This time it was not rejection. SADLY

[DKD]

From a beginner:

The decision was made. I was ready, I thought to myself. I began scouting....BUT once the selection was done things escalated to a level even I could not imagine. I froze, "should I ?", " No, I shouldn't", " It isn't the right time" and the window passed. I got really down after that, because before scouting I was excited....really excited. I never thought about rejection, but once things got serious. Rejection-embarrassment-humiliation (more of these 2) ALL AT ONCE came and swooped me away.

I had posted earlier and had got a few replies about not taking rejection too hard. Sadly, I was not rejected, how would I be,I never tried ! But even before rejection it was more of embarrassment and humiliation that kicked my enthusiasm out of me. I couldn't get myself to ask anyone else after that.

What the hell am I supposed to do ?

Anyone ???

 

[Vash]

You're making the idea of talking to people (because that's what women are, people), showing interest and asking them out, something completely normal that tons of people do, out to be this HUGE DEAL. I made a thread her not too long ago about it, and Tyme snapped me out of it, I got over my bitch butterflies, approached, and actually got her number. The next day, still in "state" I guess, I approached 5 more hot girls and got 3 of their numbers, and I'll be taking one out this weekend (probably get my first lay report up for you guys ) Things are so much easier if you don't make it out to be a big deal. You get rejected, the world keeps on spinning. WHO CARES. You're not going to attract every girl you meet, so don't sweat it. In fact, you should go asking girls out with the expectation to fail. Puts you in a totally relaxed and non-needy mindset, and you won't feel as bad after you get rejected. You'll say to yourself "Oh well, her loss."

Tyme was right. When you see a hot girl, approach before you start psyching yourself out and overthinking things, because then you tend to choke.