Tinder girls wanting to find out more about "the adventure"

[killerman]

Ok so ive been talkin to a lot of girls on tinder lately and a few times when ive been saying im goin to take them on adventure they often say "what's the adventure?" and insist on finding out what it is before they come out with me. shall i tell them straight that we're gonna fuck or just say I cant tell them, or maybe i should say something else?

 

[Franco]

killerman,

The idea is to subtlety make hints toward getting together -- you rarely want to explicitly state outright what you two are going to be doing. It takes away from the fun of it, and it also leaves her without plausible deniability for how you two met. If it were me, I would probably respond with something like the following:

Her: what is the adventure?
Me: Well, no adventure ever begins with the ending already being written! I can tell you were it begins though: two strangers with similarly quirky interests meet for drinks [you can say coffee, too] at a local pub. From there, the exciting and unknown adventure starts to unfold...

Remember, the idea is to get the date, but leave her wondering where it will go from there. If you used a sexually-charged or direct interest opener, then she knows what it is that you want. So it's your job to get her to meet you off the app. After the above line, if she bites, you can try to get her off Tinder by grabbing her number. =)

- Franco

 

[Zoro]

I'd probably say something like,

"it starts with a beer run through the treacherous (insert local supermarket) and fight the goblin cashiers. AND THEN Shits going to get reeeaal dangerous after that... "

Smile/Wink face is required always.

Just turn whatever you're doing into a adventure epic.

"Exploring the depths of (local park) looking for my treasure maybe a picnic too"

"Drinks at (bar) gathering info from the local gremlins about how to defeat the giant serpent. You can handle fighting it, I'll just watch "

These might be a tiny bit suggestive, so tone down the suggestive themes if its not "on" and make sure you let them know there actually is an adventure going on.

 

[Jeet02]

This thread is a few days old but I am sorta having the same problem. I've had a good success rate with this answer thought:

"This is a wild one so brace yourself - staying in and watching Netflix for 6 hours straight". I think it shows a lot of things, specially some light humor...if she agrees you can invite her to your place right away...or if not you guys can agree to meet out first. After that, you can bring up the Netflix adventure again as an invitation to go back to your place. IT worked for me