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Went to see a play in NYC and decided to do approaches in the Times Square area after. It was around 11:30 PM when I started and there were a lot of people on the streets. Did some half-ass approaches before I happened on the following good ones:
Sexy-ass Dominicana (SAD)
At around 12:30 am, I was choding figuring out what to do next after numerous unsuccessful approaches when I saw a latina with big tits, cleavage and nice ass walking briskly. She breezed right past me and ran to cross the street before the light turned red and I made it with her, which is when I opened.
I said something along the lines of, “I ran all the way after you cause I thought you were really sexy, I’m snipefield”. She smiled in response. She crossed another street on the intersection, and I extended my hand to introduce myself and made sure to just hold it while continuing to look in her eyes. She stopped right at the corner by the entrance to the train station and I asked her she was doing. She had just gotten off work.
We cross the street and it’s closed but I go in to ask the host for recommendations of nearby bars. They mumble something, not actually very helpful. SAD is still there when I emerge. I take her hand and we walk back down 42nd, past where I initially spotted her. I notice an Applebee’s and we go in there.
Go to the bar on the 2nd floor and she gets a call. Although I typically don’t drink, I thought she was gonna order booze so ordered a beer to make her feel comfortable. She’s talking on the phone, and after a couple of minutes it seems like there’ll be no end to it. I tell her to hang up and say she can call back later.
I put my hand on her hip while we chat and after some time she backs away a little bit.
Another banter episode:
A bit later on:
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Me: You have this look in your eye like you’re trying to figure me out. As if you’re thinking ‘Who is this guy?’
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She said she had to go home after about 10 minutes at the bar. I thought at first that I would just stay there as she left, but then figured that I could at least try kissing her again when we were walking back to the train station. I kept holding her hand. On the street, she put in headphones in both hear ears and I told her to take them off.
We went into the subway and I tried to kiss her again. It’s a bit challenging for me because I’m much taller than the average girl so if I go for a kiss in a non-jerky way, then she has time to pull away, which she did here.
We extended our hands out until I let her go. This girl didn’t give me much compliance after initially agreed to go with me. Judging by her questions, either she was looking for or I got slotted into the boyfriend territory. Good reference point with opening and inviting her for a date.
Fun Indian
I lingered a bit in the subway deciding whether I should go home or not. At this point it was 1 AM. Decided to go back out and continue the hunt. A couple of unsuccessful approaches here and there. The one approach that stands out is the approach that didn’t happen - there was a hot chick, but she was with her family, and I pussied out. There are actually many of these family sets in the Times Square area, so it pays to be a bit fearless and approach in spite of it….
Passed by a bar and noticed a lone girl people-gazing from a row of seats facing the window. I actually stopped and contemplated whether I should go in or not to speak with her. I’m glad she didn’t notice this hesitation.
Approached right after I walked in:
I told her how I was just walking around after letting my folks go post-theater. She in turn shared that she came from watching a musical she really enjoyed. She offered me a sip of her drink, which I recently saw in a video is DTF signal. Again, though I don’t drink, I accepted so as not to make her feel uncomfortable.
She asked me if I was gonna get a drink after our convo died down a bit. I said yes and got up to get one. This in retrospect was a very reactive and non-dominant move – allowing her to lead. There was no bartender at the bar for a couple of minutes and I realized that I should move FI instead. I went back and told her we’re gonna instead go to another place and that it’ll be a surprise. This really intrigued her and she asked me to tell her what it was. I stuck to my guns and kept the intrigue up. She was smiling a bit so I went in for a kiss and she pulled away, saying that she doesn’t know me well enough yet. I stayed calm about it. She asked if she should go to the bathroom here or there, and I told her to go here.
We got out on the street and walked hand-in-hand. I had planned this place before, and it was real close, but enough to keep the intrigue up. The venue had small round tables for two with a bench up against the wall. She automatically and naturally sat right next to me on the bench in a pretty intimate way.
I told her about how I’ve recently played guitar in front of people and how that brings me joy. In retrospect, this is an excellent question for getting to know a person.
I think she was satisfied with this one because we started to kiss not too long after that. I made sure to tease her a little bit by bringing my lips close to hers, breathing, but not actually going in for the kiss. My hands were sometimes on her thighs, sometimes running up and down her body. She would stroke my leg occasionally or caress my wrist or just touch my hand if I broke contact.
She kept complimenting me:
And, “I’m not sure I’m worthy”, which I don’t know what to make of at all.
