What's new

FR+  Tipsy girl on a ferry

jdoc

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
Mar 10, 2015
Messages
182
Hey dudes,

I was in Sydney 3 weekends ago with my cousin. We hit Bondi beach, and boarded the ferry back to the city centre afterwards. I noticed a slim, red read with a tattoo on her leg sitting next to me - totally my type of gal. I really wanted to talk to her, but I wasn't sure how to initiate the conversation.

I was talking to my cousin about which club to go that night. There was a cool place with deep house music that we wanted to check out, but the entry fee was ridiculously overpriced so we were considering other options. I turned my head over to the pretty lady next to me.

Me: Are you from Sydney?
[really excited]
Her: Yes!
Me: Oh right! Do you know of any cool clubs to go to tonight?
Her: Ivy!
Me: Ivy?
Her: Ivy!
Me: Oh. Right! What sort of music do they place there?
[she makes an interesting gesture with her hands]
Her: Dance! Dance! Dance!
Me: Dance, dance dance..?
Her: Dance! Dance! Dance!
There was something strange about this girl. It turned out that the club played house music, and everyone there was on a lot of drugs and danced well into the morning. It sounded like one of my favourite clubs in Melbourne, and we talked about that.

It turned out that Abbey was quite tipsy, explaining for her flamboyant personality at that time. She was saying how she'd always wanted to move to Melbourne. I told her that if she came, she'd have a new friend. At this point, she was touching my arm a lot, and I occasionally rubbed her arm with the back of my hand. At one point she got out her phone and wanted to add me on Facebook. We chatted some more, and the vibe was definitely on.

Me: You should come join me in Ivy tonight!
Her: No, I can't! I have no money!
Me: Well do you want to hang out tonight? We could do something else.
Her: Yeah! Let's hang out!
Eventually the ferry docked, and we headed off. I left my cousin behind as she looked for our other mutual friend who sat somewhere else on the ferry. As we left the ferry, Abbey and I linked hands. She was just about to go home and I totally wanted to go on an instant date with her then and there, but I couldn't leave my cousin behind. After more flirting, I told her that I had to go find my cousin. She held onto my hand immediately after.

Her: You are so cute.
Me: You're really cute too.
Her: Make sure you text me okay?
Me: Yep, we'll organise something fun tonight.
I then gave her a hug goodbye. She kissed my cheek and I kissed hers. I then gave a kiss on the lips before we parted ways.

I ended up messaging her that night, but she never responded. She didn't even accept my friend request on Facebook. I'm thinking she would've sobered up and changed her mind about meeting me when she got home... but it could be anything. Kinda curious to hear what you guys think!

Take it easy, fellas.

- Jeff
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Hector Papi Castillo

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Dec 2, 2013
Messages
2,592
Jdoc,

Looks like the steam just cooled off after she got home.

Small nitpicks:

Me: You should come join me in Ivy tonight!
Her: No, I can't! I have no money!
Me: Well do you want to hang out tonight? We could do something else.
Her: Yeah! Let's hang out!

You should be more arrogant with a girl like this. Tattoos, she's tipsy, making wild gestures with her hands. You gotta be a fast moving, fast talking, cocky douchebag with girls like this. They're thrill seekers and need extreme emotions.

Me - Come with me to Ivy tonight

Her - No, I can't! I have no money!

Me - Alright, ya hobo. Let's go (insert something in the area you can do - run around a park, skinny dip, etc; something fun and crazy)

Her - LOL OK

But you were with your cousin...I guess don't travel with people who can't find something to do for a few hours while you smash this broad. I refuse to travel with anyone anymore if they're not okay with me going off for a few hours and doing my own thing.

jdoc said:
Her: You are so cute.
Me: You're really cute too.
Her: Make sure you text me okay?
Me: Yep, we'll organise something fun tonight.

Man, she wanted the dick right then and there. Was that friend of your cousin's coming along, too? They could have paired up with your cousin as you guys go where you need to go and just bring redhead with you. It won't be awkward, since that 4th person can allow you to give most of your attention to your girl. And if you can convince her to go with you, the she can see you be cool with your cousin (is she hot?).

Honestly, I would have kissed her when she said "you are so cute." Anytime a girl gives you a huge window like that, you need to react STRONGLY. Reward her being so vulnerable. I remember this girl just came up in a party after recognizing me from class, yelled "Hector!" and kissed me. I grabbed her, picked her up, took her to the bathroom, and shoved my dick in her mouth.

With this girl, kiss her after she compliments you and grab her ass or something bold. If your cousin will be distracted for a few minutes, you could always take a quick walk with this girl and shag her behind a dumpster or something. Girls will do really, really slutty shit and we miss tons of lays by not remembering we can fuck a girl anywhere, anytime, if she's hot enough for it.

Hector
 

Hector Papi Castillo

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
Joined
Dec 2, 2013
Messages
2,592
Was reading some archived LRs from Lifeguard and he clarified something I think I've been failing to do consistently (and something you could have done differently).

When a girl compliments you, either

1. Accept it with a smile and move on

2. Escalate

3. Ask for investment


By complimenting her back, it's a bit...weak. Not necessarily pussy-ish, but not as strong as it should be. And for SURE don't ask about it "oh really?" or "you do?" which I sometimes still do (I'm still genuinely surprised when really hot girls lose their shit over me...insecurity issues lol).

And when I'm on my shit, I naturally react with 2 or 3 (option one is a bit too aloof for my tastes, but I have done it). If anything, I'll just stare at her with my lion gaze (what a girl whom I fucked last week called my eye contact).

Definitely aboutz to write an article on this (if Chase hasn't covered when girls compliment you).

Hector
 

jdoc

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
Joined
Mar 10, 2015
Messages
182
Anatman,

I think you're right, most of the things you've said seem to make sense. There was a pretty huge escalation window and I think I could've gotten laid then and there if I took advantage of the situation better. Interesting insight on what to do when a girl compliments you too. I've been trying #1 for a while now, and I'm keen to experiment a bit more with #2 and #3 as well.

Cheers for the input, dude!

Jeff
 
Top