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Third time's the charm? Help plz!!!

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Hey Guys. I have this situation with this girl that a like a lot and she is the perfect girlfriend material ( good girl, great grades, likes to party but not too much, etc.). So we we're talking by text and I thought it wasn't going very well, and last friday I went to a college party that she was going too, and she kept texting me to find me in the party and when we were together she would grind on me, we would hold hands and I managed to isolate her from her friends, however when I tried to kiss her she turned her face away, not in disgust, she wasn't ready yet. So then she had to go home and I let her go to her friends. Fast forward 4 days and we had a an awkward conversation like there was no spark at all, and I noticed that she was waiting on me to ask her for a date which I didn't. That night we were texting and I said we have to grab a coffee next week, and she replied "We'll see that", and asked if I was going to a freshmen dinner that she was going to (we met in a freshman dinner) and I replied that i didn't know if i was going and she tried to persuade me into going. The next day I texted her that I wouldn't make it to the dinner, and asked her if she wanted to grab a coffee. Today, one day later she hasn't returned my text and I'm freaking out wondering why she hasn't texted me back and what I did wrong.
Then I talked to her again and told her after all I was going to the dinner (tonight). But then in college she was talking to this other guy from her class and ignored me, what should I do? Should i approach her at dinner?
P.S. I'm Portuguese so pardon me for my English.
 

Mr.Rob

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Hugoll12 said:
I'm freaking out wondering why she hasn't texted me back and what I did wrong.
Realize this is weak as fuck.
I get emotional over pointless female "attachment" from time to time as well and I always have to check myself and see I'm operating from a weak, ungrounded place and that's bad for everyone.

Hugoll12 said:
what should I do?
Meet lots of new girls!

https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls

Good luck!

-Rob
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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