FR Thick “nice girl” lawyer

[MWall]

Went to a meet up group

20 people were there

Talked to the guys for an hour

Half the leave and now I’m sitting next to a lawyer woman who sits next to me

I introduce myself immediately and we talk for about an hour

She was attracted to me and very enthusiastic,
as the other girl sat on the other side and talk to another guy and then she left him after 2 minutes.... which used to happen to me....I felt good with our convo

There was a lot of attraction and a bit of a bubble

But this waiter dude who is slimmer than me kept walking back and forth which was taking her attention off me

At some point for some reason the attraction just released and I could not feel the spark anymore as much

I kept the conversation going
Mostly talking about my love of film

I had a sense that the order of what I talked about with her went wrong like wrong subject order or too sporadic

She didn’t have any interests beside her work, tried to talk about that but convo was getting thin

Talked about her college and childhood which she cut short because of something that happened to her I’m feeling

Then I asked her what she saw in the future of her career, she didn’t have a lot to say

I said a bunch of random little compliments like I liked how she said this or that and that she was a very nice woman(thick legs)

I felt the convo dying and then she said she was about to leave

And I said I’m about to leave too (witch has worked before) and can I walk her out

She said she was good

So I said nice to meet you and got up to say some goodbyes and I was way taller than her

Then I went to the bathroom then as I was leaving

she left at the same time as me And I walked in the parking lot and she walked along the veranda

Where the porch veranda thing has a stair case opening I looked back to her and said hey

She said yes with hope in her eyes that I was actually going to figure out how to fuck her tonight and walked to me with a bit of lonely emotion in her eyes

All I could say was hey we can get to know each other and maybe meet up later

She looked so disappointed

She Slapped her leg and said ok and walked away

I felt so mad that I didn’t know all the stuff to make it work yet to pull her and try to fuck in her car because my place is 20 miles away

But in the first third the the interaction there was that spark of heat between us and I know we both wanted it to go somewhere

 

[Fuck This]

I feel like you misread her emotions but the writing is unclear. You definitely did not have enough of a connection at that point for much more than an instadate somewhere else. If i'm reading it right and you read it right she wanted to get asked to go somewhere else with her then and there.

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she left at the same time as me And I walked in the parking lot and she walked along the veranda

Where the porch veranda thing has a stair case opening I looked back to her and said hey

She said yes with hope in her eyes that I was actually going to figure out how to fuck her tonight and walked to me with a bit of lonely emotion in her eyes

All I could say was hey we can get to know each other and maybe meet up later

She looked so disappointed

She Slapped her leg and said ok and walked away

 

[MWall]

THANKS FOR THE FEEDBACK BRUH

Yeah man, I was inside the restaurant talking with her for an hour, spark dims, she says she’s headed home

Im about to leave too so I offer to walk her out

she rejects the offer with “that’s ok” then I say ok and get up

I shake some other friends hands and walk past her saying excuse me and go to use the bathroom

2 minutes later I’m walking out and she is behind me so I hold the door for her and she smiles like she is still with me almost

I take the parking lot path and she walks under the awning attached to the building separate from me

then in a last stitch effort I say to her hey maybe next time ect ect

then she slaps her let
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as far as I could tell she wasn’t interested

so I should have invited for a night cap huh?

a lot of missed opportunities are because I don’t believe that they wold EVER work at my level LOL

 

[MWall]

Insta dates and pulls are my main focus now that I can approach and generally read choosing signals. Not focused on getting laid just yet

 

[PalmaSailor]

Well if you had invited her for a nightcap then it could have moved on.

my money her ASD kicked in and she just needed to be led..

 

[MWall]

Ok i hear you fellas. Im going to be asking for the pull more often now when i have an intriguing open.

I just found one of the good clubs in Houston with a lot of dance and costumes, so ill be getting more exposure to young fun energy.

In a month or two i imagine ill be hanging with alot more gals and guys just off learning about conversation and vibes

 

[Fuck This]

So perhaps if a conversation in the future starts to lag you propose a venue change.

Or more effectively, propose it at a high point and relate it to your conversation? Not all meets are going to be hot, but you can learn something from them all.