Since I've recently started approaching girls, I've started thinking about when a girls doesn't reject me and we go out and when I get to take a girl home to eat or watch a movie, and to start escalating.
And I think there's a problem with my apartment. First it's big around 150 square meters(500 square feet). A big living room, 2 bathrooms, the bedroom and a completely empty second bedroom. You enter to a small hallway and there are doors for all the different rooms - you don't enter directly to the living room like some apartments.
The problem I think I'll have it taking a girl in my living room. It'll really overload her mind. There's just so much in there like:
- my piano
- two guitars - one acoustic and one electric with amp
- my ukulele
- my tennis bag with my racquets
- a few paintings and my drawings
- a wine rack with 50 wines and a few champagnes(I love wine and champagne, it's the only alcohol I drink with pleasure)
- pictures and souvenirs from every country I've been to, sitting on a raft
- 3 vintage cameras
- book shelf with books
- a big desk with:
- 1 PC running 4 20inch monitors
- second PC running a big 50 inch TV
- 4 laptops (1 macbook air and 3 windows)
- 5 different smartphones (apple, 2 android, windows 8)
- 4 different tablets (2 apple and 2 android)
- a camera set up with the tripod and lights
those are the things I use for the software development part of my company and websites, etc
- a work table with:
- a bunch of blueprints for my inventions
- all sorts of electronic and tech parts and solders - basically a mini radio shack,
- a chemistry set, I'm trying to figure out a recipe about a cool compound to use in an invention I'm trying to make
- a couple of fire extinguishers, cause sometimes the compounds catch on fire cause it's a bit unstable
-Also I'm thinking of buying a motorcycle and I don't have room in the garage so I'll be keeping it in my apartment also
It's a perfect living room for me and for the way I work and get inspiration all the time when I don't expect it. So I can't put all the stuff in an office and work there.
But I get that this is not a seductive environment and it'll give any girl an overload of information.
So I'm thinking I can't take a girl to the living room at least till we've slept together a few times.The bedroom is plain and seductive - big comfy bed, silk sheets, dimmer switch, mini stereo for music maybe, and wardrobes, nothing non seductive there. But what do I do when I take her home to eat sth or watch a movie and how do I go about it.
Do we just take food for home and eat in the bedroom? Do i take a laptop and watch a movie in the bedroom? What excuse do I give her for us to not be in the living room? Do I tell her that it's really messy, or that the heat went out (during the colder months), or tell her that it's a secret and she can't go there?
And what do I do the 2nd or 3rd time she comes by and wanders why she hasn't been in the living room.
Any thought or suggestions. And clean out my living room or move are not options. That's who I am, those are the things I like and bring me joy to live around. The question is how do I keep a girl out? what excuses do I use not to let her in before we've slept a few times together.
And I think there's a problem with my apartment. First it's big around 150 square meters(500 square feet). A big living room, 2 bathrooms, the bedroom and a completely empty second bedroom. You enter to a small hallway and there are doors for all the different rooms - you don't enter directly to the living room like some apartments.
The problem I think I'll have it taking a girl in my living room. It'll really overload her mind. There's just so much in there like:
- my piano
- two guitars - one acoustic and one electric with amp
- my ukulele
- my tennis bag with my racquets
- a few paintings and my drawings
- a wine rack with 50 wines and a few champagnes(I love wine and champagne, it's the only alcohol I drink with pleasure)
- pictures and souvenirs from every country I've been to, sitting on a raft
- 3 vintage cameras
- book shelf with books
- a big desk with:
- 1 PC running 4 20inch monitors
- second PC running a big 50 inch TV
- 4 laptops (1 macbook air and 3 windows)
- 5 different smartphones (apple, 2 android, windows 8)
- 4 different tablets (2 apple and 2 android)
- a camera set up with the tripod and lights
those are the things I use for the software development part of my company and websites, etc
- a work table with:
- a bunch of blueprints for my inventions
- all sorts of electronic and tech parts and solders - basically a mini radio shack,
- a chemistry set, I'm trying to figure out a recipe about a cool compound to use in an invention I'm trying to make
- a couple of fire extinguishers, cause sometimes the compounds catch on fire cause it's a bit unstable
-Also I'm thinking of buying a motorcycle and I don't have room in the garage so I'll be keeping it in my apartment also
It's a perfect living room for me and for the way I work and get inspiration all the time when I don't expect it. So I can't put all the stuff in an office and work there.
But I get that this is not a seductive environment and it'll give any girl an overload of information.
So I'm thinking I can't take a girl to the living room at least till we've slept together a few times.The bedroom is plain and seductive - big comfy bed, silk sheets, dimmer switch, mini stereo for music maybe, and wardrobes, nothing non seductive there. But what do I do when I take her home to eat sth or watch a movie and how do I go about it.
Do we just take food for home and eat in the bedroom? Do i take a laptop and watch a movie in the bedroom? What excuse do I give her for us to not be in the living room? Do I tell her that it's really messy, or that the heat went out (during the colder months), or tell her that it's a secret and she can't go there?
And what do I do the 2nd or 3rd time she comes by and wanders why she hasn't been in the living room.
Any thought or suggestions. And clean out my living room or move are not options. That's who I am, those are the things I like and bring me joy to live around. The question is how do I keep a girl out? what excuses do I use not to let her in before we've slept a few times together.
