Think relationship made me lose my momentum

[killerman]

Hey everyone, I joined the pickup community at the end of 2014 and started cold approaching properly, really intensely in april. From April to September I had dates with 33 different girls and ended up sleeping with 8 of them. 5 of them in the space of one month. I was on fire. Then I got into a relationship in September and ever since leaving the relationship in December I'ver started hitting the approaches hard but seems like I've seriously lost a lot of the momentum i'd gained beforehand. Despite fucking a girl on a first date who said she had a boyfriend and regularly getting past the i've got a boyfriend test, i'm not having the same results as before. only been on 2 dates since december 26 and currently not had sex in a month. Anyone else able to relate to this? Who else has been through this? I know it's only a temporary thing though. However I know my dress style is probably not helping since how i'm wearing a michelin man style coat these days as I havent got anything better to wear during these cold days (i'm going to upgrade to a really stylish coat soon). I guess it's also no coincidence that in the days I was getting more dates and lays, it was warm enough so I could go out in my nice smart blazer which made a very good impression.

However until I upgrade my style, what advice is there that you give me? How long before I start seeing results again?

 

[Orelfius]

Do you still cold approach as much as before?

For me, when I'm stick with bad results, it's usually the following pattern:
1- Follow Girlschase's great advices.
2- Get kickass results.
3- Feel awesome, feel pride. Huge self-esteem boost.
4- Cease to approach massively, start to be more and more selective (unconsciously trying to preserve new successful self-image). Waiting too much for indicators of interests.
5- Don't get as many result than before because now, I'm playing to not lose instead of playing to win.

Could it be your problem too? This ego challenge… It really sneak in your life perniciously without warning.