tinder game is on fire... but i need some advice

[mindful]

hey guys,

I bought Colt's tinder program last week and since using it and making a few tweaks to my current process I have literally been cleaning house.

So far this week I have dates Tue, Wed,Thur (Monday's happened Saturday night via my LR).

But the problem is I have a few more girls waiting in line and it sucks because I can't plan a date with them til at least the end of the week since I am booked. However, my date for tonight already canceled, which, as far as I can tell, legit since she still seems interested and made it clear. Anyways, what sucks is now I have my night totally opened and potential other girls that I could of met up with tonight as well. Do I just start to overbook? I know it sounds bad but the way I'm starting to line up dates I gotta imagine some will fall through.

Can anyone chime in?

 

[Franco]

mindful,

Anyways, what sucks is now I have my night totally opened and potential other girls that I could of met up with tonight as well. Do I just start to overbook? I know it sounds bad but the way I'm starting to line up dates I gotta imagine some will fall through.

Doesn't sound bad at all! Double-booking days is indeed the answer to this problem. If you fill up your schedule for a week, then start going back through those days and booking more girls you meet on those same days. Then as the date gets closer, if one of them cancels, you still have the other one available. Or, if neither once cancels about three to four hours before the date, then cancel on the one you're less interested in meeting.

NOTE: Personally, I wouldn't book more than two girls for a given night. As much as it sounds great to increase your options, it also leaves a lot of logistics to be handled and a lot of headache to deal with (as well as a lot of disappointed women). But see what works best for you.

The key here is to make sure you cancel on one of them with an ample amount of time. I've found around three to four hours before the date to be a good time so that the girl feels like she was at least given a fair warning. There is a possibility that you could cancel on one girl three to four hours before the date and then have the other cancel within that small time period, so just be prepared for that. But don't be the guy that texts her 30 minutes before the date telling her you can't make it. If she was planning on coming, there's a good chance she did a lot of things to get ready for it, and there's a good chance you'll send her straight into auto-rejection if she feels like you jipped her or pussied out!

- Franco

 

[mindful]

Thanks for the reply Franco.

Yeah, I'm definitely going to start doing that. It's getting to the point where I'm getting a girls number within 30 mins of tinder chat. I actually just got a girls number just now and I'm gonna try for a date tomorrow even though I have one lol. I'm more excited about this one anyways.

 

[Jeet02]

I don't think I have ever heard someone killing it on Tinder so much... So now I am really interested...listening to the presentation as I write this...but here is my questions (little off topic):

How were you doing before the program? Getting a lot of matches? Getting a few dates or none?

Does the program help you get matches? My problem is that I just don't get matches at all...

Cheers,
Jeet

 

[mindful]

Just got done with my Wed night date... will have the LR up sometime soon.

Jeet, those are some good questions.

I would consider myself above average before i bought the program, not great though and I didn't have a rock solid process. The biggest things that the program helped for me were using a different opener and making sure I reply back to the girls AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. Seriously, this is so key. Don't message a girl as if you do with regular texting i.e. waiting a while to respond. HUGE mistake. Keep firing at her. I would say if the girl responds to my opener my success rate for getting the number is atleast 80%. Between changing up my opener and my next follow up question, this pretty much seals the deal on most the girls. It's pretty crazy really. If a girl is responding back to me quickly, I will usually get the number within 30 mins. No matter what they say back, I just keep following my process and most of the time they follow, but sometimes they fall through (which is good, screens out the ones that aren't down to meet). I recently did a mass texting of about 30 girls that have been sitting in my match list for a while, and my success rate wasn't high at all... only a few replied back. It's got me paranoid about not swiping for more girls until I actually need more in the hopper so to speak.

Last night I actually ventured away from the process a little bit. The girl I was messaging with was sending a lot of information so I carried on a convo with her. When i went to get her number, she wouldn't give it to me because of her own value system of not giving out her number to people she hasn't met in person. I empathized with her and told her it was not a big deal. Well, the very next morning, she sends me a text that she is done with tinder but wanted to give me her number since she thought i was cool. Most girls I meet have not met a lot of guys off tinder, if at all. There is still a lot of opportunity out there if you follow a process such as Colt's.

If you aren't getting matches, you need to take different photos. This is something i've been meaning to do as well. My photos need improvement and I know I'm leaving some higher quality pussy on the table because of this. I actually suggested to my one friend that just got tinder that we need to do a photo shoot, and now he is all for it after not getting many matches. Pictures are critical.