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Hey Guys,
So I have posted a couple times about Tinder trying to get advice and feedback. It looks like it finally paid off.
Thank you to everyone involved in this community. In the past 3 months since I started reading the material and then finally beginning to post I have had tremendous results. Phone numbers in double digits and 3 lays including this report. I still have a long long way to go but seeing progress like this motivates me even more and I have only been doing tinder/night game as of yet.
All the doubters of this website need to man up or fuck off. Everything on here that I have been able to apply works.
The match.
I moved into my new place in the city a week and a half ago and started to tinder while unpacking and getting settled and I match this cute redhead who I went to school with but was never friends with. Very outskirts of my social circle.
I open with:
Me: Hey A, exporing the tinder game I see. How is it going for you?
Her: Haha it's been interesting, I have seen quite a bit of dick picks popping up what about you?
Me: It's going. What do you swipe right to all of the 18 year olds? I didn't know people actually did that!
(I apologize if her response offends anyone here but I would like to think no one here is posting dick picks)
Her: All these little Mexican and Asian guys! and its all their profile pics on tinder
Her: I only swipe right for the classy guys, come on now
Me: Ill take that as a compliment!
from there we bantered for a little bit and I tried to challenge her as much as possible and make sure I didn't establish myself as a nice guy. She was getting pretty feisty back so I decided to grab her number...kinda. I remembered a post about actually providing her my number and waiting for a text.
she critqued my typing and I responded
"Me: shots fired...again.
Now tell me do you put in apostrophes in yourself or do you rely on autocorrect."
Her: My phone does it for me.
Me:thought so. well if you want to continue to harass me XXXXXX XXXX. This way I can decide if I want to respond without having to log in to tinder.
She immediatley texted me about how it was such a rude way for me to offer my phone number. But clearly it worked.... becoming more of a dick is creating some great friction for me. Right now I'm at the point where I know most of the fundamentals but implemeneting them on the spot is not as easy. Tinder is currently helping me narrow the gap.
I broke one of the cardinal rules here and somehow recovered. Got caught up flirting and ended up over texting the first two days... FUCK ME. I semi-recovered by responding really really slow until she commented
Her:"Your text response rate is impeccable" -- I waited another day to answer this
Me:"thats my goal. I don't like texting. I like real life interactions."
Fast forward to the day of the hangout
We are meeting up at a bar to watch football. I had a christmas part to go to the night before and was up until 4 AM and slept on a little ass love seat. I'm 6'2 so it was pretty miserable and I wokeup not in any type of mood to go on a date.
I think that shit may have played into my hands though?
Logistics:
WERE ON POINT.
-roomate was out of town for the day
-the bar was in walking distance of my place
-turns out she likes to smoke MJ so I invited her back to get high and watch Ted
This girl is a natural ginger with a cute face and very nice body. Came into the bar wearing yoga pants long sleve ROXY T and a beanie that complimented her retro black frame glasses phenomenally..... To be honest I didn't notice any of this until later beacuse I was not paying attention when she walked in... I had already ordered a beer and a cheeseburger and had not eaten on the day.
I'm sure it wasn't the prettiest site to behold on a first date but I looked much better then I felt.
Dressed up in dark blue Guess jeans( picked them up due to a reccomendation on GC) Black express V neck, black leather clarks Wallabee boots, black clarks belt, and my favorite grey 3 button Guess peacoat so that may have made up for the fact that I was already eating.
She played basketball at the school I went to so even though we were never friends we still knew a lot of the same poeple. Conversation flowed easliy but it was too long because football takes forever. Never going to set up a date to watch football again... dont do it
At one point we were talking about a kid we both knew who sold weed and she mentioned she had not smoked in a while. Saved that note for latter and got her home by asked if she wanted to get high as fuck. If she had said no thanks I would have proceeded to get high and go back to sleep anyway. I was very outcome independent.
She made me order a 3rd beer which I can thank her for beacuse I really began to looseen up and enjoy the afternoon.
Invited her home to smoke she complied with no resistance
After we smoked was when my brain finally turned on. So i began challenging the word vomit that she kept uttering. Girls rarely think before speaking! It is amazing!
We went in to watch Ted and I told myself I needed to escalate within 10 minutes. Got caught up watching Ted, remembered my promise to self and just grabbed her face and started making out. A lot of you guys use a 3 step push-pull and I wanted to try it....
After a minute I did a half-ass push.
Stopped kissing her and took my face just out of range and stared at her with the most lustful eyes.
She tried to kiss me twice and I pulled away.
Then she jumped me!! I gave up on the second push and just started rubbing her pussy on the outside of her yoga pants. turns out her ass and tits were both bigger then I expected. yay!
I didn't know this but apparently its a lot harder for girls to stay wet when high? I like it becvause I last a lot longer stoned.
But it turned into two seperate sessions because she got off and then was dry so I had to wait 5 minutes and before we could go again and then I got of as well.
The second time I was a dumbass and did not put a condom on. So when I pulled out with no condom andddd I was hitting it from behind, I just came all over my sheets WOOPS!
Pros:
- got laid on first hangout
- good logistics
- I didn't mention this but I did not pay for her food
Cons:
- not enough of "sexy man" vibe
- toooooo much texting
- 3 hours at the bar
Again long long way to go but thanks to this community for the kick start.