Somehow the topic of lovers in other parts of the world came up:
There was live music in the venue and I was actually really enjoying it. However, we were quite close and had already made out, so I knew I had to pull. I established logistics right after one of the makeout sessions. FI was independent – she was visiting town for the weekend from DC. She did have relatives in the city, but ditched them for the evening and was staying in a hotel across the street from the bar where I met her (!). Alarm bells started ringing off in my head.
I deliberately didn’t visit the bathroom because I thought it would be a good excuse for me to come up to her hotel room after we left. However, the songs weren’t ending and she still seemed to be enjoying the music, so I went to the bathroom. After some time, I paid the tab and then said “let’s go”. She didn’t comply, saying that she wanted to stay and listen to some more songs.
Uhh, bad precedent. I agreed and we stayed for 2 or 3 more songs. Finally, she said we could go now.
It seemed like she went a little bit overboard with the compliments. I can’t place my finger on whether she thought her value was lower than mine, was teasing in some way, or was just earnest.
I decided to stop in the middle of the block and make out with her. Then I whispered into her ear:
We stopped in front of her hotel and she didn’t want me to come up.
Unfortunately I don’t remember her exact responses to this. She was definitely on the fence about it, but also not telling me to flat out go.
I thought I had gotten here to agree to let me in, but then we went in and just sat on a bench in the hotel lobby. I did let her know that I wasn’t gonna chit-chat with her here and just keep making out. Whispered in her ear that I want to run my hands over her entire body. Told her that we would just hang out and not do anything and that she can tell me to leave any time.
At one point I actually thought I had her convinced and told her let’s go, but as soon as we got up, she made it known that she was going up and I wasn’t coming with her.
I did send her a text, because you never know what may happen:
What do you guys make of this? One the one hand, she really didn’t have much to lose – I am a handsome guy who entertained her. On the other hand, she was quite interested in me and compliant to a certain degree.
Perhaps kissing killed the intrigue, since she knew what I was about. Also, I realize that I could have taken a step back when we were in the hotel lobby and offerred to go somewhere to eat and strengthened the connection and maker her feel more comfortable. Didn't cross my mind then cause I was so focused on just getting to her room and it was getting late..
I am proud of myself for going on the two dates, getting lots of touch and the make-out. Look forward to your ideas on what opportunity I missed to get Fun Indian in bed with me.
Really educational night for me!
Sexy-ass Dominicana (SAD)
At around 12:30 am, I was choding figuring out what to do next after numerous unsuccessful approaches when I saw a latina with big tits, cleavage and nice ass walking briskly. She breezed right past me and ran to cross the street before the light turned red and I made it with her, which is when I opened.
I said something along the lines of, “I ran all the way after you cause I thought you were really sexy, I’m snipefield”. She smiled in response. She crossed another street on the intersection, and I extended my hand to introduce myself and made sure to just hold it while continuing to look in her eyes. She stopped right at the corner by the entrance to the train station and I asked her she was doing. She had just gotten off work.
We cross the street and it’s closed but I go in to ask the host for recommendations of nearby bars. They mumble something, not actually very helpful. SAD is still there when I emerge. I take her hand and we walk back down 42nd, past where I initially spotted her. I notice an Applebee’s and we go in there.
Go to the bar on the 2nd floor and she gets a call. Although I typically don’t drink, I thought she was gonna order booze so ordered a beer to make her feel comfortable. She’s talking on the phone, and after a couple of minutes it seems like there’ll be no end to it. I tell her to hang up and say she can call back later.
I put my hand on her hip while we chat and after some time she backs away a little bit.
Another banter episode:
A bit later on:
-----
Me: You have this look in your eye like you’re trying to figure me out. As if you’re thinking ‘Who is this guy?’
------
She said she had to go home after about 10 minutes at the bar. I thought at first that I would just stay there as she left, but then figured that I could at least try kissing her again when we were walking back to the train station. I kept holding her hand. On the street, she put in headphones in both hear ears and I told her to take them off.
We went into the subway and I tried to kiss her again. It’s a bit challenging for me because I’m much taller than the average girl so if I go for a kiss in a non-jerky way, then she has time to pull away, which she did here.
We extended our hands out until I let her go. This girl didn’t give me much compliance after initially agreed to go with me. Judging by her questions, either she was looking for or I got slotted into the boyfriend territory. Good reference point with opening and inviting her for a date.
