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I make this post because I used to think I was a very outcome independent person because I didn't really care about stuff and was typically very optimistic.
But after a while I was wondering why was I attracting girls and not getting anywhere. This is because I was being a bitch.
I was using outcome independance as an excuse as a shield to not approach women as an excuse for not attempting to escalate as an excuse to not learn from my experiences and interactions because I had a placebo outcome independence called bitchitis.
Only after getting the drive to start applying material and fucking up have I realised I'm not truely outcome
Independent and they way I can truely become outcome independent is by improving meeting more women until I'm proficient enough that I truely don't care if I fuck up.
Hope this resonates with some members and gIves them the kick in the arse which I could of given myself for 3 year in which minor progress has been made practically.
Feel free to comment and add your thought
But after a while I was wondering why was I attracting girls and not getting anywhere. This is because I was being a bitch.
I was using outcome independance as an excuse as a shield to not approach women as an excuse for not attempting to escalate as an excuse to not learn from my experiences and interactions because I had a placebo outcome independence called bitchitis.
Only after getting the drive to start applying material and fucking up have I realised I'm not truely outcome
Independent and they way I can truely become outcome independent is by improving meeting more women until I'm proficient enough that I truely don't care if I fuck up.
Hope this resonates with some members and gIves them the kick in the arse which I could of given myself for 3 year in which minor progress has been made practically.
Feel free to comment and add your thought