So I have posted a couple times about Tinder trying to get advice and feedback. It looks like it finally paid off.
Thank you to everyone involved in this community. In the past 3 months since I started reading the material and then finally beginning to post I have had tremendous results. Phone numbers in double digits and 3 lays including this report. I still have a long long way to go but seeing progress like this motivates me even more and I have only been doing tinder/night game as of yet.
All the doubters of this website need to man up or fuck off. Everything on here that I have been able to apply works.
The match.
I moved into my new place in the city a week and a half ago and started to tinder while unpacking and getting settled and I match this cute redhead who I went to school with but was never friends with. Very outskirts of my social circle.
I open with:
Me: Hey A, exporing the tinder game I see. How is it going for you?
Her: Haha it's been interesting, I have seen quite a bit of dick picks popping up what about you?
Me: It's going. What do you swipe right to all of the 18 year olds? I didn't know people actually did that!
(I apologize if her response offends anyone here but I would like to think no one here is posting dick picks)
Her: All these little Mexican and Asian guys! and its all their profile pics on tinder
Her: I only swipe right for the classy guys, come on now
Me: Ill take that as a compliment!
from there we bantered for a little bit and I tried to challenge her as much as possible and make sure I didn't establish myself as a nice guy. She was getting pretty feisty back so I decided to grab her number...kinda. I remembered a post about actually providing her my number and waiting for a text.
she critqued my typing and I responded
"Me: shots fired...again.
Now tell me do you put in apostrophes in yourself or do you rely on autocorrect."
Her: My phone does it for me.
Me:thought so. well if you want to continue to harass me XXXXXX XXXX. This way I can decide if I want to respond without having to log in to tinder.
She immediatley texted me about how it was such a rude way for me to offer my phone number. But clearly it worked.... becoming more of a dick is creating some great friction for me. Right now I'm at the point where I know most of the fundamentals but implemeneting them on the spot is not as easy. Tinder is currently helping me narrow the gap.
I broke one of the cardinal rules here and somehow recovered. Got caught up flirting and ended up over texting the first two days... FUCK ME. I semi-recovered by responding really really slow until she commented
Her:"Your text response rate is impeccable" -- I waited another day to answer this
Me:"thats my goal. I don't like texting. I like real life interactions."
Fast forward to the day of the hangout
We are meeting up at a bar to watch football. I had a christmas part to go to the night before and was up until 4 AM and slept on a little ass love seat. I'm 6'2 so it was pretty miserable and I wokeup not in any type of mood to go on a date.
I think that shit may have played into my hands though?
Logistics:
WERE ON POINT.
-roomate was out of town for the day
-the bar was in walking distance of my place
-turns out she likes to smoke MJ so I invited her back to get high and watch Ted
This girl is a natural ginger with a cute face and very nice body. Came into the bar wearing yoga pants long sleve ROXY T and a beanie that complimented her retro black frame glasses phenomenally..... To be honest I didn't notice any of this until later beacuse I was not paying attention when she walked in... I had already ordered a beer and a cheeseburger and had not eaten on the day.
I'm sure it wasn't the prettiest site to behold on a first date but I looked much better then I felt.
Dressed up in dark blue Guess jeans( picked them up due to a reccomendation on GC) Black express V neck, black leather clarks Wallabee boots, black clarks belt, and my favorite grey 3 button Guess peacoat so that may have made up for the fact that I was already eating.
She played basketball at the school I went to so even though we were never friends we still knew a lot of the same poeple. Conversation flowed easliy but it was too long because football takes forever. Never going to set up a date to watch football again... dont do it
At one point we were talking about a kid we both knew who sold weed and she mentioned she had not smoked in a while. Saved that note for latter and got her home by asked if she wanted to get high as fuck.
If she had said no thanks I would have proceeded to get high and go back to sleep anyway. I was very outcome independent. She made me order a 3rd beer which I can thank her for beacuse I really began to looseen up and enjoy the afternoon.
Invited her home to smoke she complied with no resistance
After we smoked was when my brain finally turned on. So i began challenging the word vomit that she kept uttering. Girls rarely think before speaking! It is amazing!
We went in to watch Ted and I told myself I needed to escalate within 10 minutes. Got caught up watching Ted, remembered my promise to self and just grabbed her face and started making out. A lot of you guys use a 3 step push-pull and I wanted to try it....
After a minute I did a half-ass push.
Stopped kissing her and took my face just out of range and stared at her with the most lustful eyes.
She tried to kiss me twice and I pulled away.
Then she jumped me!! I gave up on the second push and just started rubbing her pussy on the outside of her yoga pants. turns out her ass and tits were both bigger then I expected. yay!
I didn't know this but apparently its a lot harder for girls to stay wet when high? I like it becvause I last a lot longer stoned.
But it turned into two seperate sessions because she got off and then was dry so I had to wait 5 minutes and before we could go again and then I got of as well.
The second time I was a dumbass and did not put a condom on. So when I pulled out with no condom andddd I was hitting it from behind, I just came all over my sheets WOOPS!
Pros:
- got laid on first hangout
- good logistics
- I didn't mention this but I did not pay for her food
Cons:
- not enough of "sexy man" vibe
- toooooo much texting
- 3 hours at the bar
Again long long way to go but thanks to this community for the kick start.