Fun Indian
I lingered a bit in the subway deciding whether I should go home or not. At this point it was 1 AM. Decided to go back out and continue the hunt. A couple of unsuccessful approaches here and there. The one approach that stands out is the approach that didn’t happen - there was a hot chick, but she was with her family, and I pussied out. There are actually many of these family sets in the Times Square area, so it pays to be a bit fearless and approach in spite of it….
Passed by a bar and noticed a lone girl people-gazing from a row of seats facing the window. I actually stopped and contemplated whether I should go in or not to speak with her. I’m glad she didn’t notice this hesitation.
Approached right after I walked in:
I told her how I was just walking around after letting my folks go post-theater. She in turn shared that she came from watching a musical she really enjoyed. She offered me a sip of her drink, which I recently saw in a video is DTF signal. Again, though I don’t drink, I accepted so as not to make her feel uncomfortable.
She asked me if I was gonna get a drink after our convo died down a bit. I said yes and got up to get one. This in retrospect was a very reactive and non-dominant move – allowing her to lead. There was no bartender at the bar for a couple of minutes and I realized that I should move FI instead. I went back and told her we’re gonna instead go to another place and that it’ll be a surprise. This really intrigued her and she asked me to tell her what it was. I stuck to my guns and kept the intrigue up. She was smiling a bit so I went in for a kiss and she pulled away, saying that she doesn’t know me well enough yet. I stayed calm about it. She asked if she should go to the bathroom here or there, and I told her to go here.
We got out on the street and walked hand-in-hand. I had planned this place before, and it was real close, but enough to keep the intrigue up. The venue had small round tables for two with a bench up against the wall. She automatically and naturally sat right next to me on the bench in a pretty intimate way.
I told her about how I’ve recently played guitar in front of people and how that brings me joy. In retrospect, this is an excellent question for getting to know a person.
I think she was satisfied with this one because we started to kiss not too long after that. I made sure to tease her a little bit by bringing my lips close to hers, breathing, but not actually going in for the kiss. My hands were sometimes on her thighs, sometimes running up and down her body. She would stroke my leg occasionally or caress my wrist or just touch my hand if I broke contact.
She kept complimenting me:
And, “I’m not sure I’m worthy”, which I don’t know what to make of at all.
Somehow the topic of lovers in other parts of the world came up:
There was live music in the venue and I was actually really enjoying it. However, we were quite close and had already made out, so I knew I had to pull. I established logistics right after one of the makeout sessions. FI was independent – she was visiting town for the weekend from DC. She did have relatives in the city, but ditched them for the evening and was staying in a hotel across the street from the bar where I met her (!). Alarm bells started ringing off in my head.
I deliberately didn’t visit the bathroom because I thought it would be a good excuse for me to come up to her hotel room after we left. However, the songs weren’t ending and she still seemed to be enjoying the music, so I went to the bathroom. After some time, I paid the tab and then said “let’s go”. She didn’t comply, saying that she wanted to stay and listen to some more songs.
Uhh, bad precedent. I agreed and we stayed for 2 or 3 more songs. Finally, she said we could go now.
It seemed like she went a little bit overboard with the compliments. I can’t place my finger on whether she thought her value was lower than mine, was teasing in some way, or was just earnest.
I decided to stop in the middle of the block and make out with her. Then I whispered into her ear:
We stopped in front of her hotel and she didn’t want me to come up.
Unfortunately I don’t remember her exact responses to this. She was definitely on the fence about it, but also not telling me to flat out go.
I thought I had gotten here to agree to let me in, but then we went in and just sat on a bench in the hotel lobby. I did let her know that I wasn’t gonna chit-chat with her here and just keep making out. Whispered in her ear that I want to run my hands over her entire body. Told her that we would just hang out and not do anything and that she can tell me to leave any time.
At one point I actually thought I had her convinced and told her let’s go, but as soon as we got up, she made it known that she was going up and I wasn’t coming with her.
I did send her a text, because you never know what may happen:
What do you guys make of this? One the one hand, she really didn’t have much to lose – I am a handsome guy who entertained her. On the other hand, she was quite interested in me and compliant to a certain degree.
Perhaps kissing killed the intrigue, since she knew what I was about. Also, I realize that I could have taken a step back when we were in the hotel lobby and offerred to go somewhere to eat and strengthened the connection and maker her feel more comfortable. Didn't cross my mind then cause I was so focused on just getting to her room and it was getting late..
I am proud of myself for going on the two dates, getting lots of touch and the make-out. Look forward to your ideas on what opportunity I missed to get Fun Indian in bed with me.
Really educational night for me!
