The power struggle

[in3rtmatter]

Hey everyone,

I've been enjoying reading the articles and putting it to use, but I've seem to run into a little problem. I met a girl recently and we went on a two dates and hooked up on the second one. Being inexperienced I didn't realize that I was in a power struggle and I think I've been loosing it because I've always been the one initiating calls,texts,kissing etc...The wrench in the situation however is that she thinks I am permanently moving across coasts so on our third and final date where we spent the night together again she said she didn't want to try and do the distance thing and it's better that we leave it as is and said goodbye to each other. Now I leave in a week and honestly my move is not as permanent as I let on, I can be back in a month and if I am i'd like to continue things with this girl. Question is what should I do now for this week, I want to see her but I don't want to be the one initiating after we've already said goodbye(further cementing being the one-down) and I don't think she will initiate anything and might just write me off. Am I permanently screwed here and should I just move on or do I have any other plays I can make? I'd like to make things work with her. Thanks again guys, you rock!

 

[Just_Dave]

Hey Matter,

Here's a great GirlsChase article covering power struggles
https://www.girlschase.com/content/relationship-control-and-female-domination

Dave

 

[devlish]

in3rt right now the best thing to do is just chill, relax, and understand it'll just take a quick call to explain everything, then maybe a few days later meet up again and tell her you'll see her when you get back. I always find relaxing when your fretting is the best way forward. Btw your acting a bit scarce so go game a bit more get that abundance up.

 

[in3rtmatter]

Thanks Dave and Devlish for the advice. I read through the article again and it echoes your thoughts devlish of acting scarce. Again thanks for setting me straight...