The Truth Exposed

[SillyCarl]

What's up fellow brothers...

I have hit a crossroad in my Casanova journey currently. You see when I started girls chase all I wanted was more girls and having gotten that now I can't help see the truth of women. Girls I clubs saying they have boyfriends, then go on to cheat, even the quite shy girls who hide it well that they are loyal also cheat if they are introduced to the right guy. I can't help but see women as opportunists, I mean I know I am young and there's more to learn in life but this shit is right in your face that you can't ignore. There's a girl that I am looking to be in a relationship with but I can't help think what is the point, if I choose to be loyal, there's a high chance she will cheat or try to fuck me up someway in a relationship.

I am not too sure the point of this rant, but I am just looking to the older guys of the community and what your take on this issue knowing the manipulative and opportunistic nature of women. Do you just date, but fuck around on the side and not invest emotions ? I just don't know anymore, after having been so addicted to getting girls to finally getting them then this shit comes up ? Fuck man I just feel like I was scammed, going out 7 days a week and improving myself to get girls then this realisation sets in , I am just like fuck man. I just recently heard from my uncle that my dad used to bag bitches when he was younger, I couldn't believe it for the life of me because he is such a bitch now that I've lost most respect for him as a man, but to hear that just made me question everything about women. So older guys of the community what is your take on the issue, I feel like this feeling will just make me lose all trust on girls for real.

 

[Seppuku]

My take is it is not all that black.

So you found out that women are naturally, intrinsically hypergamous. They are genetically designed to look up for the best possible mate available, and the race for the top never ends. Always on the lookout for an even better guy! But this is a fact of life, and if you didn't find it out, girls would still be hypergamous, and you would be the helpless fool. You are much better off knowing the truth, than ignoring it.

As you get better with your seduction skills, you will increasingly become the guy for which girls cheat on their BF - rather than the guy being cheated on. Sorry for the other dudes, really, but it's better to be in your shoes, that in theirs.

Also, you found out that relationships are difficult, because of this hypergamy. But here there is nothing new. Relationships are difficult anyway. However, as you become better with girls, your girls management skills improve as well. Not a guarantee of anything, but still much better than the average dude who has strictly *no clue* about what's going on in his relationship - and what to do about it.

Finally, as you improve with girls, you will become better at reading her motivations to be around you. You will find out that different girls have different reasons to be with you, and not all these reasons are equally honorable. How about these ones: "If I'm with this guy it will make me look good in front of my girlfriends". "If I'm with this guy, it will boost my social status". "If I'm with this guy, I will be financially secure". Etc... But, good news, you will also discover that there are girls who want to be with you, because they can't help feeling happy around you, and don't care about anything else. Yes there are some like this, too! Seeing more clearly around girls motivations will greatly help you screening out some potential huge troublemakers.

Believe me, I have seen both sides of the coin, from my own eyes... You are a much better man by knowing all this stuff!

Seppuku