This DM Too Forward?

[onlyshallow]

Hey guys, let's just say that I'm "that hot guy...who's socially isolated himself for a year" Seriously, every girl wants me but I'm this big taboo so approaching in this small town is out of the question. My only options are DM's through Instagram. Is sending this too forward? Here it goes:

Hello. You go/went to XYZ school, right? Anyway, let's not pretend we do not feel each other's faces so shoot me a DM if you wanna grab a coffee on the quick!

Don't worry for your reputation, nobody will know

Whatever you decide, have a good one

xox,
Onlyshallow

 

[andersen09]

Might as well say,

"Ey bitch, I know you want this D. Come and get it."

More to the point.

 

[onlyshallow]

Are you serious? Like have you ever tried that shit with great success? If it wasn't sarcasm, then that's fuckin badass man!

 

[andersen09]

Here's another line

"Let me help you unleash your inner thot girl. I know you've been waiting for the right guy to come along to unleash that inner thot. It's your lucky day."

 

[lostnumber]

Are you serious? Like have you ever tried that shit with great success? If it wasn't sarcasm, then that's fuckin badass man!

The odds of that working are approximately zero. I think (hope) that andersen09 is being sarcastic

I want to make sure I understand your situation onlyshallow; you are living in a small town without a lot of female options? Why is it that you are somehow "taboo"?

If every girl wants you I don't understand why you would be resorting to instagram DMs

 

[onlyshallow]

It's complicated, but seriously, good dm's anybody?

 

[lostnumber]

I would say trying to pick up girls by messaging them on instagram is an ineffective technique.

There is a long thread with a lot of spirited discussion on the role of social media in seduction here: viewtopic.php?f=3&t=17124

I challenged anyone to come forward with examples of how they were getting laid using IG or other social media and no one was able to provide any concrete examples. Not saying its impossible, especially if the girl is very interested in you already, but I think you're handicapping yourself big-time no matter what you message.

Very curious as to your circumstances that make you think you cannot use traditional methods like talking to a girl in person. Or barring that using an actual dating app like Tinder

 

[Regal Tiger]

I would say trying to pick up girls by messaging them on instagram is an ineffective technique.

There is a long thread with a lot of spirited discussion on the role of social media in seduction here: viewtopic.php?f=3&t=17124

I challenged anyone to come forward with examples of how they were getting laid using IG or other social media and no one was able to provide any concrete examples. Not saying its impossible, especially if the girl is very interested in you already, but I think you're handicapping yourself big-time no matter what you message.

Very curious as to your circumstances that make you think you cannot use traditional methods like talking to a girl in person. Or barring that using an actual dating app like Tinder

Also curious about that.


On topic:
As far as Instagram Seduction goes, I'm not super far along but just commenting on pictures and stories. Then quickly slide the conversation to DM's seems to work (though I am specifically focused on making friends over the world at the moment).

http://www.christiangreypua.com/ this website specifically dives into IG seduction as it's own thing. I got the eBook which has some good advice (think it was like 20 dollars or something, so not expensive).

From what I understand it's basically a status game. The more followers, the more likes and the more comments you get gives you much more status.

Focus on that first.


Though I will happily admit that I'm just getting started and focusing on making friends all over the world first, before getting laid through IG specifically.

I did however get a few nudes from a budding pornstar though, so I have that going for me

 

[andersen09]

From what I understand it's basically a status game. The more followers, the more likes and the more comments you get gives you much more status.

Focus on that first.


Though I will happily admit that I'm just getting started and focusing on making friends all over the world first, before getting laid through IG specifically.

I did however get a few nudes from a budding pornstar though, so I have that going for me

When you don't have status, just send them a dick pic like Regal Tiger. You'll get all the nudes.

 

[Regal Tiger]

When you don't have status, just send them a dick pic like Regal Tiger. You'll get all the nudes.

Sorry but that only works if you have pornstar dick like mine

 

[andersen09]

When you don't have status, just send them a dick pic like Regal Tiger. You'll get all the nudes.

Sorry but that only works if you have pornstar dick like mine

Onlyshallow, you need to have a pornstar dick according the guy above, to get nudes from pornstars (which you can find on google) so I'm not sure if it's worth anything.
I'd recommend learning from mistakes of others on this forum.

So I guess the only thing left is... use your DM line and test it out.