 

[007]

Great, motivational report man!

Been doing the same this few days but taking smaller steps as I am only a beginner..so just socialising. But yes! Intention, intention

Keep doing well brotha.. and if you do not mind describe the sex as well next time haha..

007

 

[Explosive Results]

This all just goes to show you the power of your intention. [...] So here's to making plans and taking action!

You've demonstrated the importance of setting goals - nice work!

A sexual frame is also in place, so I invite her to "watch a movie". She agrees and we head back to our vehicles. I drive and she bikes back to her apartment

Could you please elaborate upon how you got her to agree to go back to her place?

 

[BarryS1]

A day in the life! Its awesome to push everything aside and go ham on getting out there. Plus you did it on one day too, nice!

 

[Howell]

Thank you all for your comments and kind words -- quite encouraging!

A sexual frame is also in place, so I invite her to "watch a movie". She agrees and we head back to our vehicles. I drive and she bikes back to her apartment

Could you please elaborate upon how you got her to agree to go back to her place?

Earlier in the interaction I told her why we couldn't go back to my place (relatives visiting), and she was a bright girl -- so when I said "Hey, let's watch a movie." she knew what I meant. I'd also asked her about her living situation earlier in the date, so she was able to connect the dots.

This was one of those situations where the girl isn't showing tons of signs of attraction but she's still following. As long as I was hitting escalation windows fast enough, I was good -- and actually, I think I could have gone even faster and it would have been better.

After I said "let's watch a movie" and she agreed, I said "Dang, I left my flashdrive at home -- don't think I have any movies on my computer with me right now..." And she took the hint and said "What about actual hard copy dvds? I have some of those." I replied "Awesome, we'll have to check 'em out."

We actually never explicitly said we were going over to her place, but we both knew what we really were talking about, and also that we weren't really talking about watching a movie either.

We moved off the topic for a minute and then I had her write her address in my phone (we couldn't go together as my car's trunk is too small to fit bikes).

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So the key things here were that I'd dealt with most of the logistics earlier by giving her a reason why we couldn't go back to my place (without saying that explicitly), and I also spread seeds to come back to and hints throughout the interaction, taking it a step at a time, and not going straight from the bar to her house. We instead took a walk around the block first. And this incremental escalation made it all just feel the most natural thing for her.

Also, subtlety is really useful. I think it's generally underrated by most seducers, which is a pity, as it doesn't just establish a discretionary frame discretely, it also shows that you are socially graceful, which is a desirable characteristic for any relationship. If you can help people reach the conclusions you want them to, especially if you can make it so they think think that they made that decision wholly for themselves, their resolve is going to be a lot stronger and they'll be much more prone to investing in you and, more than that, it will be their pleasure to do so.

-Howell

 

[lux7]

Fist bump...I want to retry tinder...bought the system just out of interest and it's incredible (highly recommended) but I still cbf getting professional pics done, juggling too many priorities but I'm damn impressed w this lay. Always see u giving good advice to dudes and I'm glad you're not neglecting to care for yourself too Go get em
-Ray

Hey Ray,

What Tinder system did you buy if I may ask?