The woman from hell

[Smiling_Stray]

A while back, I asked some chick out at the end of my first year of high school. She said yes, we set up the logistics and that was that. Until it wasn't. Something personal came up with her family and she got back to me later to set things up via texting. I was also pretty busy during the time she proposed. I forget how on earth we started arguing (this was almost a year ago), but we did. During the three days we knew each other, arguing was a common thing between us. So as you could imagine, we called things off in a fit of rage. Two weeks later, she texts me back apologizing. I wish I never texted back but I did. I couldn't help it, she was one of those girls most guys would be afraid to even walk up to in school (drop dead cute).

Fast forward a few days, her parents weren't too happy to hear we were talking again so she suggests I come over when nobody's home accept her. We had trouble finding a way for me to get to her place (no car) but we figured it out (there's a really nice bike path, super convenient). Would've gone perfectly if I hadn't gotten so smug I started doing all this cryptic shit that makes me laugh now (sexual phrases like show and tell, a riddle, I'm actually laughing too much right now to go on!). But yeah, don't do that. Lesson learned! Anyways, she caught on and just straight up asked me if I was implying sex via text. I was really thrown off since this was the first time any girl ever asked me that. I denied it all. She had to think about having me over afterwards, you guessed it! She changed her answer to don't come over. I came clean about lying later, said I did want sex (the guilt from lying about that was killing me). We ended up in this argument about how "sex is sacred, and only for those in love." There was a lot of man slut shaming. I had already read up on the whole fuckboy thing and how to make a killer zinger, so I put her in her place and we stopped texting.

I wish that was the end, because she texts me back every so often in an attempt for some sort of payback. Ugh! I just want her outta my life! She keeps digging around for information about me to figure out what she should try to ruin or take next, so far I've managed to keep her from doing any real damage it's just really annoying. She's even tried convincing other girls who are prospects from my previous school (hers currently) to hate me as much as her or something (to no avail, yet) and is constantly playing pranks on me. Help a brother out, how the hell do I get this chick from hell out of my life, out of my business. Is she just the kind of girl who gets turned on when she's angry or something and is desperately chasing? Or do I just need to apologize to this chick? Seriously, what's a guy to do?

 

[Fuck This]

No contact. Period.

Block her on all devices and social media.

When asked about her simply reply that you don't talk any more.

When she confronts you about why you don't respond (and only if she does it in person) you simply reply "I don't like the way you treat me and we are better off not talking. Now leave me alone and don't ever talk to or about me again."

I had a female acquaintance about 2 years ago, who made some not so veiled comments about us "being alone together". She seemed to like to pull people into her drama. I honestly think she wanted to have an affair with me, and I never pursued it. She also had a mean habit of making comments that were demeaning on social media. After one of those spiteful retorts, I blocked her on every platform and don't respond to her angry personal messages.

Shortly afterwards I find out she got dumped by her husband. She was pretty pissed at me but I don't respond. There is too much downside to fuck with this redhead...

Reading recommendation The Farmer and the Viper

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[andersen09]

This bitch is out for blood.
You have to shut this shit down, especially in high school.
She's in auto-rejection, but she'll do everything to get you back cause in high school kids, expect immature shit.
Fight fire with fire especially in public.

When she says some dumb shit in public, match her on equal terms. To the observers it just becomes a hilarious drama not to be taken seriously, versus a girl talking shit about you and you just staying silent.

Example.
Her: Ew He's always fucking hitting on women!
You: Bitch, you just fucking jealous cause I rejected your slutty ass.
Her: ?!

 

[Smiling_Stray]

Okay so this update is a little late, but I'd like to share how the fuck I got this spawn from hell off my back. But first, credit given where credit is due: I ended up taking your advice, Fuck This. We don't really go to the same school anymore, so I can't really shut her down completely on doing damage to my rep. in the other school but I did go ahead and ask a few of my trusted friends to keep an ear to the ground and let me know if anything comes up. Honestly, nothing has. I don't think anything ever will.

No contact. Period.

Block her on all devices and social media.

When asked about her simply reply that you don't talk any more.

When she confronts you about why you don't respond (and only if she does it in person) you simply reply "I don't like the way you treat me and we are better off not talking. Now leave me alone and don't ever talk to or about me again."

I had a female acquaintance about 2 years ago, who made some not so veiled comments about us "being alone together". She seemed to like to pull people into her drama. I honestly think she wanted to have an affair with me, and I never pursued it. She also had a mean habit of making comments that were demeaning on social media. After one of those spiteful retorts, I blocked her on every platform and don't respond to her angry personal messages.

Shortly afterwards I find out she got dumped by her husband. She was pretty pissed at me but I don't respond. There is too much downside to fuck with this redhead...

Reading recommendation The Farmer and the Viper

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So anyways, she ended up texting me a tease (and not the good kind, no she really was out for blood). So what'd I do? Well, I made the biggest dick move I could think of towards a woman. I posted that shit on Instagram, where all of our friends could see what the hell she's been up to (she should've moved faster to ruin my rep, the people ended up siding with me). I'm pretty sure she won't be coming back for more (like she said she would, although it's been almost a month and not a peep) since girls are very protective of their reputation and such (so now I don't think she see's fucking with my life as worth the risk anymore). She did end up replying to my post in disgust via text, so you know what I did? I posted that shit too, she didn't have anything to say after that. That was the point when I blocked her on social media and put her on my spam list in my contacts (rather than deleting it all together just in case she really does come back for more, that way I know who it is. You never know).

That's pretty much it, but thinking back on it now I wonder if I was at all excessive. We had many arguments but she wasn't always so evil, I don't regret it I just wonder if there was a way this could've gone less nuclear. Either way, if you ever have the same problem it might be worth going nuclear like I did but I would like to know if there's anyone else out there who has had to deal with the same thing and found a way out less nuclear. It's never fun screwing someone's reputation over when they where once upon a time not so damn hostile but then again, don't pity the wicked (yeah, I remembered that one).