Matched with this girl on Tinder, she's 22 I'm 18, my profile is down as 20.
We had a bit of light banter at the start of texting, but from the outset her responses are flakey and inconsistent. At this point I'm tired of the games and just text her "let's go out for drinks, texting kinda sucks". She agrees and adds me on Instagram- turns out she's a curvy model
Having read Richard's post on Latinas I knew dominance was key, even more so given the age gap.
We ended up meeting at a cocktail bar by her hotel (frustrated I didn't set things up on my terms more, but it was quite late at night and it was her last night in town, so I figured it's better than no date at all).
Regardless, I arrive and she's there, looking more like 25-26 than 22. One of the first things she asks me is "how old are you", and I just calmly reply that I'm 20 =P (not sure she bought it haha)
In summary the date was me using some deep diving, although I found this a fair bit more challenging than with girls my age, where I'd ask some good questions then just sit and listen for ages
Decided to experiment with some sex talk (inspired by some colourful cocktail names from the menu), to which she reacted quite well and started teasing me back, but I could feel she found it hard to take me too seriously given I look way younger than her
Anyways we part ways with some pecks and that was that.
Things to take away:
- I feel I managed to hold my frame well when she was challenging the age gap
- One of the first proper attempts at straight-up sex talk went OK
- I did still feel she was too "strong" and mature, particularly for my level of experience and I am still a boy in relative terms I suppose
Apologies for the structure guys, wrote this in a bit of a rush. Any advice or opinions very much welcome.
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We had a bit of light banter at the start of texting, but from the outset her responses are flakey and inconsistent. At this point I'm tired of the games and just text her "let's go out for drinks, texting kinda sucks". She agrees and adds me on Instagram- turns out she's a curvy model
Having read Richard's post on Latinas I knew dominance was key, even more so given the age gap.
We ended up meeting at a cocktail bar by her hotel (frustrated I didn't set things up on my terms more, but it was quite late at night and it was her last night in town, so I figured it's better than no date at all).
Regardless, I arrive and she's there, looking more like 25-26 than 22. One of the first things she asks me is "how old are you", and I just calmly reply that I'm 20 =P (not sure she bought it haha)
In summary the date was me using some deep diving, although I found this a fair bit more challenging than with girls my age, where I'd ask some good questions then just sit and listen for ages
Decided to experiment with some sex talk (inspired by some colourful cocktail names from the menu), to which she reacted quite well and started teasing me back, but I could feel she found it hard to take me too seriously given I look way younger than her
Anyways we part ways with some pecks and that was that.
Things to take away:
- I feel I managed to hold my frame well when she was challenging the age gap
- One of the first proper attempts at straight-up sex talk went OK
- I did still feel she was too "strong" and mature, particularly for my level of experience and I am still a boy in relative terms I suppose
Apologies for the structure guys, wrote this in a bit of a rush. Any advice or opinions very much welcome.
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