Tips for a College Freshmen?

[Lucky8ball]

Hey guys,

I am now a freshmen at college and really trying to work on my game now. I am attending Arizona State University, a big university that makes it a lot easier to practice daytime approach compared to a high school in the suburbs. If you go to ASU, PM me if you want to go out together at all, haha, definitely down to wing.

I am basically asking for anything here. I am new to college and really trying to get a feel for what I can do. Also, as far as where you were at as far as game when you came into college? and any thing you wish you had known or maybe started earlier to help you in college.

So far the only thing I've been active about is I have a goal every day of the week to talk/meet 3 girls a day, and at least get 3 phone numbers out of each week. In the past three weeks total I've only had one day where I completed my goal.

I'm finding it hard to get over a fear of what other people around me may think if I approach, and a little piece of my soul dies every time I miss a perfect chance to approach. Any advice or articles here?

Anything here is greatly appreciated

 

[Troy]

So far the only thing I've been active about is I have a goal every day of the week to talk/meet 3 girls a day, and at least get 3 phone numbers out of each week. In the past three weeks total I've only had one day where I completed my goal.

Thats a good idea. Don't get discouraged. Just keep grinding. What I suggest you do is continue to set small goals like this. Remember though, if after a while you still aren't going xyz amount of approaches /anything then the problem could be you are going too much out of your comfort zone. If approaching 3 girls is proven too much , lower it to 2 new girls a day. Focus on talking to one in the morning and one in the evening, before and after classes, whatever. Again if 2 is still too much, target one approach per day. And if you're still struggling then post a detailed report and we'll help out further.

Onto what you could be doing as a freshman. Disclaimer first : I haven't been to college so can't give you really detailed info. What I can tell you ( that works in almost every social circle) place is to first and foremost establish yourself .

In the meantime you are targeting xyz approaches per day, focus on making friends. Again push yourself... Though not too much out of your comfort zone. You don't need to know everyone on zone. Make a handful of friends you can hang out with on the weekends .That will give you ways to practice socializing with less pressure while still improving.

Ahh... Conversation is the number one fundamental in my opinion. I advise you focus on developing really good conversing skills. Find cool hobbies, join a frat...etc. Ultimately if you want to make friends with a certain people , watch how they move and what they like . Then learn the basics on what interests them.

Wanna be valuable to the flirty girls ? Know they value excitement so learn to be exciting. Wanna be with the bio chemist students? Know they want friends with high grades and can navigate around the lab.

You get what I'm saying? Good. You'll build social awareness much faster while having fun. Enjoy the game ,love college.

Troy

 

[uForia]

Oh boy, ASU has a very high supply of attractive women and also a high supply of attractive men. You'll definitely be flooded with many opportunities to both learn from other guys and meet women (Which is even more learning). Definitely join a fraternity if you can, I wish my parents would let me join one. You'll definitely meet guys that know how to get women and it's your responsibility to learn from them. With that said, expect many rejections and don't be traumatized if you see many girls not liking you.

And uh, I heard ASU has the highest STD rate so always wear a condom even if it means "risking losing the girl". Unless you study computer science/engineering, your academics are #1 priority. If you do study that, then please exert all of your energy on meeting women so you're not competing with me in the future

 

[Lucky8ball]

Thanks Troy and Uforia for the feedback,

Do you guys really think I should try and rush a fraternity next semester or year??
I just don't like the idea of paying dues for friends :/

 

[uForia]

Thanks Troy and Uforia for the feedback,

Do you guys really think I should try and rush a fraternity next semester or year??
I just don't like the idea of paying dues for friends :/

Depends on how badly you want to get better with women. If your supposed moral inhibitions against paying for friends outweighs your perceived benefits from interacting better with women, then don't rush. The decision is really that simple. I personally believe that as a young male in the world we live in today, there is no room for morals and it's best to just throw them out to gain a competitive advantage at all means possible.

 

[Lucky8ball]

Thanks Uforia and Radeng,

lol You guys are really making me regret not continuing to rush any frats, I guess I'll keep an open mind and go for it next semester.
I just feel like I can do that without joining a frat, obviously not to the same extent however.

I would just like to point out that ASU has a slightly different greek life system than other schools, to my knowledge. ASU doesn't currently have any frat houses, so they mostly rent out apartment complexes around. Greek life is certainly not dead, but it is definitely not a huge thing on campus as it might be at other schools.
Wouldn't this make it a little harder to get laid in frats?
Could be totally wrong.