The Shy, Byronic Vibe

[AsianPersuasion]

"Hey, umm... I don't normally do this, because I'm really shy, but honestly... I think you look fucking beautiful. I wanted to come take my chances and say hello. I'm AP. What's your name?"

After reading Chase's new article on the Three Flavors of Sexy, I noticed that brooding men were far more prevalent in high school and college, and began to think about if I could make my own learning curves work for me... I can be really talkative and mischevious when I want to be, but naturally, I'm far more low energy and have a many kinks in my game here and there. This rules out smooth, because I won't be able to follow that vibe perfectly beginning to end, and I haven't gotten much success adopting the talkative vibe because of the many kinks...

So since I am naturally low energy, have lots of kinks in my social style, shy is a pretty stereotypical characteristic of Asian males, but because of last summer, have no problem opening sets, I have a hunch that this might work out. I have yet to try this, but believe me, I will the next time I can be out trying my hand, I will. And I'll definitely be posting results.

But anyway, if any of you guys have experience playing the confident introvert, what do you think? I'm really curious about what might become of this.

 

[Richard]

AP! Nice to see you back and posting, you been slacking while you were gone?

Haha, anyway, if I had to classify myself as anything, I'd probably be a "confident introvert."

I prefer spending my time with a close friends, or by myself working on stuff. That's just my preference though, because I've since developed hoards of extroverted qualities, and can actively go out and engage people in conversation... y'know, the usual...

Anyway, natural introversion in it of itself has many beneficial assets like; analytical ability, focus, imaginative qualities, knowledge of self, we interpret more information in any given situation, and so on and so forth.

Mix those natural introvert qualities with confidence and you've got the makings of a life changer. After all, some of the most important advances in technology or in human development have been the result of confident introverts

However, we use our skill to seduce women =P Lots and lots of women.

-Richard

 

[AsianPersuasion]

Nice to see you still on here too Richard! I have to admit I have been slacking, but for some period of time, I'll be back in short intervals. I'm planning to take this to a mall and post about my results later actually. I may or may not get to it this weekend, because Minnesota's being hit with some dangerous cold, but I will ASAP.

Do you try to emulate that vibe when you talk to them? Yours from the past field reports I've read for you seem a lot more chill than mine, where I was more or less trying to force a talkative vibe... Like SashaDaygame kinda. I know from past experience that either it doesn't fit well with me, or I'm just doing it wrong.

 

[Richard]

You've gotta look at my other FRs and LRs now.

When I was out picking up, I was introverted because I was picking up women selectively instead of engaging all women I came across, while I was confident in my approach, and confident in my social skills.

So, I was playful/sexy at the same time while still being confident.

A little hard to explain because it's me at my core, and it's not something I had to work on

Anyway, if you're not the talkative type then don't be. In reality, as you progress more and more, you start to be able to speak without words, and you're able to communicate without saying much. You can communicate sexual interest through touch instead of words, you can communicate understanding with facial expressions. Hell, you can command with facial expressions.

This game is about communicating, not necessarily talking your way into her pants.