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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Im getting more matches tnx to better pics/profile. Im getting matched with cuties/sexy honnies. Prob is when I msg them they never hit me up, like ever. The only ones that do are the scammers there so I smh as to why. I like to go direct but have tried stuff from the tinder thread n nothing sticks. Insights por favor.
 

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Eternity,

Recently I am getting increase in matches and there are also nut case women i wish to not elaborate. HAHAHAHA!!! To be honest, I find it is better use of your time to not expect much.

Girls use it for social proof.

Zac
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I want to master best I can since its a good hookup tool. Thus, im all ears on how to improve my grasp on it.
 

trashKENNUT

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Please, i need info too. I am on your side. :)

Zac
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

Bboy100

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Anytime you have a problem on Tinder, the solution is always the same: Get better pics or move somewhere with more of the type of girls who would like your photos.

Im getting more matches tnx to better pics/profile. Im getting matched with cuties/sexy honnies. Prob is when I msg them they never hit me up, like ever.
This is progress. You've gone from "not even on their radar" to "maybe I'll talk to him if I'm really really bored or I don't match anyone more attractive". Bottom line is, your pics need to get even better if you want results.

Another possible thing that might be happening is that you might have a great profile picture, but one or more of your other ones might be shitty. The girl might have swiped right based off your first photo, but then once you actually messaged her, she might have looked through your entire profile and seen something she doesn't like. Keep in mind that it might not be just something about how you look. You might just be doing something douchey/unattractive in one or more of your photos (e.g. if you have a shirtless photo and your target audience is girls over 24, that's pretty likely to be a turnoff.)
 
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