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What an adventure.
A lot happened, I'm glossing over details. Feel free to ask me to elaborate.
Its Friday night, I want to get out of the house so I go to a bookstore where I usually see a cutie or two despite its low traffic.
I browse, pick out some astrology and chakra books and sit my ass down where I have a good view of the store. This chakra book is amazing.
Anyway I see a cute girl pass by. Excuses pop up and I hesitate and then I'm in dead end rumination.
Lo and behold, she sits close to me. I take this as a good sign, but my usual anxiety flares. Reading this book about the chakras has me rethinking the anxiety and looking inward, just feeling this swirl of emotion and reflecting on the experience. I see the another dude checking her out too.
When I'm at my best, is when I'm feeling free and clear headed, which allows my natural masculine qualities to do the work for me or rather I'm aligned with my masculinity, or... whatever.
So I relax and embrace the fact that if I settle myself, my instincts will take over.
Eventually I manage to relax enough to overcome the still present anxiety and ask her about a book she's reading. Happens to be on similar subjects I'm reading.
She lights up like a christmas tree. When she finds out I'm reading about chakras she's decides to just come sit by me. We vibe like crazy, the thing about being into spiritual stuff is that you feel a bit alone. And when you find someone who's on the same page its like drinking from an oasis.
The chemistry was so good that looking back I was thinking that game doesn't even matter here. After a deeper look, I saw all the hard work and experiences that cultivated the man I am becoming. I was at ease leading the interaction and she complimented my walk and body a lot. Just a man and a woman enjoying each other's company.
We talked about the books for awhile, looked around the store and then took a walk for some fresh air.
We are getting into some deep spiritual stuff now. She mentions her interest in producing electronic music. I've been interested in that for awhile, and with all this spiritual talk I take it as a sign from the universe. I tell her we should make some music together right now. She agrees. I love spontaneous people.
So she goes back home to get her laptop and keyboard and I take care of some errands before meeting at my place.
She shows me some of her songs. She has an amazing voice and definitely talented. We end up having to leave because I promised my dad (still figuring out the last steps to move to the new city) privacy with his girlfriend and head to the park.
We don't even bring the music stuff. I show her the park's lake which is a great view. We end up at the picnic table listening to music on her phone under the rolling clouds and flash lightning approaching. It was awesome. I end up sprawling out on the table and she lies next to me. I pull her into me and we start to kiss. I swear to you, it starts raining at this exact moment. It starts getting hot and heavy and the rain is picking up. I tell her that she just experienced every girl's dream.
It starts pouring so we run back to my house. We get completely and utterly soaked. You thought I was going to say naked. My dad's busy in the living room so we take shelter on the porch and resume our fun. After a while, we need to warm ourselves in her car.
Eventually we just go inside and my dad's gone to bed. Now we shed our wet clothes and have a nice warm blanket to share on the couch. Here we are able to properly have some fun and pleasure each other. She spends the night and we have a little more fun in the morning.
The main things to take away are how connection and leading is so important. Sometimes you come across people who you have a lot in common with and your personalities are complementary, but a girl is not going to make moves for you. They actually do make subtle moves all the time, your job is jump through the windows she opens (ex. escalation windows, standing near you, playing with hair across the room, I think they feel like they are basically screaming make a move when they do this) and they are also very observant and thinking about you. She told me when she walked by she really wanted to talk to me.
Most of our conversations were just sharing knowledge about astrology and similar subjects, relating to each other our experiences and some playfulness and lightheartedness sprinkled in.
Overall great night, I plan on seeing this girl again.
A lot happened, I'm glossing over details. Feel free to ask me to elaborate.
Its Friday night, I want to get out of the house so I go to a bookstore where I usually see a cutie or two despite its low traffic.
I browse, pick out some astrology and chakra books and sit my ass down where I have a good view of the store. This chakra book is amazing.
Anyway I see a cute girl pass by. Excuses pop up and I hesitate and then I'm in dead end rumination.
Lo and behold, she sits close to me. I take this as a good sign, but my usual anxiety flares. Reading this book about the chakras has me rethinking the anxiety and looking inward, just feeling this swirl of emotion and reflecting on the experience. I see the another dude checking her out too.
When I'm at my best, is when I'm feeling free and clear headed, which allows my natural masculine qualities to do the work for me or rather I'm aligned with my masculinity, or... whatever.
So I relax and embrace the fact that if I settle myself, my instincts will take over.
Eventually I manage to relax enough to overcome the still present anxiety and ask her about a book she's reading. Happens to be on similar subjects I'm reading.
She lights up like a christmas tree. When she finds out I'm reading about chakras she's decides to just come sit by me. We vibe like crazy, the thing about being into spiritual stuff is that you feel a bit alone. And when you find someone who's on the same page its like drinking from an oasis.
The chemistry was so good that looking back I was thinking that game doesn't even matter here. After a deeper look, I saw all the hard work and experiences that cultivated the man I am becoming. I was at ease leading the interaction and she complimented my walk and body a lot. Just a man and a woman enjoying each other's company.
We talked about the books for awhile, looked around the store and then took a walk for some fresh air.
We are getting into some deep spiritual stuff now. She mentions her interest in producing electronic music. I've been interested in that for awhile, and with all this spiritual talk I take it as a sign from the universe. I tell her we should make some music together right now. She agrees. I love spontaneous people.
So she goes back home to get her laptop and keyboard and I take care of some errands before meeting at my place.
She shows me some of her songs. She has an amazing voice and definitely talented. We end up having to leave because I promised my dad (still figuring out the last steps to move to the new city) privacy with his girlfriend and head to the park.
We don't even bring the music stuff. I show her the park's lake which is a great view. We end up at the picnic table listening to music on her phone under the rolling clouds and flash lightning approaching. It was awesome. I end up sprawling out on the table and she lies next to me. I pull her into me and we start to kiss. I swear to you, it starts raining at this exact moment. It starts getting hot and heavy and the rain is picking up. I tell her that she just experienced every girl's dream.
It starts pouring so we run back to my house. We get completely and utterly soaked. You thought I was going to say naked. My dad's busy in the living room so we take shelter on the porch and resume our fun. After a while, we need to warm ourselves in her car.
Eventually we just go inside and my dad's gone to bed. Now we shed our wet clothes and have a nice warm blanket to share on the couch. Here we are able to properly have some fun and pleasure each other. She spends the night and we have a little more fun in the morning.
The main things to take away are how connection and leading is so important. Sometimes you come across people who you have a lot in common with and your personalities are complementary, but a girl is not going to make moves for you. They actually do make subtle moves all the time, your job is jump through the windows she opens (ex. escalation windows, standing near you, playing with hair across the room, I think they feel like they are basically screaming make a move when they do this) and they are also very observant and thinking about you. She told me when she walked by she really wanted to talk to me.
Most of our conversations were just sharing knowledge about astrology and similar subjects, relating to each other our experiences and some playfulness and lightheartedness sprinkled in.
Overall great night, I plan on seeing this girl again.
