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It seems I see alot of LR from tinder lol I never liked online dating, but I think I am interested, do you need a facebook? is tinder really that awesome?
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It has its pros and cons.
Its main disadvantage is that looks play a much bigger role than they normally do. There are things you can do to make up for it. But still, if you're below average, it'll probably hinder you. Additionally, you have to take the time out to acquire very good photos. Otherwise, you'll get almost no matches. And the matches you do get will be low quality and probably won't reply to you.
But once you've done all that, setting up dates is very easy and efficient. You don't have to go out, you don't have to get dressed up, and you can do it anytime/anywhere. You don't have to deal with cockblocks/isolating the girl. Also, a lot of girls go on Tinder explicitly looking for sex. Which is why you see so many LRs relating to Tinder.
It also allows you to bypass AA if you still have it. This is both a blessing and a curse. Its good because well...you don't have to deal with it. But its also bad because if you get good at Tinder, you'll become less and less motivated to ever actually go out and meet women IRL.
Its main disadvantage is that looks play a much bigger role than they normally do. There are things you can do to make up for it. But still, if you're below average, it'll probably hinder you. Additionally, you have to take the time out to acquire very good photos. Otherwise, you'll get almost no matches. And the matches you do get will be low quality and probably won't reply to you.
But once you've done all that, setting up dates is very easy and efficient. You don't have to go out, you don't have to get dressed up, and you can do it anytime/anywhere. You don't have to deal with cockblocks/isolating the girl. Also, a lot of girls go on Tinder explicitly looking for sex. Which is why you see so many LRs relating to Tinder.
It also allows you to bypass AA if you still have it. This is both a blessing and a curse. Its good because well...you don't have to deal with it. But its also bad because if you get good at Tinder, you'll become less and less motivated to ever actually go out and meet women IRL.
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Bboy, how many lays have you gotten from tinder?
In case you haven't already downloaded it, I would suggest you try it out. It can work out well if you can get good pictures and interesting profile. I have personally gotten laid using tinder and other dating apps. In fact, I mostly get all my women from tinder. I'll game at parties, and I'm trying to get into day game more, but generally I mostly get women from tinder and coffee meets bagel. Ultimately, try it out, it may work well, though it took me personally a long while before I had any success with it. Depending on how smooth you are, on the woman, on your attraction, you'll have to try and fail to figure out when to ask them out, how you open them, etc. And then you'll have to experiment with pictures as well, put a set up, see how it runs for a few weeks, try and keep track of your matches, then switch it up and repeat. It is definitely an uphill battle at first, but once you hit your stride with your profile, how you message women, and transition into asking them on a date/for their number, it can be a very good way at getting women and getting lays.