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So after doing a lot of approaches recently, which you can see in the journals section now since Franco unfortunately moved my thread, I notice that there are some parts about my game that need fixing and I am hoping to make progress in fixing those!
1. Worries about what others will think when I make an approach in public, such as what people will think if I get blown out or what people will see me doing. My fear becomes amplified when I am in a building like a grocery store or bar, I fear that if I get rejected and it is harsh, it will look awful on me and if I come back to the place I will be known as "that guy".
2. The issue of not being direct with my approaches due to not knowing the line between being direct versus being a creep, once again, especially true in grocery stores.
3. Coming up with what to say, I usually go with "hi how are you" but I need some better openers if I am going to get anywhere.
4. Distance, if I see a girl walking across the street I find cute or a girl a bit far away, what do I do? Do I run up to her and talk to her while looking a bit out of place or what?
5. Especially in bars and such, how to get the make out, even if I don't get laid, how do I get to having my first kiss and getting my first makeout....
1. Worries about what others will think when I make an approach in public, such as what people will think if I get blown out or what people will see me doing. My fear becomes amplified when I am in a building like a grocery store or bar, I fear that if I get rejected and it is harsh, it will look awful on me and if I come back to the place I will be known as "that guy".
2. The issue of not being direct with my approaches due to not knowing the line between being direct versus being a creep, once again, especially true in grocery stores.
3. Coming up with what to say, I usually go with "hi how are you" but I need some better openers if I am going to get anywhere.
4. Distance, if I see a girl walking across the street I find cute or a girl a bit far away, what do I do? Do I run up to her and talk to her while looking a bit out of place or what?
5. Especially in bars and such, how to get the make out, even if I don't get laid, how do I get to having my first kiss and getting my first makeout....
