I was just reading different articles on the site regarding choosing the right girl, and combining almost all the things, this is my master list. I’ve actually prepared it for personal use, but I put it here because it may save some of you a lot of time required for reading almost 10 different articles on the topic. If all you want are the main points, this post will help.
So, the qualities of a girlfriend material girl are:
1. She has actual hobbies and interests about which she is excited, like singing, dancing, reading etc. Not something useless like watching a gossip show, or reading celebrity news all the time!
2. She has great family members and friends. That way, she is likely to be a good person, and will not be really clingy at any point.
3. She didn’t have many partners, because as the number of past relationships rises, loyalty normally decreases.
4. She has ambitions. She wants to achieve certain things, and she works for them too, not simply talks about what she wants to achieve without any action!
5. She is adventurous. Although that doesn’t mean that she has to risk her life all the time, occasionally, she must be willing to enjoy something new, and take little risks and chances.
6. She never stops being a slight challenge. She is always attainable, but not too attainable.
7. She is a loving and caring woman, not just someone who has lost her feminine qualities in the race of trying to be man.
8. She has quite good control over her emotions, and does not let her emotions run too wild or uncontrollable like crazy.
9. She doesn’t always talk about gossips, other people or controversies, and views the world as quite a safe and known place, not as something maddening and confusing!
10. She doesn’t normally frequently change her activities and hobbies, and sticks to mostly a certain set of things she is passionate about year after year.
11. She is not super charismatic, because being too sociable often means that she had a lot of previous relationships, and she is around many people all the time, which is never a very good thing.
12. She talks consistently, and stays mostly on topic. She doesn’t change topic all the time after short intervals, and her statements are not inconsistent.
13. She has good people around, but not too many who think that she is absolutely amazing, because that will make her super proud for no reason.
14. She had a stable childhood, and her parents are not divorced.
15. She is quite reliable, and does what she says.
16. She was not abused in the past, and there are no dark parts of her life she is unwilling to share.
17. She thinks she deserves great guys, and her self-image is on the positive side.
18. She had past relationships which were quite alright, and there is no unhealthy pattern that is common to all her past failed relationships.
19. She is not a party girl, and does not drink a lot.
20. She is mostly honest, and doesn’t not lie under normal situations or try to use people.
21. She is helping, and does not refuse, complain or avoid doing that all the time when help is asked for.
22. She is more attractive than you are, because if she is less attractive by a large margin, the relationship stability may shatter in the long run.
23. She doesn’t change the topic and try to avoid the questions when asked about past relationships or other sensitive things.
You can ignore one or two if the other things are alright with a girl, and you think that’s the way to go, but better not ignore many points, because that may lead to a lot of headache later! Cheers!
So, the qualities of a girlfriend material girl are:
1. She has actual hobbies and interests about which she is excited, like singing, dancing, reading etc. Not something useless like watching a gossip show, or reading celebrity news all the time!
2. She has great family members and friends. That way, she is likely to be a good person, and will not be really clingy at any point.
3. She didn’t have many partners, because as the number of past relationships rises, loyalty normally decreases.
4. She has ambitions. She wants to achieve certain things, and she works for them too, not simply talks about what she wants to achieve without any action!
5. She is adventurous. Although that doesn’t mean that she has to risk her life all the time, occasionally, she must be willing to enjoy something new, and take little risks and chances.
6. She never stops being a slight challenge. She is always attainable, but not too attainable.
7. She is a loving and caring woman, not just someone who has lost her feminine qualities in the race of trying to be man.
8. She has quite good control over her emotions, and does not let her emotions run too wild or uncontrollable like crazy.
9. She doesn’t always talk about gossips, other people or controversies, and views the world as quite a safe and known place, not as something maddening and confusing!
10. She doesn’t normally frequently change her activities and hobbies, and sticks to mostly a certain set of things she is passionate about year after year.
11. She is not super charismatic, because being too sociable often means that she had a lot of previous relationships, and she is around many people all the time, which is never a very good thing.
12. She talks consistently, and stays mostly on topic. She doesn’t change topic all the time after short intervals, and her statements are not inconsistent.
13. She has good people around, but not too many who think that she is absolutely amazing, because that will make her super proud for no reason.
14. She had a stable childhood, and her parents are not divorced.
15. She is quite reliable, and does what she says.
16. She was not abused in the past, and there are no dark parts of her life she is unwilling to share.
17. She thinks she deserves great guys, and her self-image is on the positive side.
18. She had past relationships which were quite alright, and there is no unhealthy pattern that is common to all her past failed relationships.
19. She is not a party girl, and does not drink a lot.
20. She is mostly honest, and doesn’t not lie under normal situations or try to use people.
21. She is helping, and does not refuse, complain or avoid doing that all the time when help is asked for.
22. She is more attractive than you are, because if she is less attractive by a large margin, the relationship stability may shatter in the long run.
23. She doesn’t change the topic and try to avoid the questions when asked about past relationships or other sensitive things.
You can ignore one or two if the other things are alright with a girl, and you think that’s the way to go, but better not ignore many points, because that may lead to a lot of headache later! Cheers!