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The Reset

zeroman2

Space Monkey
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Hello Beginner Here
I been studying game for 3 years now and I only gotten a little better than I was when I started. The things I’m WAY better at when I started till now are reading signs of interest, flirting more, stop chasing, and Deep Dive.

However, despite all that I still have never slept with a girl (I had a couple of chances thought). So now I decided to start over and reset. Starting from scratch and work my way up. For me, making progress is what really matters most to me. Making sure I get better each time I go out and meet girls even if just little.

I did day game and night game in the last 2 days and I going to tell you how it when. I knew I wasn’t going to be good but I just want to know where I'm at and making the next steps.

Night Game
I went to a bar that usually popular on Fridays but I went Saturday because that was my day off. When I got there, it was lot more men their than woman. About a 1 to 3 ration. I didn’t talk to any girl that night because all the girls were either with their boyfriends, a gang of guys hitting on them, or do not look like they want to be approach. So, I just had one drink and looking to see if anybody else would have better luck than me and they didn’t. Knowing nobody else was not having any luck I went home. I did say hi to a few of the guys that was there but we never went to any type of conversation.

Day Game
I was meeting a friend to go see a movie at the mall. Were 2 girls notice my shirt. I just told briefly were I got it and walk away. I meet up with my friend and we walked around I decided to walk up to them again with my friend this time (just to let you know my friend is even worse in game than me) so we walked up to them I said hi again and introduce my friend to them than I just said have a nice day and we walked away from them (even my friend was like why didn’t you try to have a better conversation with them but I was a little afraid) So we walked around the mall trying to find more girls to walk up to but we never had the courage. We didn’t even see the movie that day we just got both massages at this one place.

Now base on this what should I do better next time when it comes to both situations and your overall thoughts about it, me, or anything in general you want to give me advice on.
 
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ulrich

Modern Human
Modern Human
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1) Night game
Strike conversations with groups where you think they are not boyfriend and girlfriend, do it in a friendly way and abort if you get the feeling they are indeed a couple.
You will be surprised how often they are just friends.
Also, look closer, I find hard to believe ALL girls had a a couple. Maybe your radar is not that good.
Finally, look for more venues, that one does sound super productive.

2) Day game
You know what to do.
Approach more and don’t eject that soon.
 
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