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- May 20, 2018
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More a social experiment with a cute young woman who happens to be GF to a close friend & therefore I consider off limits. I wouldn't use the below with a girl I had a personal interest in.
She was doing the usual female boasting about how women have the best social skills. I commented on how women have just boosted differential social skills to men. I made the point that in our culture men are expected to approach, therefore men have the best social skills when it comes to approaching & initiating contact whereas women have the best skills when it comes to determining whether that person is a good match to have particular kinds of relationships with (still exaggerating the social abilities of the average women but I prefer to be polite).
As a demonstration I showed her profiles of the various girls who have recently liked me on the online dating sites I use & asked her to pick the best & worst sexual partners. As the best she singled out a girl with genuine looking pictures, selfie free, who looks a little like Amanda Seyfried. She has a stable job in a 'caring' profession & her profile seemed upbeat, interesting & with a healthy amount of self deprecating humour. As the worst she picked a woman with glamorous, attractive looking pictures that on closer inspection seemed staged & who wasn't particularly pretty. Her job description seemed vague & she had written nothing to describe herself.
I then asked her what I should write to 'Amanda'' she said she didn't know. When I pressed her she said 'just say hi (name), do you want to go on a date. I sent her message to the 'worst match' & then dashed off a message to Amanda. Later this evening Amanda got back to me. I'm yet to hear from the other girl
She was doing the usual female boasting about how women have the best social skills. I commented on how women have just boosted differential social skills to men. I made the point that in our culture men are expected to approach, therefore men have the best social skills when it comes to approaching & initiating contact whereas women have the best skills when it comes to determining whether that person is a good match to have particular kinds of relationships with (still exaggerating the social abilities of the average women but I prefer to be polite).
As a demonstration I showed her profiles of the various girls who have recently liked me on the online dating sites I use & asked her to pick the best & worst sexual partners. As the best she singled out a girl with genuine looking pictures, selfie free, who looks a little like Amanda Seyfried. She has a stable job in a 'caring' profession & her profile seemed upbeat, interesting & with a healthy amount of self deprecating humour. As the worst she picked a woman with glamorous, attractive looking pictures that on closer inspection seemed staged & who wasn't particularly pretty. Her job description seemed vague & she had written nothing to describe herself.
I then asked her what I should write to 'Amanda'' she said she didn't know. When I pressed her she said 'just say hi (name), do you want to go on a date. I sent her message to the 'worst match' & then dashed off a message to Amanda. Later this evening Amanda got back to me. I'm yet to hear from the other girl
